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September bus (PART 3!) Boy we're a chatty lot

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DisneyDiva87 · 05/09/2013 13:06

BFPs so far
NannyPlumForPM
mrsmummytobe
BushPrincess

3 BFPs

Awaiting BFPs
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 1st
JosiePosiePuddingAndPie ttc#2, cycle2, bfp 1st
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 1st
Justhayley ttc#2 cycle 5 (months 10) BFP 2nd
clareyfarey ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 3rd
Widget88: TTC #1, Cycle3, BFP 4th
Hendricks ttc#3, cycle2, bfp 5th
Chubbykitty ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 5th
VickyVix ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 5th
Bloumermaid Ttc #1 cycle? BFP 6th
RaRaZ ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 7th
mama31 ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 7th
Positivementakattitude ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 7th
Nulanoo ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 8th
Gingerandcocoa ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 9th
GinandStripes ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 9th
Purplegeekygirl ttc#2, cycle13, bfp 9th
Flame40s ttc#3, cycle2, bfp 9th
Dontsqueezetheteabag ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 10th
MrsHende TTC #2 Cycle 11(!) BFP 10th
ScienceGeekGirl TTC #1 cycle 6 BFP 10th
Englishteacher78 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 11th
Owlie84 ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 11th
Jaykay987 ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 17th
KillashandraRee ttc#2, cycle4, bfp 13th
blamber ttc#1 cycle1, bfp 13th
CoffeeGuzzler ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 14th
Refoca ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 14th
Toffeecrispyum ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 14th
Charleslingus ttc#3, cycle3, bfp 15th
SoMuchFruit ttc#2, cycle2 bfp 15th
Snoozysleeper ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 16th
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle10, bfp 17th
Mistyautumn ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 18th
Italianwilking84 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 18th
Worried ttc#2, cycle18, bfp 19th
Spirael TTC#2 Cycle 1 BFP 19th
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2 cycle 1 BFP 20th
coco808 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 21st
Cupcake1985 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 21st
Fox82 ttc#1, cycle10, bfp 21st
dutchss ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 21st
chattychattyboomba ttc#?, cycle2, bfp 22nd
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 22nd
Purplegeekygirl ttc#2 cycle 14 bfp due 22nd
Bambi27 ttc#2, cycle10, bfp 24th
crazylady2013 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 24th
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 24th
onelifeonechance ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 24th
NottaLotta ttc#1 c3 bfp 24th
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 1 bfp 25th
ImaginaryHat ttc#1 cycle5 bfp 25th
ExactlyWhat ttc#3 cycle1, bfp 25th
Leezl, ttc#1, cycle 2, bfp 25th
Wispaxmas ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 25th
cheesysmile ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 26th
Greenface ttc #1, cycle 2, BFP due 26th
fifi669 ttc#2, cycle6, bfp 28th
Daisychain44 ttc#2, cycle7, bfp 28th
Monkette ttc#?, cycle?, bfp 28th
MrsB2013 ttc #1 cycle 2 bfp 28th
mama31 ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp 28th
gillywillywoo ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
DisneyDiva87 ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
Armylovin ttc #2 cycle 8 bfp due 30th
Lucyfluff TTC#4, cycle 2, BFP 30th
Willows tree ttc#2, cycle1, bfp?
Theborrower ttc#2, cycle2, bfp?
M33r ttc#1, cycle9, bfp?
Seatfor5 ttc#4, cycle5, bfp?
internationallove985 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
ThoraNomiki ttc#2, cycle3, bfp?
onefunkymama ttc#3, cycle?, bfp?
Rockyroller123 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp?
VJONES1985 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp?
BlueC2 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
Lulubelle26 ttc#1 cycle3, bfp ?
DuPainDuVinDuFromage ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp?
Pencilsandprams ttc#2, on cycle 4 bfp?
onefunkymama, TTC #3 Cycle 5 bfp ?

