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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

First timmers and mid 20's

386 replies

Natty1806 · 14/06/2006 13:25

Hi

Just thought as there was a thread for the older mums (there words not mine)Smile
that i would start one for the younger ones.

Think AF is on her way (fingers crossed) as i normally have 48-70 cycles this will be my first one at 34/35 days - yippee.

It probably won't happen now, anyway feel free to write away.

TTC 11 month - waiting for appoinment at fertlity clinic.

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aprilmeadow · 25/08/2006 18:03

Fingers crossed for you Endlesslove x

Natty1806 · 25/08/2006 17:56

Fingers crossed, try not to drink anything to make wee stonger. Will be on all evening as i am not going out tonight.

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endlesslove · 25/08/2006 17:40

Not yet, work in City so am off home now so when I get in I'll test and let you know. Should be around 7 - 7:30 depending on train times!

As I said before though i have had no feelings so pretty sure I'm staying on the positive for September thread.

Natty1806 · 25/08/2006 17:27

So...have you tested???

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endlesslove · 25/08/2006 12:41

Ooops, thought this was the positive August month - goodness me, I'm going mad!

endlesslove · 25/08/2006 12:40

Hello everyone. Have posted in September but I'm not used to where to post so thought I'd just write in both now!

I'm on CD28 and still no sign of af. Although I just feel no vibes of pg. Brought pg test at lunch - wondering whether to test tonight or not considering I am usually a 28-34 day cycle.

How is everyone else doing?

aprilmeadow · 24/08/2006 18:46

Well i bought the test at luchtime whilst in town with dh. He then took it home so that i wouldnt test at work (did last time and phoned him to tell him the news!). Got home at about 6.10pm and tested straight away - didnt expect it to be positive. Walked out of the bathroom with test and broke the news. It feels totally different to last time, i dont know if thats because i kind of know what to expect....

Apparantly the cat knew before me as did a friend of mine, whos 12yr old dd asked her if she thought i was pg coz i looked tired!!! Have stated telling people, just coz i am crap at keeping secrets!!

Natty1806 · 24/08/2006 12:13

Congrats from me.

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endlesslove · 23/08/2006 20:59

Congratulations on your exciting news of bfp! Heres hoping I'll be joining you this month! Are you starting to tell people yet, i.e. family and friends or are you going to wait? Did you test with dp or how did you tell him. so exciting!!!

aprilmeadow · 23/08/2006 19:12

thank you

Xavielli · 23/08/2006 19:11

WoooHooo! Go AM!!!!! Congrats!

aprilmeadow · 23/08/2006 18:30

hi, I am home and have tested.............. BFP!!!! I am normally a 28 day cycle but today is CD29 and wasnt really expecting her til tomorrow as last month was 30days

oh my god, totally shocked as i felt af was coming!!!!!!

endlesslove · 23/08/2006 17:31

Thank you for keeping your fingers crossed for me. I'll keep you posted. Not to hopeful though as I'm not getting any signs. Should I be?

x

Natty1806 · 23/08/2006 17:27

Welcome, fingers crossed you have a bfp in a few days.

Keep us posted. x

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endlesslove · 23/08/2006 15:09

Hi there, just thought I'd join in your thread as I'm 23 and ttc number 1. On second month of ttc and am on CD26 of a 28-34 cycle. According to Clearblue ovulation sticks i ovulated last Tuesday so am just bearing up the 2ww.

How is everyone doing?

Thanks for posting the list of whats needed and costs etc. Very useful.

Xavielli · 22/08/2006 21:51

P.S... You will never believe the amount of washing a small baby can cause!!!!!

Xavielli · 22/08/2006 21:49

I bottle fed both of mine, we all know breast is best but do what is best for you.

I had a moses basket when mine were tiny, only because my sisters son had just out grown it. Pushchair would be fine in the day time, you don't tend to want to put them down anyway! lol

Nearly all bouncy chairs are suitible from birth I have This one and I love it! Lays flat and sits right up for weaning etc.

Natty1806 · 22/08/2006 19:44

Thanks, so if i managed to save £1000 that should cover it? With the bonucy chair can you put them in as a new born? Also did you put yours in bigs cots when you brought them home? If you had a pram could you put them to sleep in that in the day if you wanted them in the front room with you?

think the washing machine will be on twice a day rather than the usual once.

sorry i have loads of questions maybe i should buy a book. LOL

Not too sure about breast feeding as i would like DP to do at least one night feed to start with but i know breast is best.

