TTC #2 and turning into a nut job! Part 2!

Hi piglet. That is really odd. I know you shouldn't give up until AF turns up, but I have learnt from this forum that if AF is late and you are getting BFNs then it's not normally the news your after. I so hope I'm wrong in this case. I suppose you may never know what's gone on. Fingers crossed very tightly

Hmm still no AF but definite bfn on tests. Obviously something a bit weird going on.

I've been taking pregnacare and that has a very high dose of vitamin B6 which is supposed to lengthen cycles - do you think this ought have affected it? Other possibility is that I didn't ovulate and so am just going to have to wait for the withdrawal bleed and try again after. It's pretty weird, I'm never late and my luteal phase is always 13 days...so maybe I did ovulate later than I thought (but it would be weird if I did ass I had very definitely positive opks...)

Hope you a all ok today!

Muzzy, hopefully you'll ov soon and DH swimmers will be there waiting. And I'm sure your dd is off and playing happily by now.

Good luck GandT. Hope your one of the lucky ones who gy lucky first time though I will be very jealous!!.

I swear if I don't get pregnant this month I am def doing OPKs next month

Oh muzzy - give dd a couple of days and she will be waving you off again! (Sometimes that's worse as you think they don't want you!!) I remember crying on train and bus whole day tonoffice when first left ds. Awful!

Legoland not legal! Silly phone!

The disappearing dildoos is like when abi left us all in suspense with her bfp!!! dildoos where are you?! Legal and can't have been that great you stayed for another week?

Good luck gand. Every 2 days from now will be plenty.

He is away 5 days but I'm hoping last nights swimmers will still be around, especially if I ov tomorrow.

Am sitting on the train to work trying not to cry, DD just moved from the baby to toddler room at nursery and she was bawling her eyes out crying 'mummy home' when I left her this morning. feel terrible

Right, today is the day that we start. Very excited and thank you all for kindly telling me to get over myself!! . Not entirely sure about days etc, but just figured that if we start dtd round about now that would be a good guess (Af finished 3 days ago).
Not even dtd yet and already having to make myself walk away from preg test aisle in supermarket!

Hope everyone is feeling positive today and that your LO is feeling better Fedup

good morning ladies

fedup thanks for the heads up! no more ibuprofen the cupboard is clear

2be sorry about the job. Hopefully something will come up soon

kp glad you are feeling better.

muzzy will your DH be away for a long time? he might return on time or as fedup mentioned yoy might already have a few swimmers waiting for the egg

keepthecar it's a strange feeling yo see dc in a big bed, isn't it?

Both DH and I have a bad cold... hopefully we will be better by Wednesday when we need to start dtd.

I hope everyone will have a good week.

Ps 2be it always bugs me when the appoint internally as they know that's what they want to do from the start and are just going through the motions. Hope you aren't too disheartened as nowt personal by this.

muzzy hopefully you have dtd during the fertile bit before ov so even it you do ov today or tomorrow there are some swimmers up there ready to meet the egg?!

Ds loads better today thanks ladies. Just remembered I've got my am i ovulating blood test today... So better get a shift on as at 8.45!

kp got the giggles about you smoking in France because it made you feel French!

Oh more... 2be sorry about the job, it sucks doesn't it? I'm job hunting too, can't see myself in my current role much longer...

Good morning everyone and thanks for all the get well wishes yesterday! Had a good day actually in spite of feeling woozy. PIL took ds to an open-air museum/city farm while DH and I went to buy a new bed for ds. Nothing like a bit of flatpack furniture to focus the mind then a late Sunday roast and a reasonably early night! So now ds has his big boy bed and the toddler bed is all empty... Hmmmm
Still no real symptoms to report except for sore boobs and slight cramping, but I guess it's mostly in my head. I'm holding out testing until Saturday, I've run out of tests and not buying any before then so notning to tempt me.
hello welcome! New POAS buddies When we started ttc I cut down on and but 8 months on not so much, hence the hangover! oh and I smoke too
How's everyone this morning? I feel it's going to be a loooong week for me not testing... kp I hope the infection clears up quickly!

