The July BFP bus PART 2 - All aboard the lucky magical number 7

Thank you Lee, better luck to you. Had a great night on the voddie but have to admit I had a wee cry earlier, it's allowed though given the circumstances eh?

good luck to you Linda.

Cd 29 and still no af here.

Can't remember last time my cycle was over 27 days. trying not to get hopes up. I had bereavement couple wks ago, I think stress etc can impact cycle, have others found that? so thinking maybe that's the cause?

londa hope all works out for the best for you and your family

vikki sorry you feelin down. We all get times like these. how was party? Did it help?
Gl for tomorrow gin and dumdee

Dumdee, they are sneaky in saying that it's 6 days before your missed period, which is therefore 5 days before day of AF. However, it's still so early you might get a false negative. But you can always try!

Right help me think this through... First response tests are good from 6 days before AF correct? And that must be based on a 14 day luteal phase, right? So in fact that is 8 dpo? I'm somewhere between 8-11dpo now, so I could test with fmu tomorrow morning if my logic is right?

Just realised I have got my dates jumbled! AF actually due on the 17th.

Got some tests today... might poas tomorrow, as I got some early ones, as well as digital ones. Might've gone overboard - boyfriend was horrified at how much money I was about to spend. All for a good cause I say!

She is a super cow. We have only been trying a couple of months now so my worry isn't really justified but I am a worrier oh is usually up for dtd regularly but appears this weekend nay be doomed fir dtd I bet i will out this month. Im very negative today right that's it im off to my mates party im drinking cider and relaxing about the damn thing. Luckily none if those mates have kids

Temp has stayed down so think that's it for me this month. AF not due for a week but I'm very sure she will turn up on time. Will be joining the August bus next weekend.

Thank you gilly, we plan on having lots of fun holidays now so looking forward to all that and whatever else life brings Good luck to you and everyone else, I hope to see lots of bfp's coming up

That's a really, really bitchy thing of that woman to say!!! Super cow alert!! Sounds to me like you may be jealous of your her son, but she may be jealous that the dad belongs to you. If she said that to me I think I would smash her face in

My husband was also a bit of a Lothario in his day - or so he says. I stand by the myth that is those who talk about it the most are the ones who do it the least [ grin]

However, he is now 30 so it was a while ago - and I'm pretty sure I was a bot more of a goer when I was 20 too, haha.

Thankfully, now we are HAVING to have regular sex it seems to have woken up his urges somewhat. I think before we started trying to conceive we had let ourselves get into a sexless rut.

However, he also very recently found out that I have been pregnant before, many years ago, and so maybe he feels he has something to prove. Who knows what goes on inside a man's mind?!

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being envious! I think women as a whole are a very jealous species, I have been jealous of loads of other girls (I.e ex girlfriends) for a majority of reasons, and ones that are far less justified than your reasons!!

How long have you been TTC?

X x

Mine is the same writer, the fact is he was a bit of a player before he met me and settled. He has a son who is sitting next yelling at the FIFA players on playstation and I am aware that before that he had in his teens two other accidents that did not result children. So his experiences are that its happens extremely easily, but i have this horrid feeling for no real reason that its going to be very hard. His son is 9 years old so its been a good 10 years since an accident has happened and Ive been on the pill ever since I met him 6 1\2 years ago.

Is it really bad I am jealous of these women who were with with him and got pregnant without even trying. Its very bad being this envious of these past women, it doesnt help the mum of his son constantly is saying how he is her life and the best accident, if you had children you would understand agggghhhhh

sorry to offload

Well they say that people conceive when they stop trying. So maybe you shouldn't go on the Pill and See if nature takes its course

Thank you tea

Writer we decided to stop ttc and just focus on our 2 sons, getting too old and tired for the on demand dtd, lol

Vicky : what a difficult situation to be in. If only men could understand just how hard it can be. My husband thinks that you can pregnant at any time of the month if you have unprotected sex. I explained about the 12-24 hour window and he didn't believe me! grr!!

Oh Linda I really admire you

Having woken up at 6am with dd like I do everyyyyy day, I've already had an hour's nap. Weird. 7dpo and damn impatient now!

Oh Linda, why are you out for good?? x x

That's me out for good gilly, going on the pill now

bahhh oh wont dtd, I havnt ovd yet but the line on opk has started to get darker today but not equal to control line. I was trying to dtd ever other day which would have been yesterday but OH not want to and he didnt this morning :( and I really feel Im missing an opportunity here I think I may OV monday or tuesday and I wanted to dtd fri or sat morn as i wont be here sat or sunday morning. Boo sorry for the moan but OH would just feel guilty and probably cause an argument and I dont want him to feel used either.

Spoke too soon, just been to the bathroom and there's blood so af is on her way Good luck to everyone and I'll hang around for a bit to see how some of you get on

Lee I'm just going to use what I have left of the cheapies and if af is still a no show by Friday I'll go and see my gp for a blood test