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Xavielli · 22/08/2006 19:27

Sorry Natty, got snowed under last night with DIY.. Oh the joys!

I figure I may aswell just post it on here.

Big stuff first;

Cot/Cotbed. - £60-£200 (I got a cotbed off ebay, brand new Hauck mickey mouse design £110... Lasts til they are 5 yo.) You can get Moses basket for about £70 with a stand, they are cute but a real waste of money to be honest.. only get about 3 months use, max.(Having said that, they are good if you like the idea of the baby laying flat when downstairs/at other peoples houses.) Cot sheets are about £10 for a pair in mothercare.

Pushchair - £50-£300 (I have the sherpa Urban Detour 3 wheel travel system from mothercare, was £295 new.. can get them new off ebay now for around £80!Most buggies come with a change back and raincover etc. It is a wonderful buggy. There is so much range though.. I found it the hardest thing to pick)

Steriliser - £35 (Thats the Avent Steam steriliser... very good, half way doing Babyno2's bottles.)

Bouncychair - £30 (Preferably one with handles for screaming trips to the lavvy etc) Great once the baby has out grown the moses basket and is getting nosey.

Smaller stuff;

6 x Sleepsuits - £20 depending on where you buy them... thats a rough mothercare price.

bodysuits/vests - £10-12 They come in packs of 7. Great if it is cold as an extra layer. DD was an April baby so has spent all summer in just bodysuits, good buy all round.

2 x little outfits - £30 I wouldnt recommend any more than this because when they are born people will give you soooooo many little outfits that they will just be forgotten. Sleepsuits are much easier for the first few weeks, the amount of puke and leeky poop they get on them is unreal. I say 2 outfits, just for visiting family.

Jacket - £10-15 Get one no matter when it is due, they need to be yummed up all warm! get a little pair of gloves too, or scratch mitts.. they only stay on for 5 mins but they keep their little fingers warm. mitts are about £1 for 2 pairs.

changemat - £7

BIBS!!!!!!!!!! - £5 per 4 roughly. Honestly... you can never have enough bibs. I'd put one on DP if he'd let me! lol

socks - £4 per 5 pairs in mothercare.

little hat - £3

Nappies - £14 for 2 economy Pampers newborn packs. This will probably be all you need.. they grow sooo fast.

cottonwool - £2 for about 300 yards of the stuff. For first nappy changes and freshen up wash, washing their eyes etc.

Bottles - £13 For 6 which is a good number to have, its about what you will use a day, If you bottle feed of course. Boobs are much handier! lol

Blankets - £3-£10 each.... I'd get about 3 (poop and puke reasons) as everyone else will get loads too.

I can't think of any other real necessitities at the moment... If anything else comes to mind I'll let you know. Loads of things you think run of the mill for babies are actually luxuries!

Natty1806 · 21/08/2006 17:52

Thanks hun x

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Xavielli · 21/08/2006 17:41

Sure thing Natty, will do it tonight once the babies have gone to bed.

Natty1806 · 21/08/2006 14:25

Hi X

Can i ask a favour? Can you type me up a list of things i would need to buy etc for a baby and rough costs, just want to get an idea of how much money i am going to need to save.

you can e-mail it to me [email protected]

thanks

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Xavielli · 20/08/2006 23:03

Oh and yes... the soldier and his pig are my little angels! lol

Xavielli · 20/08/2006 23:03

lol trust me Natty... when you have done it twice and still want 2 more ('we' want 4 in total, I used the term we loosely.. DP would keep going til we dropped! lol) you'll be begging for twins... thats what I'm putting my order in for next time! lol.

Yes, we will get married first. I am happy with my little family as it is at the moment. Enough to be going along with me thinks. Gunna wait til these two have been shipped off to school to go for the twins

BTW WABN, been looking out for the jungle jacket from PP etc... I can't find it anywhere, not even on eBay I am very that you have a sleigh bed for your wee one!

Natty1806 · 20/08/2006 10:22

X- think i saw them yesterday was it the solidor and his pig?? LOL

They are brilliant.

broody again, think maybe DP would want you to get married first? then onto baby no 3? How many do you want in total?

I would love 4 but in reality i will prob be 2 due to finances but we will see.

Yeah put that order in for me for June as June is my birthday but not too sure about the twins though.

Hi to everyone else.

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