OP posts:
DisneyDiva87 · 12/09/2013 10:00

BFPs so far
NannyPlumForPM
mrsmummytobe
BushPrincess
Hendricks
KillashandraRee
Clareyfarey
Snoozysleeper

7 BFPs

Awaiting BFPs
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 1st
JosiePosiePuddingAndPie ttc#2, cycle2, bfp 1st
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 1st
Widget88: TTC #1, Cycle3, BFP 4th
Chubbykitty ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 5th
VickyVix ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 5th
Bloumermaid Ttc #1 cycle? BFP 6th
RaRaZ ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 7th
mama31 ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 7th
Positivementakattitude ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 7th
Purplegeekygirl ttc#2, cycle13, bfp 9th
Dontsqueezetheteabag ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 10th
MrsHende TTC #2 Cycle 11(!) BFP 10th
blamber ttc#1 cycle1, bfp 13th
CoffeeGuzzler ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 14th
Toffeecrispyum ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 14th
Jaykay987 ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 17th
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle10, bfp 17th
Mistyautumn ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 18th
Italianwilking84 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 18th
Worried ttc#2, cycle18, bfp 19th
Spirael TTC#2 Cycle 1 BFP 19th
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2 cycle 1 BFP 20th
Jessieagain ttc#2 cycle 1 BFP 20th
coco808 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 21st
Cupcake1985 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 21st
Fox82 ttc#1, cycle10, bfp 21st
dutchss ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 21st
chattychattyboomba ttc#?, cycle2, bfp 22nd
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 22nd
Purplegeekygirl ttc#2 cycle 14 bfp due 22nd
Bambi27 ttc#2, cycle10, bfp 24th
crazylady2013 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 24th
onelifeonechance ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 24th
NottaLotta ttc#1 c3 bfp 24th
Pocopearl ttc 2 cycle 1 bfp 25th
ImaginaryHat ttc#1 cycle5 bfp 25th
ExactlyWhat ttc#3 cycle1, bfp 25th
Leezl, ttc#1, cycle 2, bfp 25th
Wispaxmas ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 25th
Breakingbadaddict ttc # 1 cycle 3 BFP due around 24/25th
cheesysmile ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 26th
Greenface ttc #1, cycle 2, BFP due 26th
mama31 ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp 27th
fifi669 ttc#2, cycle6, bfp 28th
Daisychain44 ttc#2, cycle7, bfp 28th
Monkette ttc#?, cycle?, bfp 28th
MrsB2013 ttc #1 cycle 2 bfp 28th
Millymolly01 ttc#2, cycle 3? bfp 28th
GillyBillyWilly ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
DisneyDiva87 ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
Armylovin ttc #2 cycle 8 bfp due 30th
Lucyfluff TTC#4, cycle 2, BFP 30th
Refoca ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 30th
Willows tree ttc#2, cycle1, bfp?
Theborrower ttc#2, cycle2, bfp?
M33r ttc#1, cycle9, bfp?
Seatfor5 ttc#4, cycle5, bfp?
internationallove985 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
ThoraNomiki ttc#2, cycle3, bfp?
onefunkymama ttc#3, cycle?, bfp?
Rockyroller123 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp?
VJONES1985 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp?
BlueC2 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
Lulubelle26 ttc#1 cycle3, bfp ?
Pencilsandprams ttc#2, on cycle 4 bfp?
onefunkymama, TTC #3 Cycle 5 bfp ?
MundayCakes85 TTC #1, cycle 2, BFP ?

OP posts:
DisneyDiva87 · 12/09/2013 09:53

I did have a discussion with him writer (and so did one of his pregnant friends) about there only being a few days in which you can get pregnant. He seemed to accept and understand it at the time but then when I told him I was doing opks and I would let him know that it was positive the pressure was too much for him although he was still on tablets then. I don't know if he has since forgotten that. Because he has been ill I have been hiding how I feel about it but maybe it's time unleash the TTC crazy on him so he knows what I'm going through on top of everything else I do!

My opk was negative this morning but I'm feeling so emotional today I'm predicting a positive this afternoon! I was really crabbit when I woke up as well.

