The big fat posifrickintivity, but only on a friday thread - TTC after MC and not lose your head

Your bowel does its last downward swoop on the left, random left sided pains could be that.
The ectopic symptoms to watch for are pain on one side, brown spotting, severe constipation and/or wind pains, and pain in the point of the shoulder.
Better to risk looking like a nob and getting checked out early than waiting and losing a tube.
Im sorry if I sound negative, but I had some of these and ignored them. Thankfully, oh the irony I MC.

Two whole minutes more than me saggy lol.....it's the teacher in me *pink^ right guys question.... Bleeding has turned into a brownish discharge....do I still test???..., getting impatient here, also if I do and I get a smiley should I just go for it? Getting dead exited thinking about it....ooooo the anticipation, excitement and naughtiness of it all!!! (Holds in child like screams on Christmas morning!)

Bump- snap! I have left side achy pains too. Also fretting. Still waiting for my Sunday poa-digi then will perhaps trot off to docs. May help with the begging for an early scan!

Ickle- Lols much at finding a couple of quid! Well done for being brave :)

Fod- bravo for yet another rousing posifrickentivity speech. Have you thought about going into motivational speaking?! :)

Saggy - you and your 5 minutes also make me smile :)

See how much smiling going on here?! Posifrickentivity that's what that is!! tried to write something cruder and spell check auto corrected to posifrickentivity, can you believe my phone has learned that word?!

Thanks mssunshine I was doing a lot of weeping on the sofa yesterday and the day before, and today feeling much better (though tomorrow may be back to the sofa - I'm very sure that part isn't over - and stiff upper lip is too blimmin' exhausting to manage). But I'm going to enjoy the positivity when it comes along too I've decided :-) and the ttc when we get that far...

Oh I'm definitely enjoying TTC! Its the best 5 minutes of the day!

Hey newbies!!!! We are all here to support you......,,guys...... Where's the posifrickintivity??

PMA, I think we should enjoy ttc, enjoy our pregnancies and accept the fact that there is sod all we can do about nature, it's out of our hands now ladies sooooo let's embrace the positive let go of the negative, look to the future and say Fuck You Mother Nature! You have already caused me and my family enough pain, I will not let you define me or rule my life orang longer!!!! It's onwards and upwards from here girls!!!!!

The above was said with love by the way....my intention is not to belittle our grief or atrocious experiences...just to inspire, uplift and motivate....xxxxxxxx

Hi Birds, I was on the Sept bus. Sorry for your loss. Been 3 weeks since my MMC & it's been a tough time, especially when I went through the hormonal crash, I really had some dark days then but now feel quite positive & looking to the future. The ladies on here are fab & will cheer you up. You sound quite positive but remember its okay to grieve, cry & scream too.

Well swallowed my fear & DTD (fear about pregnancy, not DTD!!). Read into SMEP but feel exhausted just reading it! Prob could convince DH to do it though - he was v happy after DTD but I think that's as he found a couple of quid under his pillow (not from the tooth fairy, we hide things when DD comes into our bed!!). Anyway DH at work til late tomorrow so that puts tomorrow out, so I'm hoping for some fertile Friday luck!!

Hello, can I join? Was on the October bus until this Monday when we went into epu because I'd had three days of light bleeding over the weekend. I should have been 10 or 11 weeks pregnant (got BFP about 7 weeks ago) but they dated me at 4/5 weeks and couldn't see a heartbeat - bleeding and cramps still going and although we have another scan on Tuesday to confirm, I'm sure it's a mc. It was my first pregnancy and the last few days have been very sad but with a lot of wonderful RL support, we are determined not to get too discouraged and carry on ttc once it's all over. Would really help I think to have you ladies to chat to.

Oooh some tears tonight. A good friend has just found out she's having a girl. I was meant to be only a few weeks behind so should have been having that scan myself soon. Instead I might get to poas. Boo :(
I feel like a horrible person that I can't just be happy for her.

Sorry for the self-indulgence :(

Bump maybe you ought to get checked out just in case. The last thing you want is an ectopic.