He's back Friday night 2be. ! I think I'll ov tomorrow or Wednesday so pretty shitty timing!

muzzy rubbish timing! When is he due back?

Sorry cross post-sorry about the job 2be. Maybe it is for the best with the whole ttc business!

dildoos where the blood hell are you?

oh and bonjour hello! I lived in France for a year during university years and smoked whilst I was out there. I felt more french that way ;o)

Hi liquid- thanks! Feeling better now so hoping I won't have to go to docs for antibiotics. I drank a river of water and cranberry juice over the weekend so hoping that did the trick.
Well done on cutting from 4 coffees to 1! I'm impressed. I'm down to 2. And will try to cut down to my one at morning. I did give up totally when I was pregnant but there's a lot more incentive when you see the line isn't there!
fedup do you often get painful boobs? That does sound a bit odd to have that if there is nothing happening? Don't want to add to your nuttiness though! I didn't have sore boobs in either previous pregnancy so I can't have phantom sore boobs!!

Sorry about the job"2tobe*

Hi everyone this thread has been really busy.
Welcome to all the newbies.
one I just read your post and my dh said the same thing to me a few months back about how I should be happy we have dd!! I could have decked him....
Sorry kp about your urine infection...they are going round! All the sex I guess!
fedup glad the lollies worked for ds. Good luck wit poas, thank god for Internet cheapies hey.

I haven't stopped anything either...I like to think I've cut back on booze but I don't think I have. We had a really busy weekend and I drank a lot....and had a few ciggies! Oh well.
Thanks for the ibuprofen tip fedup!

Well I'm on cd17 and still not had a positive opk and dh has just left for the airport! Ffs!!

Sorry to everyone I've missed.

Morning ladies!!

Any news one? Don't give up just yet, dies it feel like AF is on her way?

fedup wow! POAS every day - impressive!!

I am currently having a month off from booze. Not really for ttc reasons (although conveniently my 'month' goes from AF to AF) but just because I realised I was having a glass most nights. Plus they're wasted calories. And since pregnant with dd I only drink decaf tea anyway, I honestly can't tell the difference!

In other news I didn't get the job. Apparently I was appointable but they gave it to an internal. First thought was oh well at least I can carry in ttc!!

Sorry posted before I meant too. I can confirm deffo no green or sparkly pubes. Not at the stage when I will be posting a photo for you all to check either!!

one any sign of af yet? It could mean you ov'd late yes... Or even popped one than one egg out!

liquid your post reminded me of something I read elsewhere on MN. Ibuprofen can affect ovulation so not a good idea to take when ttc. It can delay it apparently. Ok to take during af for pain but best to stop after that. That news had everyone emptying out their medicine cabinets (if anyone still has those) all over the country!! I take it during af (paracetamol dont really touch my pain) and stop after day one / two which are most painful. Thought might be something worth sharing!

Morning!
Woke up to excruciating boobs but a bfn. I've decided I'm just testing every day til af arrives now. On the concept of 'I've started so I'll finish' kinda thing. I know it will get til fri / sat and I will feel a bit doom and gloom but hey that's what us POAS addicts do!

Hello everyone and welcome to heloelo and engine else I might have missed!

Well AF was due today and I've had period type cramps all day today, sore breasts, emotional etc. she hasn't shown up but I'm still getting a bfn. Also getting quite a lot of clear cm (sorry tmi). Very confused. I did opks this month and ff thinks I ovulated on cd 16 but I did have some ewcm after this so maybe I ovulated later? Well i will see if posting this brings on AF!

I want to read this thread properly as there have been loads of posts today! Hope you are all ok and sorry for not replying to each of you properly.

