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The big fat posifrickintivity, but only on a friday thread - TTC after MC and not lose your head

980 replies

Mummytothearkbuilder · 12/03/2013 23:35

Ladies - a brand new lovely shiny thread for us to fill! Enjoy x

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CatPussInACrownOfThorns · 21/03/2013 20:14

Yup, another one here with brown sludge at about that stage Ickle.
jmf294 you'll be testing the same friday as me. Fingers crossed for you, me and everyone else.

IBelieveInPink · 21/03/2013 18:39

I'm hanging around here for a few months yet, don't you worry. Am far from out of the woods yet and still shitting it very scared.

Besides, your levels could drop super quick, and you could have a BFP (healthy baby) before you know it. X

jmf294 · 21/03/2013 18:34

Hugs thunder- really hope your TSH drops ASAP and you graduate from here.
Congratulations vocalista- lovely news. I had a dream in my last pregnancy about being pregnant and I went and tested that day and has my surprise BFP. Strange how intuition works.

I am feeling all positive today- but not testing for 2 weeks yet and don't think I ovulated but you never know!!

Thundercatsarego · 21/03/2013 18:29

Ahh thanks pink you soppy pregnant woman

I'll still miss you when you move on without me x

IBelieveInPink · 21/03/2013 18:20

Wow thunder that so just summed it up. I got all emosh then hormones much
Don't just want a BFP want a healthy baby. I love this. bigger picture long term goal. Aww. definitely hormones?!

Thundercatsarego · 21/03/2013 18:07

Congrats voc!

Thanks for the nice words guys. Yeah it's ok really. I don't just want a bfp, I want a healthy pregnancy with a healthy baby at the end of it, so I need to get my shit straight levels sorted first. I'm on the case!

Ickle, I got a bit of that at around the same time. A few globs on a few occasions- yuk. It soon settled down though.

Littlebairn, keep going! You may have missed ov or something? Enjoy it too though x

Bakingtins · 21/03/2013 18:03

Little Bairn i now have an image in my head of you lying on your back with a cushion under your bum knitting baby clothes. Odd.

WillSantaComeAgain · 21/03/2013 17:38
alyant79 · 21/03/2013 17:35

ickle that's no good. As someone who had to have second op I hope you don't have too. Although since you got a bfn I'd say you are probably ok.

vocalista that's great! Fx it sticks!!!

thunder bad luck. At least you were expecting it

Lucky13ForBaby · 21/03/2013 17:26

Sorry thunder :( wine for you tonight x

ChocolateCremeEggBag · 21/03/2013 17:13

Excellent news Vocalista - now out with the symptoms (apart from the vivid dreams) did you get any implantation bleed type stuff? Sore boobs?

Littlebairn - is this your first proper cycle post mc? I think you'll get more highs before the peak the first month of using it so don't give up just yet.

thunder sorry AF got you but as others have said, it's going to let you have a proper go at things (but I can guess that it still sucks)

Lucky13ForBaby · 21/03/2013 17:12

Congrats Vocalist :) xxx

GardenWorm · 21/03/2013 15:52

Big congrats Vocalist! Love that it came to you in a dream Grin

katerinaemalina · 21/03/2013 15:40

Vocalist did u have any other symptoms? Congrats to you we need some good news GrinGrinGrin

icklemssunshine1 · 21/03/2013 15:27

Hi ladies, could do with some posifrickintivity. Been over 3 weeks since ERPC & thought it was all over but got terrible cramping & (sorry for tmi) but v thick, sludgy discharge. Just my luck I'll be one of the few women who need another op. Just want to bloody TTC & get my BFP!

Bakingtins · 21/03/2013 13:28

Congrats vocalista !

Vocalista86 · 21/03/2013 13:26

Thanks and I know, basically I couldn't control myself, I almost knew and just had to....! Grin

shellshock7 · 21/03/2013 13:25

Congrats vocalist Grin

Vocalista86 · 21/03/2013 13:23

Thanks LittleB

CatPussInACrownOfThorns · 21/03/2013 13:19

Congratulations Vocalista, but BAD for not sticking to the system! Grin

LittleBairn · 21/03/2013 13:16

vocalist wonderful news!

LittleBairn · 21/03/2013 13:15

katerina I'm left handed too I learned too by just repeatedly watching the same YouTube videos over and over again and then trying it out. As left handlers we are constantly flipping images/objects around to work for us we just aren't aware of it. I've heard of a lot of left handers learning to knit by watching youtubes.

It's also good activity to keep you busy if your 'bum upping' after DTD. Grin

I used to love one Born but I haven't been able to watch it since MC, my waters broke just after I finished watching an episode.
Hopefully when I get my BFP I will be able to watch it again although it might stress me as I will now be having a hospital birth, I was originally booked in for HB.

will I'm the same excellent cook (modest eeh Blush ) but dreadful baker my cakes are embarrassing looking but do taste good.

I'm CD13 CBfM still showing high but no OV sign I'm sur sits passed but I will continue to finish this cycle.

Vocalista86 · 21/03/2013 13:13

Ladies,

Last night I was having very weird dreams.... about breastfeeding and babynames. Very vivid too. So as soon as I woke up I POAS and guess what, very clear BFP. I rushed back in to my hubby there were tears of joy we cannot believe it. I must only be about 12 dpo and couldn't hold out another 2 days until AF was due.

Also it was only a cheapie SuperDrug test...

So excited and nervous, praying it's a health pregnancy for the next 8 months.

Also I will be testing agan on Fertile Friday with my ClearBlue, saved for this very reason.

Good luck to all for tomorrow xx

WillSantaComeAgain · 21/03/2013 12:51

CD = cycle day (1 being the first day of AF)

I'm definitely not creative or crafty in any way shape or form, as those who've seen DC's 1st and 2nd birthday cakes will attest. (I'm an excellent cook, but can't decorate to save my life).

Quite nervous about FF. Glad I'm not the only one testing though!!

katerinaemalina · 21/03/2013 12:32

Being thick but what does cd mean? Thunder am presuming you have AF from comments boo big hugs. I suspect I will join in day or two. Clinks wine glass xx