Hi all, just found you again and there's 3 pages to catch up on!

jmf I did sperm meets egg and it worked for us :) though actually we did 6 days in a row dtd instead of 3 it very nearly finished DH off :)

spanish yy re time going slowly, I was sat in a meeting today thinking, 'I wonder what day I am at now', quick calculation 5+3, 'oh so one day further on than yesterday then'

I've been pretty stressed after a calm start, I kept having stretchy pains on my left hand side and convinced myself it was an ectopic pg. I also have a horrendous stomach bug so keep having stomach cramps and I read that that can be a sign of ectopic pg too. But... my DD has this awful virus that is going round and I have been changing very sloppy nappies so more likely to have caught something from her, and the side pains have gone now.

I'm off on holiday next week so have had to tell the friends we are going with - feels a bit odd but they would have guessed anyway with the no drinking, no spa, no water slides etc etc!

congrats lucky and welcome newbies :)

and good luck friday poasers

Thunder it's what I do and never been told its a prob and I have consultant led care so he should know! And is totally amazing and thorough in every other possible way

Hi farmer and gin welcome but sorry to find you here...best of luck for quick BFPs

PG after MC is just tough....I hated every scan with DS worked myself up into a stressed/crying mess for a coupla days before each one and worried abt every single little twinge...and I had PGP ha ha BUT posifrickintivity at the end of it all I got my DS and he was worth all the heartache and this baby...and your babies...will be too

Wow late to the party again but found you all and loving the new Fred title!

Can someone please add me to the list as stupid iPad not playing ball tonight.

ChocolateCremeEggBag 1DS, MC in Dec, BFP WILL be here 10April (oh yes!)

Hello farmergirl, G&T & mrs Howard - sorry that you are here but lovely to have you.

Now should we be thinking of new names? Maybe with a Friday theme?

glad you came over here. You'll like it. They're ^^ lovely.

Oh farmer. Wow. Well, the way I look at it is they say less than 25% chance of mc usually, and yet all of us are here. So that 25% must happen quite often and therefore your good one may come along just as often. I have everything crossed for you :)

(did that make sense? Brain still like cake!)

Thank you mrs. Yeah I take it first thing, but also take my folic then too- id that ok do you know?

Thanks for the welcome.

Gin - I hope you get some better luck soon - its horrible!

Ibelieve - Yes I have had tests done - had to wait to fourth cos they wouldn't count the ectopic. I have an inverted chromosone - not treatable. I have 75% chance of mc in every pregnancy which is pretty crappy odds i know. The ectopic was just bad luck apparently.

Thunder I do, you're not supposed to take the thyroxine too close to having milk/yog cos calcium can slow absorption, so I would take it as soon as you wake up then if you shower/get up etc by the time you have breakfast it should be ok, I think I was told 30min gap. Hope you notice a difference hello to all the newcomers and sorry you had to join us!
I am cd19 now, not even a faint line on the opk and I'm a 28day cycle girl, even when I stopped the pill I went straight into 28d cycle we've already dtd more in the last week than we did in the last 6 months!! We can't keep this up much longer!!

Hi farmer and gin.
Nice to meet you both, although shitty circumstances.

Farmer- have you ha any investigations into causes?

Gin- if it helps, 6 months after mc are supposed to be super fertile. I hope your wait for your next BFP is not so long this time.

Can I join? Am very nervous

ttc 2 years.
endo and low amh
referred for ivf 25 jan
bfp (natural) 29 jan
bleeding from 30 jan
6 week heartbeat 11 Feb
m/c confirmed 15 Feb

Today - first day of no bleeding, finally.

so I'm just starting to think about ttc again. I'm not going to hang around, no waiting for first period malarkey.

If nothing happens, ivf in a few months.

That's me

(ps I'm really nervous about waiting years to get pregnant again and then losing another baby. I think I need a serious talking to!)

I was pointed to you and so glad I was. Hope its ok to join you all.

We have had 3 mc and 1 ectopic over last few years and now daring to ttc again. Today 4 days late but test negative and feeling neurotic as usual!!!! Nice to find a place to share!

I mean levothyroxine!

Quick question- Does anyone know if it's ok to take folic acid and levithyroxine together? Just started on the latter for hypothyroidism and need the drugs to get working ASAP!