Hi Ladies
I have wanted to post since Wednesday! But it?s hard to do it on the mobile and I had a busy week and weekend. So here it goes a long post (apologies )

Fedup I hope your DS is better. My DS had HFM and he was poorly for a couple of days. And about the scan! What an emotional roller coaster. I hope you are feeling slightly more positive by thinking that at least it was flagged and you will have a follow up. You made me laugh about POAS. It is so good to know I am not alone when it comes to obsession poas

Marbles I nearly fainted when I read your post about ttc after 6.5 months . I took me 3.5 years!!

KP I seriously loved your idea. Green/sparkles hairs! I hope someone in the field of science/biochemistry/pharmacy has a look at this thread and tries to give it a go. Can you imagine? You might just have revolutionised the whole pregnancy thing Sorry to hear about the urinary infection. Hope you will get better soon

pizza I was very impressed with your ?nearly every day?. I hope you can keep the rhythm this month

Tallatime good luck with all your tests, but I hope you will get a BFP before you go the fertility clinic

Abibu I hope you are feeling less tired.

Allboxed I was also very confused about the OPK lines. This month I decided I will use a digital one. We haven?t told anyone in RL that we are ttc, but people keep asking about it. We have the ?excuse? that DS was a preem, hard work...

GandTnow I agree with everyone else. I would give it a go. You really can?t control how things will go.

Miss have you bought ?hide?the tests? My favourite gift was the babybjorn! Enjoy your holidays

getagoldtoof I have never checked my temperature. But a rise is a good thing! Good luck

Keepthecar welcome. I hope having your PIL around wasn?t too hard.

onelittlepiglet the gift registry is an odd concept to me( but I am a foreigner). It seems a bit ott!
I hope things are okay now between you and your DH. Even though men can be very supportive they seem to forget how sensitive hormonal we are!

Hello Welcome

I have reduced my caffeine intake. I was drinking 4 coffees a day and I have cut it down to one. I found very hard. I had headaches for two weeks. But I thought it would be better to do it now that I can take some ibuprofen/ anadin extra, etc rather than when pregnant. I don?t drink much alcohol, so that is easy to control.

Af arrived last week, so I am getting ready to start OPKs this week and a lot of dtd. We are going on holidays next week, so that would be good to relax.

Sorry if I have missed some people. I hope you are all doing well.
I?ll keep my fingers crossed for the next BFPs!

Good luck to everyone and I hope will have a good week.

Hello everyone. Yes, yes to the imagined symptoms. I think I have "super smell" every month which was a symptom of my previous pregnancies and also have an unhealthy interest in my cervical mucous.

Had a funny day today. I'm still trying out the OPK sticks and still not seeing anything (though on 11 days post AF). As I have a 23-25 day cycle I'm a bit worried by this. I'm convinced this will not be month for the first time since we started trying (so obviously secretly hoping I will use reverse psychology on my body!).

Anyway, got a wedding invite today for a wedding abroad in July which I'd love to go to but obviously the first thing my mind started doing was counting the months until then and wondering if I would pregnant or have a newborn or be around a potential due date. It just made me feel sad as I wanted to be excited about the wedding but it just reminded me of how it hadn't happened yet.

I then had a chat about things with a good friend who has 2DC and nearly got teary (though I don't think she noticed). I think she was trying to be nice but she started saying she had a dodgy ovary as she took 2 months to conceive both her DC and saying things like, don't worry - it will happen. At the moment 8 months is feeling like a long time already and I was looking for a bit of sympathy not information about how "long" it took her! Think I should stick to posting on here and not talking about it in RL but I'm not very good at filtering! Also got asked by another friend we've not seen for a while if we were planning a 2nd - think I said we were hoping it would happen soon. It was from a bloke so probably didn't even think about it being an insensitive question (and it's one I have asked in the past).

Hope you are all doing ok and this is your month! The thread seems to be moving fast. My resolution to not drink this month lasted about a day - I don't like coffee and have decaf tea though so maybe it all cancels out ?