Ttc after an early miscarriage, any advice appreciated

Pps Doug was meant to be doing in my first sentence of my first post....I'm delirious from sleep deprivation because my friend is on us time hence rambling...

Ps Leon's, try to stay positive. Your upcoming scan will give you an explanation, which even if negative (fingers and toes crossed it's not) will still be a relief because at least you have answers/diagnosis and which you can deal with. It's the not knowing that's so unnerving. Will be thinking of you. Take care of yourself x

Congrats mrsA! And you too nelly! Hope all you other preggers ladies are Doug fabulous too.

I had my op last Wednesday, had bleeding and real sore for ages...and my friend from US decided to surprise me, so not really been able to recover properly as been running around...

Anyway, next is pcos treatment...I don't even know if it's worth trying at mo as on cd14 but only had op last wednesday(cd7) which means i prob should wait AF to heal my uterus? Oh I dunno...I'm so desperate for a baby It scares me that I'm not prepared to let my body heal which could end up causing more probs.

Take care all. Will check in soon xxxx

Congrats Nelly, really pleased for you

Leons so sorry things aren't settling down for you yet. Try to relax and hopefully the scan will give you some insight.

More good news, congratulations NellyOC. This is a lucky thread I think, so Im going to continue loitering, hope some of you will stick by us.

greenone you asked how I was doing. I was doing okay the last few weeks because I felt better in myself and I felt like I was in the midst of a normal cycle, Im not ttc this month or next, thought I would wait 2 cycles. (still very jealous of anyone trying, in 2ww, peeing on sticks, etc). I hadnt even tracked ovulation, just ignored it all. My plan was to start using OV sticks from November, and start TTC December. But now not sure if my cycles are back to normal or whats going on, as Im bleeding yet again at CD20 (this happened last month too). I have a scan next Tuesday, hopefully will get some answers. I was so sure I was back on normal track and the scan was just going to confirm this. Now Im worrying.

HollyBen I was in exactly the same position just a couple of months ago. So so frustrating wanting your cycle to get back to normal. I can't imagine it will be much longer now. Are you looking after yourself? :) I found keeping really busy helped.

NellyOC really exciting news for you. I do t think we have met properly. I too am finding this 12 week period extremely hard but think we all need to keep positive and be healthy and keep our fingers crossed xx

Congratulations MrsA.

Just to say that after my post on here I took a pregnancy test on Saturday, then 3 on Sunday including a digital, and they were all positive. We can't believe how blessed we are to have concieved so quickly after a miscarriage, however we're both trying not to get too excited and remain grounded. It's going to be a long wait until 12 week scan.

Also Saturday was three years to the day that I found out I was pregnancy with my DS. And this due date (according to my calculations) is a day different to with him.

Hi all reassuring to hear of all the BFPs. I am still waiting on AF so we can start TTC again. It will be 6 weeks on Wednesday since my EPRC. Caved an POAS again this morning. It was a BFN which I was expecting but I am feeling really down now. I have never wished so much that AF would put in an appearance.

MrsA if you look under pregnancy then ante-natal clubs then look for June 2014! Booking in, come join the fun .... then you should find it. Its a thread for ladies due in June next yr but also a couple 1st July and 31st May iykwim.

Greeneone glad you're still doing ok ... you should pop into June thread as well, everyone is really nice.

I still plan on checking in here to see how everyone is getting on but don't want to be annoying with my pregnancy worries when people here are ttc.

MrsA!!!!!!! YAY!!!!! I have had a crappy few days and your post has really made me smile. Wooohoooo!! :)

Really excited for you! Still holding on our end but very tempted to go for a private scan at 8 weeks as I just can't take the anxiety of waiting :(

Leons how are you getting on? Hollyben hope you don't have to wait too much longer for AF. It's so frustrating. Rant and moan away - that's what the thread is here for.

Brilliant news MrsA!! So pleased for you x

So thrilled for you Mrs A. I had to read your original post to remind me of your history and then I remembered those awful few days you had in hospital, but now look at you. Great news.

Ah MrsA yep totally know that feeling. I'm 7+1 today and starting to calm down a bit with all the worry, although had tummy ache last night and was so nervous going to the loo. Ive always had a bit of a dodgy tum though so can't expect not to now just coz preggers, but still was feeling pretty worried. FX for all of us this time round.

I'm on the June ante-natal thread if you fancy joining.

Yay MrsA im so so happy for you!!!!

Yay!!!!! Good old trusty digi.

Remember my mantra - conception within 6 months of MC = less likely to encounter problems. And repeat.

Fingers crossed for this morning! I am no expert but I don't think you would necessarily expect darker a much darker line after a day.

After what you have been through I don't think anyone can blame you for being paranoid. I do think you should see the doctors about your shoulder pain - hopefully they can put your mind at rest on that from.

xx

Mrs A - sounds promising , sounds like a BFP to me : ). Congrats !

That faint line is where it all begins

I've never been sure until I've seen the words on a digi. Get one get one get one. Time for the big guns!!!!

So so so very happy for you Mrs A... I feel like we've been through this together!!! xx

Woo hoo Mrs A! Congratulations x