Positive July Please!

Fabulous!
What else does anybody use to get them going?
My dh bought some v expensive cream that you put on the most sensitive part (you get me?) and it warms up and is really quite good!

oooh we have one of them SOL!!!! They are great! Dd was conceived after just one bd too. It seemed so simple- I saw ewcm, had sex and hey presto I was pregnant. I naively assumed it was that easy. Now I have had a 6 month wait for af to return and to be fair this will only be second month of proper trying but it just seems much harder! I think the less you know about ttc the better in some ways as you just assume you'll get pregnant. Now I find myself thinking about positons, timing, diet, etc. I even waited until my period was 5 days late before testing last time- no way will I be able to wait that long again!

Wrighty the trouble with ttc is you have to be nice to your dh if you want any action so I think man bashing on MN is a wonderful thing! Mine would give up the whole ttc thing sooner than the gym I think, although he has agreed it stops when we have another baby. He has a bodybuilding comp in March and then that is it! Or divorce! (as long as I'm pregnant by then- he has his uses!}
He would kill me if he knew I wrote this stuff

Hi Bobblehead, I guess the more times you bd the better, but who knows. With dd, we only bd'd twice and was was conceived! Thought second time around would be the same, but sadly not!
Did it loads last month and was still not successful, so maybe more is less as the saying goes!
Me and dh got one of those Durex Play things (like a mini vibrator on a band that fits on dh's doodah) and my word, that is a wonderful invention!
Sorry to be so basic, but I have been dying to sing its praises, but too embarrassed in RL!!!

Bobblehead - I'd carry on for a few more days too if you can muster the energy after all that!!!!

I reckon you need more bd action esp when ttc. Go to Ann Summers and get yourself a bit of kit..then see if the gym is so important!!!! He'll have to ditch his routine when dd/ds arrives anyway not sure baby would be so understanding. He might as well get used to it. Sorry if this sounds harsh had run in with my dh and feel like bit of man bashing!!!!

How does this sound for a bd'ing schedule, assuming I ov cd21, bd days 17,19,20,21?

Quite honestly dh and I do not have high sex drivesand what with his work and bodybuilding routine (again) and dd getting me up early neither of us are up for it more than once a week! D you think that will suffice or do I need to prepare him to put in more hours in the bedroom?

(Definately can say more on here than in RL!!!)

I LOVE MUMSNET!
You are so right Wrighty. The stuff said on here could not be repeated in RL - well some of it that's for sure!
I really hope things get sorted for you and you can get back on track with ttc.
We will be bdíng again tonight I expect! Mind you, feel so knackered all I want to do is crash out.

lol SOL! i know what you mean about disclosing your darkest secrets on here. We don't know each other at all but we know each other better than our nearest and dearest if you know what I mean! God, the wine must be kicking in already- I'm getting emotional about my cyber friends!!!!!

Oh Beccy, chin up hun bun. It's so hard being a woman isn't it. Fingers crossed af stays away.
xx

i had my wine last night. feeling yucky today, not wine, just totally peed off, dull back ache, pounding head (weather) & waiting for imminent AF prob on monday. ruining my w'end.

bugger

but i hope you are all well & dandy & that whatever you wish for comes true.

I need the wine to get me in the mood to bd! Dreadful eh! Could never admit that anywhere else!

I've been going for the "relaxed" approach all week with a glass of red wine (large) each night. No bd'ing though so unlikely to aid conception!

I am already on the vino collapso - dreadful behaviour!
Hey ho. I figure you can't keep off the stuff forever while ttc.
Can't wait for BB either - how exciting!!

Sorry, Beccy not Becky!

Thats the one Becky!

wrighty, you have a fab evening & try & forget about the stupid bloody hormones :--)

wrighty, you have a fab evening & try & forget about the stupid bloody hormones :--)

the toni one, about fertility? can't remem title.. that the one?

what book is that?

Wrighty you will get af Friday morn on way to GP for sure, cos thats the kind of cruel tricks she plays on you! Hope it sorts itself out. When I stopped the pill my first cycle was 56 days then I conceived the following month so don't feel too dispondant.

I have just ordered the book everyone talks about!

so excited for new house thing tonight. Gonna get bottle of wine and some maltesers

Hi Wrighty - another BB fan! Hurrah. Sorry to hear things are still out of sorts.
Hopefully things will sort themselves out - if not the GP should be able to shed some linght.
Take care hun. x

still no af (i'm starting to repeat myself aren't I?!). Day 42. Boked dr appt for next fri if still no sign as that'll be day 49. Feel like i'm goin to explode. Boobs massive and constant cramps in lower abdomen, hence can't think af anything worse than bd. Bit of a problem when ttc. Put 2lb on in weight watchers too so am not a happy bunny. Went to take away on way home to console myself. Oh well at least it's fri and bb is on. Life aint that bad is it?!

hello all just dropping in briefly

Am on cd13 today, and am sure I ovulated today as had cramps and had ewcm for past couple of days. But totally trying not to think about it all - if it's meant to be and all that.

Spoke to my mother the other night and said we'd thought of going on holiday to Florida next year, and she implied that we should stop ttc so as we wouldn't be pg or have a baby - insensitive cow.

Hope everyone else ok?

Thanks Bobblehead. I am sure it is nothing to worry about, and you are probably right - just old stuff! Want to bd tonight, so hopefully it will clear off!