We will try anything! The big fat posifrickintivity thread of TTC after MC

2be we didn't wait for first AF post MC before TTC, didn't fall pregnant and kind of glad as first AF was the heaviest I'd ever had, despite having an ERPC. Felt like my body was having a proper clear out ready to go again. Fingers crossed for this month :-)

rockchick. Excellent news. Congratulations
*over" I am truly so sorry to hear your news. Gutted for you. I hope you are taking care of yourself, you have been through so much
2be. So sorry your here. No reason to wait apart from stressing over dates and heartbeats etc. I think we all know when we are ready. I have heard though that alot of people don't ovulate in that cycle (not sure how true this is ). Either way we will keep you company.

Hi Rockchick, I'm a new Northerner - moved to Newcastle area last summer (hi!)

Currently kidding myself that I'll get knocked up again on 1st cycle after mc, and generally avoiding sad feelings via the Goddess of cake. Not great for thighs, fab for emotion avoidance

Hi ladies, is there room for another one?

I feel guilty for even thinking about TTC - surely it's too soon?! I only had my ERPC on Friday. Plus I know it's bonkers but I can't help feeling like I'm betraying the one I lost.

The hospital advises waiting until you've had a period until you start TTC again - is this really necessary? Or is it just for dating?

Dildo so sorry the witch got you, hopefully some will help a bit - normally does with me!

I feel like the lonely northerner on this thread! Mad how so many of you live so close to each other!

Fedup the occasional times I've tried tipping upside down after dtd I've had my legs supported against the wall, head going the wrong way down the bed if that makes sense and DH's pillow rather than mine under me in case of spillage

Well, tests are getting stronger so just praying that this one is a sticky bean! Not even due AF until Tue so terrified that it will be a chemical pregnancy although I got an equally early result with my miscarried pregnancy and nothing went wrong until 8 weeks (discovered at 12 week scan) so no experience of chemical pregnancies, think I'm just paranoid after last time!

I feel I am miles away lol , rage? For sure we reserve right to get rage at any moment and jealousy all the time
Today I have heartbreak hotel as the evil af arrived making me really poorly !!! Left friends last night as too ill to stay was feeling really sick and downstairs issues
Any way enough about me I have everything crossed for the ladies poas Friday
X

So funny, am in forest hill at friends place tonight!

I don't get the rage. I just get jealousy!

cam I agree about curbing pregnant woman rage - I try and remember it might not have been easy for them either. General rage levels are definitely decreasing though I reserve the right for it to come back at any moment.

fedup I'm not sure I'd ever leave the house if I had sky plus! Am bad enough with boxsets - totally addicted to game of thrones, or as one of my friends calls it, tits and swords. Can't wait for series 3 on DVD!

emki thanks so much for the message - I got it safely - brilliant. Will definitely give her a call. So funny, squiggly, that you're in forest hill too. Can't quite decide if it would be lovely or weird to meet someone from this thread in real life - you lot know more about what's going on in my sex life etc than anyone else bar DH, so from that perspective it's rather odd...but all the same it's very nice to know you're nearby

I was wondering that too! I'm also in Forest Hill, I was thinking maybe in a year or so we'll be eyeing up other women in the baby groups. Fingers crossed.

I like the sound of being in the wine emki.

Our DVD collection is pretty shite. High up on the list is "sex lives of the potato men" and other such movie gold dust. I instead sky plus TV greats such as MIC and ANTM for watching when OH is out. Those programmes make him nauseas (if it was me i would be probably symptom spotting!!)

So we have just had an enthusiastic BD sesh. Decided absence of smiley face wasn't holding me back. DH has now pulled something in his neck through sheer exuberance. I have warned him that doesn't mean he is let off for the rest of this weekend, no, no, no!

Tried a more gentle shoulder stand than the usual head stand - don't want to damage my neck now do we?

I too wondered that in the tube. Particularly when one preggers lady was eating orange peel. Yes, not the orange itself, but the peel. She must have been a graduate!

And CONGRATS Rockchick!!!

I can't believe I logged off the other night and missed all the fun. Although I'm sorry to hear others are going through difficult times it is a real comfort to not feel alone in it.

over - I'm so sorry for what you've been through. Idiotic doctor. I hope you're spending the weekend being taken care of.

Sal - did you have a lovely wedding? Sorry if you've already said and I've missed it. Did you have the pregnant friend there in the end? Hope you had a lovely day.

I thought the same about never knowing whether someone from the thread is sitting next to you on the tube etc. I've also tried thinking the same about the graduates thread I.e, not glaring at pregnant women in case it's pink or diet coke or someone else from 'over there'..

thunder I thought this the other day when I was on the tube ... I thought, you never know one of these ladies might be my support group!

birds I've sent you a message (maybe as never done it before) check your inbox on your mumsnet account x

Are you Londoners all going to bump into each other at thus woman's house! Next time you go you'll all be eying up the other customers wondering if you actually know them from t'interweb...

Or the outsiders! I need to work on my classic film collection - next rainy weekend that comes along I'm sorted...

Haven't watched St. Elmo's fire! Will have to track it down on DVD.

emki would love the details of the lady you know in dulwich - I have no idea how to pm you - are you more clued up than me?!

over hope you had a peaceful night and are doing ok xxx

The outsiders it was!!! Just googled! How sad am I? Also aly I am in every night as dh away - last night watched the good wife and coronation street!! Rock and roll!

I love those films - and St. Elmo's fire, breakfast club, and what's the one with all the brat pack? Matt Dillon included who was my teenage crush!

Re acupuncture - the woman I know works from home - she may also be a member if the therapy rooms - she is extremely lovely - she also does massage - let me know if you want her details xx

Congratulations rockchick! I don't think there is such a thing as a false positive on those sticks so allow yourself a little celebration!

overanxious, I'm so sorry to hear that you have been through such a traumatic experience. I welled up a bit reading your post. When I was told I had a suspected ectopic I did all the reading up about it and it was very scary. You are so brave. Keep looking after yourself

There is an ectopic pregnancy support thread on here somewhere if you haven't found it already.

I cannot believe that a doctor can see a pregnant woman with those symptoms and not immediately recognise the danger and send her for an emergency scan. They should be struck off, it is a disgrace!

Morning all,

Fab news rockchick!

Oo all those old girly films- wonderful. I used to love ghost but that one on the train- how scary is he?!

emkiI and birds* good work with the wine and cocktails but going for a run- equally impressed.

aly what kind of dress are you making? Am very tempted to give it a go myself..