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We will try anything! The big fat posifrickintivity thread of TTC after MC

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GuffSmuggler · 14/06/2013 15:51

A new thread for all you lovely, crazy ladies. Here's to lots of BFPs!

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alyant79 · 04/07/2013 08:58

I think all these doctors are probably right (for most of us) that just dtd every second day, or 3 times a week, or whatever will be enough to get the job done. The last two times I've been pg that's exactly how it happened. Those swimmers last for so long it's really just down to luck: the right egg has to meet the right sperm and when that'll happen we can't control....
BUT what they aren't taking into account is the NEED to get pg again after a mc and the lack of control that we feel. At least we can control the sex part so actively trying hard in that regard makes us feel like we are doing something.
Plus there's the satisfaction of seeing a line on an ov stick, or a temp spike and KNOWING that our body is doing what it should. (or not, and then being able to do something about it)
That's kind of how I feel anyway.

Having said that we managed 5 goes in a week and I so hope that this is the month. fx

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Sal1977 · 04/07/2013 08:36

We did 9 days in a row last month, but starting a couple of days later this month! Gonna try and mimic the month where I got PG last time! Ov sticks are getting darker, so defo need to ramp up the randiness!!!

I so want it to happen this month. Confused

flohs · 04/07/2013 08:35

Trinpy I have done that before but started doing every other day on doctor's advice and that is so much easier.

Cam - amazing. A honeymoon bfp is so lovely too. Congratulations!!!

Aly..yeh that's what the doctor said re sperm. It just feels weird because I guess my attitude before was do it as much as possible. But that wasn't working for us in terms of tiredness and pressure so this is heaps better. Let's hope the doctor is right!!

Aly, miss and fed up we must all be testing at the same time. Fingers crossed for all of us.

Sal - I've been trying for a year and has a mc just over 4 mths ago and just went to the doctor and had a v similar conversation. So I guess we just have to keep going.

Alice I'm soooo sorry you are back here. It's cruel and unfair. Hope you are not here for long.

RainbowConnections · 04/07/2013 08:02

All very impressive. I'll never keep up with that action!

fedupofrainydays · 04/07/2013 07:26

Yep - I did 8 times in one week this month so if am not up duffed (really dont feel I am) I'm toning it down next month as that was hard work! Just So badly want to be pregnant again that We are giving it everything!!

So I have done my bit too this month, come on ladies - get down to it!

Trinpy · 03/07/2013 23:43

Congratulations cam!!!! great news!!!

And 5 times in a week?!!! dear god. Is everyone else managing to shag this much?? We managed once the day before I ovulated. Must try harder.

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 03/07/2013 22:34

Hell yeah!

Misspositivity · 03/07/2013 22:25

5 times this week. Can a have a gold star.

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 03/07/2013 22:06
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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 03/07/2013 22:05

Right, that's one BFP in the bag. Come on you lot, get fertilising! I've done my bit this month, I want to see some serious shagging going on!

Sal1977 · 03/07/2013 21:11

Yaayy!!! A lovely big fat BFP for the gang!!

Got back from the doctors and after crying in front of him, he told me that clearly I'm ovulating, and in terms of me worrying about my age (nearly 36), I have nothing to worry about.

He said dont do temping or OV kits, just DTD 3 times a week. Ppfft....yeah right. A bit relieved and a bit disappointed...he said keep going and we'll get there.

nearlyreadytopop · 03/07/2013 20:57

fishy congratulations cam Smile

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 03/07/2013 20:57

WWWWAAAAAHHHHHHEEEEEEYYYYYY! Grin

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GuffSmuggler · 03/07/2013 20:49

Fantastic news cam! Come on the BFPs!!!

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Tomkat79 · 03/07/2013 20:47

Yay!!!! I've hardly spoken to you but feel really really choked up! That's such lovely news, massive congrats! Xxxx

alyant79 · 03/07/2013 20:18

cam!!!!!!! That's fabbo news. Woohoo!!!!!!!!!
Yaaaaayyyyyyy

fedupofrainydays · 03/07/2013 19:40

Ah congratulations - a honeymoon baby, that's lovely! Bet you can't wait to tell him when he gets back from gym! Xx

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CamomileHoneyVanilla · 03/07/2013 18:37

Thanks folks. Yes you're first - he's at the gym still. Should be back in about ten mins. Eek xxx

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RainbowConnections · 03/07/2013 18:19

Oh Cam thats so exciting. Congratulations and sending you all my sincerest very best wishes for a very happy and healthy pregnancy. xx

Misspositivity · 03/07/2013 18:14

camomile. Yippeee. This is excellent news.

Misspositivity · 03/07/2013 18:13

Hi to all the newbies btw. Sorry for your losses. You will fit in nicely with these crazy ladies.