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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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We will try anything! The big fat posifrickintivity thread of TTC after MC

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GuffSmuggler · 14/06/2013 15:51

A new thread for all you lovely, crazy ladies. Here's to lots of BFPs!

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alyant79 · 09/07/2013 09:51

oooooh Saggy that's so promising!

kata my plan was to do smep, temping and opks. the opks were rubbish and never gave me a proper line. because i was waiting for the line, i missed the window when we should have done 3 dtd in a row. So instead we did every 2nd day for a week or so, and based on my temps i know that one of those days was ov day.
We also used preseed for the first time.
If it hasn't worked this month i'll do temping + every 2nd day dtd + preseed again next month.

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 09:47

Ok, I just tried to go out with DM. Got to the end of the drive and almost lost my breakfast! That's got to be a good sign right?

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 09:12

All quiet on the southern front!
Although I'm not convinced that AF hasn't just called a truce and gone off to play football with the enemy! Battle could recommence in my pants at any moment! Confused Grin

katatonic · 09/07/2013 09:05

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fedupofrainydays · 09/07/2013 08:56

Af arrived for me today. Stupid silly horrible witch. After DTD 12 times over the fertile bit I thought we were in with a good chance. Well I was full to the brim with swimmers! Trying to stay positive but it's a big big struggle.

Think am going to trying temping to see of if do actually ovulate (starting to wonder if smiley face opks are lying to me). Temping is new though so aly am interested in your efforts this month!

alyant79 · 09/07/2013 08:45

question for those temping: does you bbt drop a few days before AF arrives or the day before/day of?
i.e. is there any point at which i can realistically get excited about a still-high temp?

alyant79 · 09/07/2013 08:41

what did the morning bring saggy?

i'm feeling a bit sick this morning. 9DPO. trying to remind myself that i've felt sick before and it hasn't meant anything...

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 09/07/2013 00:49

Well, its still all quiet on the southern front. IYSWIM! Wink let's see what the morning brings!
Night every one. X

RainbowConnections · 08/07/2013 23:43

Sorry sp JBrd

RainbowConnections · 08/07/2013 23:38

Congratulations on your BFP Jbird. Hope you're not feeling too crazy.

JBrd · 08/07/2013 23:00

Nearly - sending hugs, this must be so so hard, you really have been through the mill. I don't blame you for wanting a break, take good care of yourself. Hopefully, they will get to the bottom of why this keeps happening.

Aly - aww, we were up in Scotland for the wedding! Would've been too much of an coincidence, though Wink

OveranxiousUnderated · 08/07/2013 22:18

Big hugs for nearly x Sorry to hear your news Sad Hopefully you will get some answers following the investigations. It's shit when it happens once, so cruel. Hope you are doing okay. (As okay as can be anyway) x

KS78 · 08/07/2013 21:34

Thinking of you nearly xx

Badhairday76 · 08/07/2013 21:27

Nearly - I am also so sorry. Life can be truly shit sometimes. Thinking of you and sending virtual hugs. Xxx

DearlyDepartedMrsFinch · 08/07/2013 21:16

Oh nearly, I am so, so sorry x

Floweroct · 08/07/2013 19:24

So sorry nearly xx

missmakesstuff · 08/07/2013 17:49

I am so sorry for you nearly, really hope things work out for you soon, so sad, you deserve things to work out. Fingers crossed you get the help you need at the appointment

Misspositivity · 08/07/2013 17:08

nearly. I can't believe it. I am truly so sorry for your loss. It's so unfair. Take care of yourself and lurk about for some support. Big hugs. Xxx

nearlyreadytopop · 08/07/2013 16:24

thanks everyone, ur support means so. sorry to bring the positivity down.

becauae its 3 in row I have an appointment with clinic in 6 weeks to start the tests.

its been 3 mc in 12 months (7, 17 &7) so I think we are going to take a break for a while.
massive goodluck to everyone, I will be lurking and keeping everything crossed (incl legs) for you all.

RainbowConnections · 08/07/2013 14:26

Oh nearly so sorry. That terrible news. Hope you get home soon. xx

katatonic · 08/07/2013 13:37

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BirdsDoIt · 08/07/2013 13:25

Oh no nearly I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Big hugs and take care of yourself - you poor thing. Hope your DP is ok too x

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 08/07/2013 13:18

Oh Nearly! How awful for you. Sad take care lovely. Xxx

nearlyreadytopop · 08/07/2013 13:13

thanks girls, its utterly shit. still in hospital because my bp keeps dropping. just want to ho home and cry my eyes out.

CamomileHoneyVanilla · 08/07/2013 13:12

Nearly - I'm so sorry to hear that and for what you're going through. It's really not fair. Hope you are being looked after well. Lots of hugs your way. X