I get knocked down, but I'll get knocked up again, cos you're never gonna keep me down... The big fat posifrickintivity thread for people TTC after MC.

Evening all!

Had a text from my ex-husband this morning to say him and his tart girlfriend are expecting in December. This is the man that didn't want kids and was shooting lazy swimmers when we needed tests. He ran off with her as she was "more fun" and didn't want commitment etc... What a load of f*cking bollocks.

Trying not to think about it as I have my hen do this weekend, but struggling to push it to the back if my mind...

Hi everyone

Can I join this thread? Spoken to some lovely ladies on the MC thread over past 4 weeks. Have been getting back on it pretty much straight away, no sign of AF yet, am hoping it won't be too long.

Congratulations to all with a BFP this week x

over did you use FMU? I think the dating aspect is only accurate with FMU. I guess it's just a waiting game - like this whole ttc malarkey.

Sorry you're feeling low but maybe there's still hope. Just have to wait & see.

It's horrible when you think you're taking steps in the right direction & then feel like it was all for nothing.
Rubbish. Hope you're ok.

Congrats rainbow great news.

Good news about cyst flower good luck for next cycle.

Congrats Rainbow, and great news Flower

Well I POAS Friday but for all the wrong reasons. My CB digital still said 2-3 and I was really hoping it would have jumped to 3+ since Sunday. I know I shouldn't have done it but it was calling my name from the drawer I couldn't resist so that started me off...

I then rang the Dr for my hcg results. 441. Now I know I cant confirm untill I have my next bloods (next week) to see if its quadrupled or whatever. But from what I've googled (I know, I know) it doesn't appear to be looking very positive for me feeling sorry for myself today. Wish this mess hadn't happened, I should be on day 13 now ready to dtd with optimism for my next cycle. Sorry for the self pity. Slap me with a wet fish and send me some unmumsnetty hugs please!

Sending lots of luck to everybody else.

x

Great news rainbow! Hoping it all works out well for both of us and that we're joined by lots of others from this thread in June.

Congrats rainbow great news.

Good news about cyst flower good luck for next cycle.

Great news flower xxx

Congrats rainbow xxx great news xxx

Congrats rainbow

Had my scan earlier and my cyst has gone (does a little dance of excitement)!! So, onto clomid round 3 and this is going to be our month a June bfp it is! Hoping I can hold on to that posifrickintivity!

Rainbow that's really great news. Lets hope you have a sticky bean this time.

rainbow that's great news. Lucky thing!
I'm really hope this one sticks, I'm sure it will.

don't give up hope yet sundance

Big congratulations rainbow great news & really hope it works out for you this time.

sundance probably a bit early for BFP if AF not due until wed. Hope what you're feeling is because of something gd happening though.

I'm 4dpo. It's dragging! Have gd weekends all. Weather looks nice

Hi ladies, i havent posted much, not been here very long. Had decided it was actually too soon to TTC but got a BFP yesterday! Feels a bit unreal to be pregnant so soon as MC was only beginning of May. Nervous but good news of course and I realise how lucky i am.
I hope you ladies have a great June full of BFPs. You really deserve it for your efforts and how you support each other with such good humour. x

Hi ladies - I'm back after a month long absence!
Decided to take some time out after a horrible AF last month which reminded me of the even more horrendous MC I had in March.

Glad to see some people have had great news though, and sorry to see some familiar names here still, but glad you're all staying so positive, it really is lovely and reassuring to know you're not alone.

So anyway, as per the rules, I POAS today and got a ng, but I was maybe being a bit premature anyway as my AF isn't due until Wednesday next week, though I'm not confident of good news.

I've been getting these awful sharp pains in what feels like my right hand ovaries/tubes, the pains I got just before I started to miscarry so maybe it's going to be bad news again, though I'm secretly hoping it might be some sort of bedding-in pain. either way, I never used to get them before the MC so obviously something is not quite right.

Sorry aly didn't mean to give you girls nightmares!!

Hoping for some bfps today :)

thanks to you girls I had a dream last night about flooded pads - there was blood everywhere!
doing my head in....

did anyone poas this morning?

Well aly I'm flying back tomorrow .... Sister coming over in the evening - dh away ..... Oohhhh maybe I will - but it's quite early ..... Is there anyone else????

thanks for the fishslap emki. and missP i'm so glad I'm not the only one with sore achey boobs, although obviously i'm sorry that yours are too. maybe if they're still hurting tomorrow i'll waste a stick poas tomorrow morning

oh no flower! lucky lucky lucky for black pants.

emki i think that i would poas tomorrow if i were you. that's just because i love to POAS and i want SOMEONE to tomorrow.

I know lies it's always a huge reminder of what we're missing - and we are all carrying so much emotional baggage now ..... It will happen for us!aybe just not exactly when we want it! Xxx

emki me too. Was feeling hopeful at weekend but less so as the week has gone on. That's why id rather know sooner if it's a bfn so I can thinki forward to next month.

Just had a moment reading a pregnancy announcement on Facebook. They only got married at Xmas and already 20 weeks. Can't help feel jealous that some people find ttc so easy!

Oh flower that happened to me when first AF arrived after mc - luckily I too had black trousers on - not happened like that since I was a teenager!

lies How you doing? I might need a wet fish slap soon as feeing slightly sycho! X

Argh nearly had a Laura Ashley moment today (oh dear been on here too long doubt anyone will know what I'm on about!!).

Af was so heavy today literally flooded my sanitary towel and through to my trousers :( luckily they were black trousers and it was the end of the day. That's never happened before I could normally fill one every two days (not that I keep one on for that long!!) so not sure what that's all about. I wonder if it might be my cyst bursting? Dr google isn't really helping me find out if that happens. Guess ill find out at my scan tmrw.

Sorry that was way tmi but if anyone has any idea that would be great!

liesl I have to admit to breaking the rules last week!

Emki I know it's against the rules but I'm thinking of poas on tuesday when I'll be 12-13 dpo just don't think I can hold out until next Friday. Af due on Wednesday/ thurs.

Any chance me and emki can get a special exemption from the poas rules?