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We will try anything! The big fat posifrickintivity thread of TTC after MC

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GuffSmuggler · 14/06/2013 15:51

A new thread for all you lovely, crazy ladies. Here's to lots of BFPs!

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GuffSmuggler · 14/06/2013 21:29

saggy do you get a fish slap for a bold fail? Grin

birds I know what you mean, TTC really sucks the fun out of things and we seem to have the responsibility of it all - my DH too is perplexed by this 'go go go' and then 'oh no can't be arsed' approach, he doesn't know what to expect! I say have a few days break if you're feeling fed up with it all.

PS alyant it just won't let you post anything else more after 1000

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BirdsDoIt · 14/06/2013 20:10

Like the new thread name guff! And the bossy bold rules, saggy.

Can I join the rest of you down in the dumps? I've been feeling v pissed off for the last couple of days - i'm now on cd24 of cycle 1 (have had one AF since mmc) and according to my temping (first time I've tried it) I STILL haven't ov'd. After 9 consecutive days of DTD in hope, I feel this is a little unfair. I threw in the towel two days ago so we've had two days off but feeling really dispirited about it still. DTD just isn't so fun any more. Sigh. Part of me thinks if it's this difficult maybe we shouldn't bother. DH a bit bewildered by this latest development, unsurprisingly. Ah well, perhaps I'll feel better after the weekend. Off out for drinks now so perhaps that will help!

Must work on my posifrickintivity. Sorry everyone.

alyant79 · 14/06/2013 19:50

oh my cam i forgot to welcome you back from honeymoon!
penguin i hope you're enjoying your cocktails and not spiking them with tears

I've had a couple of beers at a work do that I didn't want to go to because I've been feeling miserable all day. Going to go home now and sulk as i'm still getting very suspicious AF-like cramps (not due til tuesday but would't be surprised if she comes early)

Rockchick1984 · 14/06/2013 19:22

Marking my place! I've done SMEP this month and now in 2ww so will let you know how I get on - hopefully by declaring a BFP in a fortnight Grin

Penguinita · 14/06/2013 19:03

Just marking my place on the new thread! But not with a wee spot like missp (isn't that what dogs do to lamposts??) Grin

I'm currently on cycle 0 too and it is totally wtf, it is day 29 post MC and still waiting for my BFN on blood test due next Tuesday. No sign of OV yet on bbt so looks like this cycle will be at least 44 days!

So I'm going to a friend's house for cocktails tonight, but feeling a bit sad as last time I did that was the day after I found out I was pg and I had to make excuses for not drinking and go home early. Hope I don't end up in a blubbering mess tonight at the memory!

I like the bold rules saggy, fits in with your new dictator style Grin

Misspositivity · 14/06/2013 18:23

katatoni sorry missed that it's cycle 1. Opening a bottle sounds like a good idea. Shall join you.

I am cramping loads so think its game over for miss positivity.

Smep for me this month too.

katatonic · 14/06/2013 18:16

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Misspositivity · 14/06/2013 18:03

But job. Lol. Meant nut job. !!!!

Misspositivity · 14/06/2013 18:03

Hey just marking my wee spot. Thanks to those who have accepted me for the mad symptom spotter but job I am and still want me around

As for mouth ulcers - I don't think these are a symptom might hav made that on up.

camomile hope u had a lovely honeymoon

I think we should add a new rule that you can't poas more than 1 day before your period. I literally would save a small fortune

kata. It's not called the wtf cycle for nothing. My next cycle seemed to have clicked back in both time though or maybe just maybe a BFP is heading your way.

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 14/06/2013 17:45

Flipping bold fail!!

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 14/06/2013 17:44

The thread rules cut and pasted from the previous ones:
For all of the newbies, here are the thread rules courtesy of Santa:
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OneLittleToddleTerror · 14/06/2013 16:55

katatonic is this your cycle 0? It was really wtf for me. I had my AF on 9dpo on my wtf cycle. I think also ovulated on week 3. It is all back to normal for me in cycle 1. Currently at 12dpo. I guess I should be happy that at least it is long enough a luteal phase for implantation. Instead of feeling so down.

alyant79 · 14/06/2013 16:47

I like the new thread name guff

what happens if the thread hits 1000 anyway? do all our computers explode? Wink

katatonic · 14/06/2013 16:28

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OneLittleToddleTerror · 14/06/2013 16:06

Checking in! Seeing we are all so down today, we definitely need some big fat posifrickintivity.

camomile hope you had a lovely honeymoon. I know what you mean by you ought to have a sticky bean by now. The text reminded me that my second MC was supposed to due in Oct/Nov. We could have been on maternity together Sad.

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