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TTC after MC - nice people in crap times, full of posifrickingtivity

982 replies

WillSantaComeAgain · 02/04/2013 13:49

Welcome aboard ladies (though obviously sorry you have to be here). We're a friendly bunch so come in and plump up a cushion for POAS Fridays and lots of posifrickingtivity. With a few (gentle) fish slaps thrown in for good measure.

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Floweroct · 26/04/2013 06:54

Oh saggy big hugs hope you get an answer soon.

Santa that's fab congratulations!

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 26/04/2013 06:49

GAH! FFS! I am 3 days late. I have nausea, a bad taste in my mouth and sore breasts. How can I get a BFN? It was a first response as well! Not even the hint of a line! This is not fucking funny! Now what do I do!

WillSantaComeAgain · 26/04/2013 06:46

Yup, there is a definite line - shit! Arrgghhh!

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Bodicea · 26/04/2013 06:36

Hey just looking out for posts on poas Friday. Good luck guys. No one up yet?

GardenWorm · 26/04/2013 06:19

Fertile Friday! Good luck poas'ers, looking forward to some newbies on the graduate thread xxx

GardenWorm · 26/04/2013 06:10

Fertile Friday! Good luck poas'ers, looking forward to some newbies on the graduate thread xxx

Mummytothearkbuilder · 25/04/2013 23:11

Thanks saggy - I don't think I could look any worse than I do so it can only get better!!

Massive good luck for tomorrow lovely xx

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 25/04/2013 23:00

Mummy there is a bloke round here, we unimaginatively christened him 'The Running Man'. He started a few years ago, he would struggle round the village, in a straining running vest, red in the face and sweating. He did look funny, but I always really admired him for doing it. Nowadays he is really fit, runs with ease, and regularly does marathons! I am really jealous!
Ive just been and bought some First Responsers. They are on special offer in Tesco ATM. £7.00 for 2. Fingers crossed for tomorrow. I have an awful feeling it will be BFN or I will wake up tomorrow with AF.

fod27 · 25/04/2013 22:41

Awwww flower really sorry to read that AF got to you ;( I've been cramping n spotting (crossing my fingers for implantation bleed) but I'm due AF Sunday....soooo sods bloody law I too will be joining the 'Damn my body club'

IBelieveInPink · 25/04/2013 22:35

Hey ladies. Just Wanted to say hello and good luck for those poas tomorrow. Still hovering in the background, and wishing you all lots of poas luck and happier times soon as possible!! Thanks

Mummytothearkbuilder · 25/04/2013 21:57

Thanks flower - I will give it a go this week - I did really enjoy it its just the poor people that have to see me flopping about!! Anything to take my mind off TTC!! X

Floweroct · 25/04/2013 21:40

Just do it mummy! Ooh I sound like a Nike ad!

I started with the couch to 5k this time last year and managed to do a 10k in sept before I got pregnant in October and haven't really run since then so think I'm going to have to build myself back up again!

katerinaemalina · 25/04/2013 21:33

I still can't bring myself to talk to preg friends. Going to have to call them soon. One knows one doesn't. Don't know which is worse! Meh.

katerinaemalina · 25/04/2013 21:31

Boo sorry flower. Such a limbo land and so frustrating. Suppose the best things come to those who wait (though I'm fed up of waiting) I'm due mon and have no symptoms whatsoever so presume witch will come Confused feeling rather miserable today. Though tomorrow is happy Friday so hoorah for that. Santa and saggy all sounds promising best of luck and all fingers crossed xx

Mummytothearkbuilder · 25/04/2013 21:23

Ohhh flower I am thinking of taking up running - I had started the couch to 5k and then found out I was pregnant so stopped. I thought it would be easier now the nights are lighter but I'm über aware of people seeing me run - I am very lumpy and bumpy so god knows what I look like :-( might have to bite the bullet and not care what people think!! Xx

PurpleGeekyGirl · 25/04/2013 20:52

I shall repeat that mantra saggy!

Floweroct · 25/04/2013 20:47

Thanks everyone it's nice to share with people that understand. I try to be positive with oh cos I don't want to drag him down too! Had a good cry and now got fish and chips and glass of wine :)

I'm going to put my efforts into running now I had this as my focus last year and it was quite good so now the nights are lighter and it's not so cold I'm going to dust off my trainers :)

Have my fingers crossed for all of those testing tomorrow x

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 25/04/2013 20:30

It will Purple, it will.

PurpleGeekyGirl · 25/04/2013 20:28

Hugs to those af has got. Thanks for the support and welcome Smile had another up and down day but am being kind to myself and have immersed myself in a photo challenge to give me something to focus on. BF away for two nights so am catching up with cat cuddles instead and trying to remain positive about this whole ttc malarkey but I have to admit to feeling very Envy about two people I know who have got pg when they didn't want to. Why cant it happen for us?! Ah well.

Zeuxippe · 25/04/2013 20:27

Hello just popping on to say hi and to wish you luck for fertile Friday!

7+0 tomorrow here so am keeping my fingers and toes crossed that this one's going to stick around.

purple glad you found the thread. The lovely ladies here will look after you I'm sure x

Emki · 25/04/2013 20:25

So sorry flower and I know exactly what you mean about life on hold and agree with everything mummy said- I'm in a state at the thought if ttc today - my mum said - just relax Grrrrrr! Yes treat yourself - much love to you x

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 25/04/2013 20:19

Sorry for AF Flower. Fingers crossed that next month will be your month. X
Alyant it is POAS Friday. Give it a go but don't get despondent if it doesn't show up yet.
Flower's mention of christmas has just made me do the sums. If I am PG it will be due January 1st! New year baby!

Mummytothearkbuilder · 25/04/2013 20:15

Oh flower sorry to hear that :-( I understand completely what you mean about life being in hold - its exactly how I feel - If I get told to relax and go with the flow once more I think I will scream!! Treat yourself to something nice and yummy Hun and great news in the positive points xx

alyant79 · 25/04/2013 20:07

BUGGER flower :(

alyant79 · 25/04/2013 20:06

Question: how many days dpo do you think it's worth testing? Will only be 10-11 dpo tomorrow, af due next fri at the latest but realistically any time in the next week as I think my cycles are short.
Any point in poas tomorrow?

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