OP posts:
charleslingus · 12/09/2013 09:41

Mama where would sat/Sun be in your cycle? Would it have been when you expected to ov?

As they are Cheapies I would keep going as there is a small possibility that your surge started but ov didn't happen so I think the body often tries again.

Saying that, they are hard to read and I wasn't sure my line was dark enough till af came exactly 14 days later, now I know it must have been a positive and I must have caught the end of my surge as ov seems to have occurred that day,rather than the next 24 hrs.

It looks like you prob tested around the surge, as it is so easy to miss, it could be had you tested a couple of hours later the line would have been even darker. The timings of af were what made opk s make sense for me, but hopefully you won't have one to compare! I would take that as your surge for now, but maybe keep testing just to be sure?

Hope that helps!

Spirael · 12/09/2013 09:40

Woo, congratulations Snoozy and Clarey on your BFPs! :)

Still on the 2WW here... I think I'm 8 DPO on Saturday as well, Choccy. Though I don't know exactly if/when I ovulated, so it's a guess based on normal cycle and timings.

There probably isn't much point testing as early as Saturday, is there? I'm planning on holding out until Tuesday at least. But watch my resolve crumble if you test on Saturday and get a BFP. Wink

After the brief return to utter disinterest from my feline companions, the least most likely cat to sit quietly on a lap spent all of yesterday evening on me, while the other two watched from nearby. Hmm Could be a sign... The cats knew first when I was pregnant with DD!

Writerwannabe83 · 12/09/2013 09:28

I sorry you are feeling a bit down Disney x

Is your husband aware of the very short window you have to conceive or is he like mine and thinks you unprotected sex at any time in the cycle will lead to pregnancy? I tried to explain to my husband the complexities of ovulation and fertile windows but it was only when I gave him actual literature on it that he understood why he needed to 'Step Up' on very specific dates!

DisneyDiva87 · 12/09/2013 09:21

Congrats snoozy and clarey ThanksThanks

Finally some action on this bus.

I'm feeling a bit down today no dtd last night or this morning. Maybe hubby has no idea that you need to have sex to have a baby. Noticed ewcm last night for first time and opks are still negative so I'll just have to pull my socks up and make hubby a dtd offer he can't refuse later. Might have to have a few strong words with him about it too.

OP posts:
jaykay987 · 12/09/2013 09:21

Congrats Clarey!

Spotting has started again (tmi - black crumbs?! Wtf!) so I think AF is on the way!

Owlie84 · 12/09/2013 08:59

Woo, congratulations Snoozy and Clarey!! That's awesome news!

AF has arrived I think, so I'm out for this month :( I'm pretty upset but what can you do. We're at a wedding today, so hopefully that'll take my mind off the inevitable pain I'll be in later on! AF sucks :(

But, next cycle will be the first time I'll be using OPK. I'm just hoping I don't discover that I don't ov or anything...fx!

mama31 · 12/09/2013 08:50

Lol writer my DH is ready for it any time of the day or night...but I love my sleep so we grab opportunities morning, afternoon and early evening when we can! :) I can hardly keep up with him tbh! Lol but I am doing a pretty good job at it this week....pat on the back for me! Haha!

Wispa I believe I'm approaching the dreaded 2ww....I will not obsess....yeh right!

Charleslingus please share your opk knowledge as I'm confused (as always) I got 2nd line sat and sun (was a very strong 2nd line but not just as strong as the control line) had no 2nd line prior to sat and have had no 2nd line after sun. Wtf does this mean??? I'm assuming ovulation was immenent sat/sun?? Help!!

PurpleGeekyGirl · 12/09/2013 08:34

Congrats to the BFPs, that's ace news and just what we needed Grin

Wispa, assuming I have ov'd then I am just starting the tww. Not sure I did ov tho as only had flashing smileys but did get ov pains and ewcm so who the feck knows what's going on! Have 21 day bloods booked for next fri so maybe that'll show something...

wispaxmas · 12/09/2013 08:31

Oh my god, congratulations snoozy and clarey! Thanks Thanks

We needed that after last night, I think Smile

AFM, after my positive opk yesterday H couldn't perform last night Sad so this morning after seeing that my temp had shot up I basically rolled on top of him.. I don't think missing yesterday will hurt our chances, as we'd been going daily until then and I might manage to grab another chance tonight, though I doubt it.

