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Taking No Nonsense and Brooking No Argument We Get Our BFP's, with or without assistance!

988 replies

Solars · 15/05/2013 10:13

So who's next in line for that BFP???

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Munxx · 16/06/2013 17:12

beedle so sorry about the result and although I'm not on the fb group so cannot comment, I am sorry other people's comments are upsetting you.

I had to hide quite a few RL fb pals when TTC as it was too painful to read updates on occasion so I understand.

I don't know I you will see this beedle but all the best for the future and I hope you and Dh are as ok as you can be.

Much love to you.

keepitgoing · 16/06/2013 15:38

Oh beedle, I'm so so sorry for your bfn. It is shitty and not fair, and so sad.

Ivf is a numbers game, and you will get there. Plus, they'll have learnt from this cycle. But for now I agree that time off sounds like a good plan.

Thinking of you, and shedding a few tears for you x

SweetieTime · 16/06/2013 15:38

Beedle I am so sorry you had a BFN this morning. Just wait to see if it changes by OTD. I completely understand you wanting to take a break until your next cycle, should you need another cycle, it is such a mentally hard thing to go through.

I agree with you on the fb group too, although I am not sure all on there are aware of the different stages everyone is at or how sensitive some of us are.

GenericDietCola · 16/06/2013 14:08

Beedle, I'm so sorry about the BFN. I'll keep brooking that OTD brings better news.

EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 16/06/2013 10:38

Beedle I am so sorry it wasn't the result you wanted, like the others I'm brooking that is was just too soon.

TheLittleFriend · 16/06/2013 10:30

So sorry the test was faulty Beedle. Be kind to yourself and we'll do your brooking for you x

Maybe, pleased to hear the frer arrived, hope it's a lucky one for youSmile

Solars · 16/06/2013 09:42

Oh Beedle I'm so sorry to hear this, but also hoping it is still early and brooking for Thursday. Can also understand about FB, I hardly ever log on these days. Sending you and MrB lots of love and hugs. Take all the time you need to regain your strength, it's such a difficult journey and we're always here to hand hold whenever you want xx

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ControlGeek · 16/06/2013 08:59

Oh beedle lovely I'm so sorry :( I hope the break brings you and mrb plenty of you time and look forward to your ironic bfp well before October. (((Hugs)))

I've been mostly taking a break from the fb group too, for the same reasons. I was tempted to suggest an additional fb was set up where people posted when they needed that kind of support, and then only those who felt in a position to support those kinds of posts could join it. Would probably just come across as jealous and tetchy though.

Still on phone as still in bed (lazy mare emoticon) but I'm actually planning on getting up and mooching round a shopping centre today. If all goes well, I may even go into the office tomorrow!

NoMaybeAboutIt · 16/06/2013 08:46

Oh Beedle lovely, Biscuits is right, I'm brooking for it turning into a BFP too.

I am also totally with you on the fb group. The word insensitive springs to mind.

I really hope you are being looked after today. And we are always here brooking even if you are taking a break x

GreenOlives · 16/06/2013 08:19

beedle I'm so sorry the brooking piss stick I sent you was so crap Sad I really hope you've just got a slow burner and good news is just a couple of days away but if not then a break sounds like a good plan. Take care lovely and we'll be here whenever you're ready.

Withalittlesparkle · 16/06/2013 08:19

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Biscuitsandtea · 16/06/2013 08:16

cupcake not maybe sorry, although I have no doubt that maybe us brooking for exact same thing x

Biscuitsandtea · 16/06/2013 08:06

Hey Beedle - lots of love for you Thanks

Like Maybe I will be brooking for it to turn into a positive by Thursday but know that we're thinking of you whatever the outcome xx

I hope that, should you need another cycle in October, you and Mr B are able to have a lovely proper break from it all in the meantime. We all know how much it totally takes over every waking (and sleeping) moment so I can completely understand the need for a break. Hopefully we'll see you around here again though? I'll be brooking that if it isn't on Thursday, that you're nipping in to tell us of your ironic BFP Smile

Do take care though xxx

NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 16/06/2013 07:49

I'm so so sorry to hear that Beedle I'm brooking that it turns into a positive anyway. I totally understand why you might need a little break for a while, especially until your next IVF cycle. Lots of love to you and MrB

And I get what you are saying about the FB group. I hope we can still be friends on there anyway. I need your help on candy crush!

BeedlesPineNeedles · 16/06/2013 07:21

So I did a test this morning but it was a BFN. I know it could possibly change over the next few days, OTD isn't until Thursday but I think the result at 13 dpo is probably correct. Sad

I think I need a break from here as we probably won't get to try again until October.
I'm also going to remove myself from the fb group as recent posts are not what i want to see on my news feed. (i don't mean the cute baby photos, I loved the cute-off)

I'll pass all my brooking onto geek I really really hope it works for you.

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Solars · 15/06/2013 21:21

Obviously the follies are getting impatient to emerge Maybe

Interesting dream Sparkes sounds like a BFP for sure for Geek! How are you? Any closer to sneezing??

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EverythingIsTicketyBoo · 15/06/2013 19:05

GrinGrin love the sleep brooking :)

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 15/06/2013 13:15

Oh Solars that's totally understandable. I haven't seen it, but it looks good! You should go and have a distracting day Smile.

Yes, down to a half dose next week hopefully. I'm hoping I don't react to much to the stims. I have horrendous cramps down my right ovary area this afternoon.

Solars · 15/06/2013 11:47

Maybe The buserelin is only half the dose right? Hopefully those side effects will subside during stimming. I am ok, don't think it's still sunk in yet to be honest. Weird I thought I'd be happy about not going in for another blood test today and yet I'm sat here worrying about my hcg levels and wondering if they're still going up Hmm

Has anyone seen the new superman movie yet? Wondering if its worth checking it out.

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 15/06/2013 10:12

It was at first, I thought I was losing it Grin. I wonder if I will still get the sideeffectswhen stimming, as I still have to take the buserilin everyday. Time seems to be flying at the moment!

How are you feeling Solars? Has it sunk in yet?!

Solars · 15/06/2013 09:41

Oh wow Maybe that must be quite scary, at least it's not long 'til the stimming now.

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 15/06/2013 09:32

How is everyone today?

Solars the nervousness is a side effect of the buserilin. It's crazy, I can't sit still and get palpitations.

I second how much we've missed Biscuits Smile

Solars · 15/06/2013 09:28

You'll always have some nervousness Maybe I still do one step at a time and you will get there.

How are you doing today Beede?

Geek is Percy out the picture yet? How are you holding out?

Biscuits you always say the loveliest things, that's why we've missed you!

Cups sounds like you're good to go if you've not heard from the clinic, do you have all your meds?

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