The big fat posifrickintivity, but only on a friday thread - TTC after MC and not lose your head

little I have a self diagnosed short luteal phase of 9-10 days (ovulate CD19-20 and 29 day cycle) and seem to get PG quite quickly if that is any reassurance

I've resisted pink RL took over so not even thought abt POAS latterly Will explain tomorrow too shattered now...hope everyone is ok, night x

Garden! I just check back in and look what the hell happened! Jeez Fridays on this Fred are immense!!!! Wahhooooooo!

Now, only one more day to go before I get to poa digi. shell have you caved yet? :)

On the whole friends getting pg thing, my friend ( who is very lovely) asked me if I was okay with her getting pg (just after mc 2). My reply was of course I am naturally a little jealous, but my happyness and excitement for you far outweighs that. I will tell you if talking about it ever gets to hard.
That answer seemed to go down okay, satisfying the curiosity of does it hurt (yes) and also reassuring of happiness (yay)

On cycle counting: I've gone with cycle 0 being the one after the mc before you get your first AF as its so hit and miss you can't necessarily guarantee that you'll even be able to TTC during that time.

Thank you ladies - love you guys! Newbies sorry you are here but it helps under the circumstances. X

Alyant79 1 DD 1MMC - TTC cycle 0 BFP due 8th April
AmelieRose 0 DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 2
Booty: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Farmerwife 0DC 3MC 1Ep Cycle 1
Floweroct 0dc 1mmc cycle 1
Fod: 1DS 1DD 1MC TTC 0 cycle
Ickle:1 DD 1 MMC TTC Cycle 0
jmf294: 1DS, 1DD, 1MC, TTC Cycle 2 post MC
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0
Mummytothearkbuilder 1DS 1MC TTC cycle 0
SaggyOldClothCatpuss 1DS 1DD 1MC -TTC cycle 1 POAS March 29
Santa 1 DC 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Thunderbuns 0DC, 1mmc, ttc cycle 4 post ERPC
Woot: 2MC TTC cycle 0 {???}
Zeu 1DD 1mc cycle 1 bfp due 11th April
Yorkiebilb 0dc, 1mmc TTC cycle 3 post

Bodicea: 0DC, 2MC, cycle 3 post erpc - BFP
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - BFP
JBrd: 1 DS, 1 MC, cycle 1, BFP
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC - BFP (Whispers quietly, stick baby)
Pink- 0dc, 2mc, cycle 1 following last mc BFP. hopefully due 17.11.13!
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC

Farmer just cut and paste the list and insert yourself alphabetically.

Ha those rules are great - will stop me needing to take out shares in pregnancy tests!!! Fridays it is then.

How do i get myself on the big list thing saggy

Amelie I found out a friend is up the duff too today. She kept asking how it made me feel .......so I lied!

I'm with you there, Saggy. So far this week I have eaten chorizo, rare steak, parma ham, blue cheese and the ripest, oozingest French cheese possible to find! I'm sure soft eggs will be on the menu this weekend!

Congrats to all the the ladies with BFPs today. Great news!

We've been to the infertility clinic today and they are keen for us to get started on our next cycle - meds will start 19 days after AF arrives. Very pleased that the wait won't be too long. And they're also happy for us to ttc naturally as soon as my ERPC bleeding has ceased - none of this waiting for the first AF malarky. Woo hoo! DP won't know what has hit him!

I didn't write them. Santa did! Im not that clever!
Well, I POAOPK today...nothing! According to the app, I should ovulate around today. I know its late to start, but Im going to keep DTD andPOAOPK and see what happens. Hopefully Ive already ovulated.

Well done fertile fridayers I so love this thread x

Love the rules Saggy , thanks for adding me!

Just found out my SIL (one of my closest friends) is up the duff. Am so, so happy for them but feeling a wee bit sad too. Hoping I'll be able to join her soon...

Garden congratulations! A line is a line. It's the rules.

Welcome little bairn, sorry to hear about your MC, and hope you'll soon be joining the ranks of the upduffed.

Can someone add my stats when you update the list please

Bakingtins, 2 DC, 3 MC, cycle 0

Just realised I might have got my BFP on cycle 2 as didn't count a cycle 0. I think not sure now anyway gonna call it cycle 3 as fits with my theory.

saggy love the rules. Feeling contrite for breaking them now

Saggy, know what you mean. Lots of Comic Relief stuff at school today & the kids' infectious mood cheered me up (plus all the cakes I sampled at the staff bake-off competition - not feeling guilty though, I'm sure cake is as vital as folic acid :) ).

York I'm going to arrange an appointment on Monday, been avoiding the Drs and Hosp the after care after DS death was dreadful. But I was seriously ill with Folate anaemia afterwards, currently on 5mg of Folic Acid and need to book bloods to see how my levels are now.

Thunderbuns Yes I was on the May thread, thank you for the welcome.
Did you have a similar name on the May thread, I recognise your name too.

So anyone got any advice for a short Luteal phase?

Ickle never mind a stick. I went out with DM and DB today. I laughed so much I nearly peed on the floor in Bonne Marche! It was lovely to have some fun for a change.

Alyant79 1 DD 1MMC - TTC cycle 0 BFP due 8th April
AmelieRose 0 DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 2
Booty: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Floweroct 0dc 1mmc cycle 1
Fod: 1DS 1DD 1MC TTC 0 cycle
Ickle:1 DD 1 MMC TTC Cycle 0
jmf294: 1DS, 1DD, 1MC, TTC Cycle 2 post MC
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0
Mummytothearkbuilder 1DS 1MC TTC cycle 0
SaggyOldClothCatpuss 1DS 1DD 1MC -TTC cycle 1 POAS March 29
Santa 1 DC 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Thunderbuns 0DC, 1mmc, ttc cycle 4 post ERPC
Woot: 2MC TTC cycle 0 {???}
Zeu 1DD 1mc cycle 1 bfp due 11th April
Yorkiebilb 0dc, 1mmc TTC cycle 3 post

Bodicea: 0DC, 2MC, cycle 3 post erpc - BFP
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - BFP
JBrd: 1 DS, 1 MC, cycle 1, BFP
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC - BFP (Whispers quietly, stick baby)
Pink- 0dc, 2mc, cycle 1 following last mc BFP. hopefully due 17.11.13!
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC

Saggy peeing myself at rule 6 (but not on a stick :) )

too tipsy to update the list (surely i'm not alone in seeing this as a bit of a silver lining?), but whoever is doing it next i should be a MMC, not an MC.

i think amelie rose needs to be added too

For Farmer and all the other newbies, heres a C&P of WillSantaComeAgain's thread rules:
POAS Rules

thunder Please will you add me to your list - 0 dc 3 mc 1 ep cycle 1

This thread is best thing i have ever found, feel better being on it and definitely less alone...still working on the fear factor!

Am i right in thinking you all test on a friday?????

Hi little, I recognise you from a previous thread - maybe the May one? So sorry you're here but you are welcome.

yorkie, I don't fish slap for bossing me, just breaking the system! Added myself.

Right. Ive got a plan! Im going to eat everything you arent meant to eat when you are PG. Soft cheese, pate, rare meat, tuna... . Im going to drink alcohol...
Anything and everything that I really shouldn't do. Im virtually guaranteed to get PG then... It's the Law of Sod!

How's that?