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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Just started to feel period pains ;(

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johnandkymberley · 11/05/2013 19:10

Hi all, title says it really!!
I'm f*#%!?g gutted!! I really don't think I can deal with it, we have been trying for a month and I know it's stupid to feel like this but I can't help it! I feel like I'm a failure...AND I have no chocolate in the house!!!!
Sorry just needed to let off some upsetness!
Baby dust to all TTC xxxxxxx

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Northey · 18/05/2013 10:21

LOL. did u test again 2day?

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johnandkymberley · 18/05/2013 08:42

It's funny cuz I think ppl can take things the wrong way when writing in text....

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chipmonkey · 17/05/2013 22:52

FOD!Grin

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johnandkymberley · 17/05/2013 19:53

Friend of Dorothy I agree with what you say about iphone and iPads!

Ill see if I can test tomorrow, however will be VERY early in the morning. If not i will wait for AF and then test in a week if still not arrived??

What else can I do?! Xxx

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alicebear · 17/05/2013 19:03

This early on if you are pregnant you are more likely to get a BFP if you use FMU so probably worth waiting until tomorrow morning - or even Sunday.

FriendofDorothy · 17/05/2013 18:26

How kind of you johnandkymberley

LOL LMAO.

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johnandkymberley · 17/05/2013 16:39

Beccadugs I hope you are right!!! I have been and bought first response normal tests not digital and will test one of them when I get in, then if still negative which it bloody well be!!! Ill leave it a week and test again of AF isn't here!!

It's just really worried me where the slight pink blood came from as I thought that was implantation and that happened on day 8 po so it would b in the time frame???

Also noticed the grammar but too polite to say lmao!!! Xxxx

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Beccadugs · 17/05/2013 14:52

Good luck Johnandkimberly!

I know what you mean about being totally gutted the first month you try. Although, intellectually you know it is very unlikely to happen straight away you still hope! I think when you have the first month of it not happening straight away it's like a loss of innocence.

I think after the first month it'll get easier.

alicebear · 17/05/2013 13:55

Sorry it's BFN today but maybe just too early. Just a waiting game now for AF or test again in a few days if she doesn't turn up.

FriendofDorothy · 17/05/2013 13:27

Hehe no I noticed that I had done that too but thought I had got away with it!

Typing on an iPhone is a pain in the arse sometimes!!!

The difference is that I knew I had got it wrong Wink

chipmonkey · 17/05/2013 12:53

Am I the only one who noticed that FriendOfDorothy corrected OP's grammar but then said "you isn't".
Pedantry fail!

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johnandkymberley · 17/05/2013 12:09

Then if there is no sign of a positive line I will have to wait for AF then I suppose?!

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johnandkymberley · 17/05/2013 12:03

Yep I had pains all over last weekend-hence I posted this and thought it was my period!!!

Tested this am and was not pregnant but I'm going to buy a traditional test today as I'm nipping into boots anyway just to see if there is a faint line, digital tests are not as sensitive are they?? I've read that on loads of websites?!? Xx

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Januarymadness · 17/05/2013 09:13

First month would be very quick.. But I have to add for me implantation HURT. Like really bad period pains.

1Catherine1 · 17/05/2013 08:44

Remember - best to test in the morning!

alicebear · 17/05/2013 07:45

Well what's the news?! Fingers crossed.

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johnandkymberley · 16/05/2013 22:58

Hahaha Catherine!!

I chickened out! But will be doing it for deffo tmoz morning. I promise! I have got a really busy weekend so tomorrows the time!! Will keep you posted xxxx

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1Catherine1 · 16/05/2013 20:50

So now I need to know, did you POAS? Any news?

alicebear · 15/05/2013 17:34

Test tomorrow! Nothing to lose apart from the cost of a test. If BFP fantastic. If BFN the games not over until AF arrives or BFP later on. BFN just means not enough Hcg in your wee for BFP so until you get a BFP or AF you just never know! My last pregnancy AF was 5 days late before my BFN became a BFP! Fingers crossed for you.

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johnandkymberley · 15/05/2013 15:50

Still no sign of AF don't know whether I'm going to test tmoz morning, what should I do?!? Xxx

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johnandkymberley · 14/05/2013 18:52

Oh no seatfor5!! Fingers crossed for next month :)

I'm going to wait till sat morning I think, as hubby wants to be here too

What about the clearblue digital? The one that tells you how many weeks u are?? Xxx

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seatfor5 · 14/05/2013 16:05

If your due Saturday really the earliest you would be likely to show anything up on a PG test would be Wed/Thursday I would say test Thursday at the earliest to save disappointment maybe wait until Friday! Tesco's test seem to be quite good and then first response but a lot more money if I were you use the cheapie until your AF is due on Saturday x It is possible to fall in your first month I have 3 ds the first was a "surprise" the second took 3 months ans the 3rd one month am now trying for my 4th and am only on cycle 2 AF arrived today x

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johnandkymberley · 14/05/2013 14:53

Okay everyone I have had some very light bleeding at 7 days past ovulation, when can I take a test?? Xxx

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