DH HAS GONE FOR A PG TEST!!

thanks schneebly!you dont understand how relieved i am!ive never been so happy to have af!!!no doubt by the end of the day i'll be wishing i was a man!!

update for you.felt really crappy all day yesterday.was off to bed and took my sample bottle up with me for this morning.went to the loo before going to bed,and af had finally come!!bloody typical.ive been shitting myself all weekend about the possibility of it being an ectopic,and the night before im due to take my sample in,af comes!
i am sooooo relieved,just dont understand why im 2 months late.probably is just down to mc in march.
just wanted to say thank you to everyone for all your support over the last few days.

you could tell that!!he just kept asking the same questions over and over.think he was maybe a trainee!!bless!!

i just thought it was a waste of their time tbh!i kept saying i didnt need to speak to a nurse,my protesting probably translated to them that i was in need of a home visit!!!

omg hopecat!why are some people like this?ive still not text my 'ex' friend as she will now be known!started having pains in tum today,but nothing too bad as yet.im just really hopeing that it isnt an ectopic.still feeling very sick but think thast down to worrying.taking wee sample in tomorrow,and have decided to do another pg test next friday,as ive been told the results will usually take a week.(rang nhs direct up!!they are a bunch of scare mungers aswell.told them what gp had said and they got a nurse to ring me back!told them i only wanted to know how long to wait before ringing for results!she started goign on asking if id had a headache,told her yes and she said i should go to the hospital straight away!didnt go,just going to wait to do wee test.think the headaches are just down to stress and worry tbh.

thanks hopecat,i dont know what id do without mn tbh!!dh has said to ignore her.when i got pg with the last one,she stopped talking to me until after id had her.she said she was ttc and didnt want me rubbing her nose in it!dh reckons that because shes expecting now,its a case of no one else is allowed to be either.im not replying to her.she'll prob text me before i do her.just cant believe how nasty she has been.when she had her ectopics i was the first one there for her.i know i dont know for definate yet what is going on with me,but if it is ectopic,i jsut hope she wont carry on being like this.im really hoping it isnt,and because the gp said to watch for any pain or brown bleeding,my eyes are out on stalks!had some pains today,but none that have lasted,just like ive pulled something.dh reckons i am pg and that everything will turn out ok,he said maybe i got pg in the last couple of weeks and it wont show up yet.but that doesnt explain why ive had no af since march!just have to keep my fingers crossed until next week.how long do pee samples usually take to get the results back?im taking it in on monday.might do another home test next weekend if still not got the results back.am going to be a complete nervous wreck next week waiting!

i just dont want to reply because i know i'll get too upset.weve been friends since primary school,and i never thought shed be like this with me,not after all these yeasr

hi everyone.feeling abit better today,at least ive got rid of my headache!sent my so called friend a text cos shes had ectopics and coldnt believe her response!heres what she said,word for word
'got your msg earlier and had to think what to say.really its your own fault,you shouldve got snipped when you had alyssa.shudnt think its ectopic,youve got no history of prev ectopics.cant believe you,dont see why you want more kids anyway'
im really shocked and angry at what shes said.just never thought she would be like that.shes expecting at the mo and has already got kids,so i thought she wouldve been more supportive.i never text her back,and dont intend to.is it just me being abit oversensitive?

hi everyone.doctor didnt say its definalty an ectopic,just she thought it might be as i have alot of pg symptoms,and especially as i have had no af now since march 10th.she said that shop pg tests dont always show up results if its ectopic.and thats why she wants to send my wee off to the lab.think shes not rushing into anything is because im not showing any ectopic symptoms (dont know what they are tbh but she said if i get any brown bleeding and/or really bad pain,to go straight to the hospital)just wish i didnt have to wait the weekend to take in my wee in.am going to throw myself into my coursework this weekend and try to take my mind off everything and just hope no af is down to mc and bf!tahnk you everyone,i dont have anyone else i can talk to about it so i really appreciate all your advice.