I get knocked down, but I'll get knocked up again, cos you're never gonna keep me down... The big fat posifrickintivity thread for people TTC after MC.

I got a BFN yesterday at 9 dpo . Not feeling hopeful that that is going to change next week though. I'm sticking to the rules religiously, otherwise I'd be poas every 5mins!

Positive stuff this week: house hunting. DH is away so an doing an initial screen of potentials to whittle down for next weekend. Sitting outside lovely little cottage now waiting for the late estate agent. I don't think it's for us though.

Ah rubbish no Friday bfps!

Anyone got any nice plans for the weekend? Hoping we might go to the beach at some point. Need to do something that takes my mind off poas! I shouldn't really until at least Monday (or Friday if I stick to the rules!) but I feel like af might be on her way :(

Passing round some posifrickintivity!!

Tins - that's shit lovely. Not really anything else I can say. Booze and nice food, PJs and hugs from your OH is definitely what I prescribe for you.

AF arrived here today right on schedule unfortunately. Mrs Excited - can't believe you're still waiting! I'd definitely be asking for a go on Dildo-cam if it was me, see if they can see what's going on!

On a more upbeat note, what's everyone planning for the bank holiday? Xxx

vontrapp fingers crossed for your tww. We are embarking on smep next Thursday. Will need energy drinks and pasta. Poas 21st June.

Mrsexcited hope you find your af soon. Be nice to get some reassurance from your gp if nothing else, I am sure everything will click back soon probably just your body saying it needs a wee rest.

Mrsexcited I know how you feel waiting for first af. I had to wait 10 weeks. Went to gp day before it arrived and they just said to wait another month. Hopefully it comes before your gp appointment.

Misspositivity hope you're right about the June bfps. I'm just starting the 2 wk wait so will poas 8th June.

So no bfps today?

I think June is going the be a big month for BFP's on this thread. How is that for "posifrickingtivity"

Thinking of you Tins.

Looks like the posifrickingtivity is struggling at the moment that's certainly how i feel atm.

Good luck to anyone who does have good news and is too scared to share as i know some don't even want to talk on here!

Will continue to wait (not so paintently) for my first Af 9 weeks since ERPC, have now booked docs appointment, but don't know if there is anything they can do?

rock I'm the same, was first AF after ERPC and it seemed a random cycle, DTD lots around what I thought was OV but then started getting more EWCM later on which means we might have missed the window, so I don't know what's going on. Going to wait it out a bit longer.

onelittle I'll be joining you with the OPKs soon if this cycle doesn't work out.

We really need some BFPs around here!!!

Thinking of you tins constantly xxxx obviously depends on where you live bit there is a great clinic at st Mary's hospital in Paddington London run by prof regan - specialist clinic for recurrent miscarriage - my sister went there after she had 3 mc at 7-8 weeks - they found her blood got too thick when pregnant so she took aspirin ... Anyway they investigate lots if things .... I'm sure what I'm saying is not useful or what you want to hear ... Just so you know you have a lot of support here xxxx

I POAS this morning Guff but BFN I had what looked like EWCM a day or so after AF which would mean I was now 14 DPO however I'm now wondering if it was just my body having a bit of a clearout (it was first AF post-miscarriage) so if I ov'd at my normal time then it's far too early to test, I'm only about 5DPO! Anyone experienced similar?

Hope you're holding up ok Tins

guff I'll start POOPKs tomorrow. Does it count?

Morning everyone,

Is anyone POAS today? I'm dying to but am too scared, I'm going to be a mess if it's a BFN so don't want to face it yet. Urgh.

Thinking of you today tins x

willitbe your post is touching. You don't have to say sorry for it. Just reading it brings tears to my eyes.

Bakingtins - so sorry that you are going through this again. I don't think we have met on mn before, but wanted to say I understand how you are feeling. Having had 11 miscarriages since my last ds, it is hard to be told that you have an Un-fussy uterus (whatever the heck that really means). I found it was not hopeful getting that "diagnosis" as they can't "treat" it. Although to be fair I did not get to try prednisolone with any of the pregnancies as it seemed to help my uterus become more fussy. Possibly????

I would highly recommend grief concealing though. I found it very helpful in dealing with my emotions of subsequent pregnancies and miscarriages. Do be kind to yourself over the next few days.

Sorry to everyone else for temporarily crashing this thread.

Tins I'm so sorry, there really are no words x

bakingtins I'm so sorry to hear your news. Take care of yourself, we are all thinking of you.

Am thinking of you, name buddy. I hope that you manage some sleep and are being gentle with yourself. An utterly shit thing to happen and I wish it hadn't.

I'm so sorry Tins - whatever you decide in the future I know the ladies here will support you, don't make any decisions yet

So, so sorry tins Nobody deserves such heartache. You poor thing. Be kind to yourself x

Sorry to hear about your bad news bakingtins xx

Sorry hon, just clutching at straws I think because its so awful. Even told DH tonight and he was all "no... not tins, that's terrible". Know that you're in everyone's thoughts and we're all here for you. Really heartbroken for you. I just wish it was different for you and all of us. Xxxx

Oh tins I'm so sorry to hear that, sending big hugs x