Where are my cycle buddies? Who's just starting the 2ww?

charleslingus · 12/09/2013 08:30

Congrats snoozy and clarey, nice to see some bfp news, hopefully you've started a run of good luck now!

I'm out, af came a whopping 5 days early last night. But started using opks for the first time this month and found out I ov'd earlier than predicted and still had a 14 day lp so kind of had yesterday in mind as 'real' af due date.

It's at least shown me the opks were correct as they were internet cheapies, so am confident in reading them now.

Will keep an eye on the bus to see the forthcoming bfps, good luck everyone!

PurpleGeekyGirl · 12/09/2013 08:28

Hmmm after all that stressing about DP being away, I don't think I'm going to ovulate this cycle after all Sad

Had three days of flashing smiley, and today I got a O, not a fixed one. EWCM all gone too... Is it possible to ovulate without a fixed smiley?

GinandStripes · 12/09/2013 08:28

I spy with my little eye more than one shag a day Snoozy Smile That'll cheer Mr Gin up... just waiting for AF to sling her evil little hook and we can get practicing! Wink

Choccy Very much so, everything crossed for you.

Writerwannabe83 · 12/09/2013 08:27

Ps) Mama, how is your man not knackered??! Grin There's no way me and hubby could have managed that, haha. X

Writerwannabe83 · 12/09/2013 08:26

Congratulations Clarey and Snoozy Grin Thanks
Brilliant news!!

mama31 · 12/09/2013 08:17

Thanks for that snoozy! I'm keeping a record too....have dtd 6 times since sat....must do more..... Lol

clareyfarey · 12/09/2013 08:16

We just DTD a few times a week, I tried not to get obsessed by it all!! Came off the pill in June so I know I have been very lucky

mama31 · 12/09/2013 08:15

Awh choccy hope you get your bfp on sat!!! Wish I knew my exact ovulation day so that I could test 8dpo! Lol (poas addict that I am, I will just be testing willy nilly!)

GillyBillyWilly · 12/09/2013 08:14

Cd17 today and yet another negative OPK Hmm

However my cervix is so high I can hardly touch it Blush and I think I'm getting a little bit if EWCM... Sooooo hopefully ov is on the way.

Bit baffled by my OPKs so far this month because I usually have a faint line every day and then eventually a dark line and smiley face ....Smile

This month I'm not even really getting faint lines... A couple of days I've had a really faint line... Other days theres been nothing! I'm not used to this. There's normally something there! Agghh!

snoozysleeper · 12/09/2013 08:14

I kept a record Blush and we dtd Cd 6,8 (x2), 11,13 (x2), 14,15,17... Sorry if that's tmi but hope it helps

mama31 · 12/09/2013 08:13

Snoozy that seems to be the key!!! Keep shagging ladies!!!!!!! Forget the tiredness....get DH in to bed at the first opportunity!!! My DH didn't get his dinner when he got in from work last night til we dtd lol

Choccywoccydodah · 12/09/2013 08:13

Anxiously in my 2ww mama! Trying not to symptom spot, but I can't help it. Keep going online to see when is the earliest I can test! I'm only 8dpo this Saturday, but apparently it can show that early so will give it a go! Nt holding my breath though!

mama31 · 12/09/2013 08:11

Sorry posted twice!

Thanks for the biology lesson choccy! Lol I def needed that! Not sure when I ovulated but got a 2nd line (quite strong but not just as strong as the control line) both on sat and sun, there has been no line since when I used opks mon, tue and wed. We dtd sat, sun X2, tue and wed so who knows if we've hit it or not! Its all a mystery with my cycle!!

How you getting on choccy??

snoozysleeper · 12/09/2013 08:09

Mama we went for good old dtd as much as possible... I also kept an eye on my CM Smile