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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

No April Fools on the April BFP Bus, we got cookies

989 replies

padster75 · 08/03/2013 06:31

Well I am dusting down the drivers seat and kick starting the April bus for those the BFP fairy missed on the lucky Mad March bus. Fingers crossed the destination for this one is 'Baby Central'.

OP posts:
MrsAVB · 16/04/2013 08:15

FX penny, and try not to drive yourself too crazy! That goes for you too gilly... #said with love xxx

gillywillywoo · 16/04/2013 08:03

Hmmm JUST did an OPK and the line is probably thicker and slightly darker than its been all month... Still not a big fat dark positive like last month but I dunno....I'm going to take a test to work and do it again this afternoon and see if it gets any darker...
Me and DH are going out for some drinkies tonight and both off work tomorrow so that would be convenient if I'm about to ov! Lots of dtd Grin

Bbt is still low low low so ov hasn't happened yet for sure.

Wondering whether I'm just having a really long cycle this month.

gillywillywoo · 16/04/2013 07:40

Oooohhhh penny!!!!! Maybe!!! Good luck to yooooooou Smilex

I'm now on cd23 and still no bbt rise or positive OPK Hmm

Penny31 · 16/04/2013 07:35

I had to have a wee at 3am and had another at 7am. Decided to poas because my boobs are still sore. 5 mins later, If I hold it to the light and squint there is a line thats shadow like. I could be imagining it couldn't I? I'm driving myself crazy! I'm 11 dpo

TobyLerone · 15/04/2013 22:25

I'm not watching it til tomorrow. Will have to steer clear of the whole Internet!

gillywillywoo · 15/04/2013 22:11

Aaarrgggghhhh broadchurch!!!!!!!! Blush

Thatssofunny · 15/04/2013 19:51

Congratulations to those BFPs. Flowers

Managed Saturday,...but Sunday didn't quite work out. Poor DP. Blush He really tried, but we gave up eventually. He's away for a few days now. Oh well,...alright then. I had hoped smiley face would wait until later this week, but I appear to have ovulated yesterday or today instead. Chances not terribly high, so I'll wait for AF now to try again next month. Sad I'll try and get used to the idea that perhaps a baby for my birthday wouldn't be a bad thing either.

gilly Quite possibly everything is fine with you. Bodies just seem to throw all sorts of random behaviours at you when you ttc. I know mine does. Confused

marie456 · 15/04/2013 19:28

Congrats new bfp's! How exciting! April bus doing smashing so far!
Us women have a lot to put up with this blimin fertility thing! Try and relax gilly. I'm sure all is well and perhaps you missed the timing for the +ve opk.
Cd 14 for me. I usually ovulate around day 16/17 which is fine but today had bit of blood when I went to the loo! eeks! What's that all about?!

WanabeMum · 15/04/2013 19:04

Aw gilly try not to worry too much, it took me 10 months to conceive dd and I obsessed over the whole process which caused me a lot of stress! It seemed that when I decided to relax I got my BFP.

Sore boobs for me today, no period symptoms, very confused Confused

Penny31 · 15/04/2013 10:31

Congratulations Lisa!

Penny31 · 15/04/2013 10:27

[hugs gilly] chin up and try not to stress. You sound like me, I worry about everything and always thinking something is wrong.

You know when someone gets a line on pg sticks and everyone says a line is a line? Surely this is the case with opk's? Lets assume so and think positive thoughts.

I reckon that some months ov is obvious and others its not. I had different ov symptoms last month to the ones I had this month. Same goes with AF symptoms, differ month to month occasionally.

Pixie001 · 15/04/2013 09:41

Congrats sorelip and lisba! Fantastic news! We're averaging one bfp every other day which is a great pace!

Can't believe it's monday already! I followed up my gym session yest with booking myself into zumba tonight for 1st time!

gillywillywoo · 15/04/2013 09:36

Updated list!!!!!! Smile

Passengers on board

BFPs so far:

Zeuxippe
sunshine2013
weechops
harry78
PistachioTruffle
Ganetgob
Alyssa1978
Sorelip
Lisbapalea

9 BFPs so far!!!!!! Smile

Awaiting BFPs

Mortifiedadams ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 1st April
whiterose2011 ttc#1, cycle 6, bfp due 2nd April
Dutchyoriginal TTC#2, cycle 15, last AF 14/3, BFP due between 30/3 and 9/4
Zeu ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp due 11th April
Mullin1982 TTC#1, cycle ?, BFP due 14th April
LondonSuperTrooper, TTC#2, Cycle 5, BFP due 14 April
Mythreeknights ttc#3, cycle 2, BFP due April 15
Wanabemum TTC#2, cycle 1, BFP 15th April
Candlstickolder TTC #1, cycle 4, bfp due 16th April
mangomom TTC #2, cycle 1, BFP due 17 April
Bikey86 ttc #1, cycle 1, bfp due 18th April
YorkshireTeaDrinker TTC#2, cycle18, BFP due 19th April
pumpkinsweetie TTC#5, cycle 2, BFP due 21st April
monkette TTC#1 BFP due April 21st/22nd
essie81 ttc#1, cycle 5, BFP due 22 April
Pixie001, cycle 8, ttc #1, BFP due 23rd April
gillywillywoo, TTC#1, cycle 2, BFP due 24th April
TobyLerone ttc#3, cycle5, bfp due 25th April
Penny31 TTC #1 cycle 2 BFP due 26th April
Littlepinkfizz ttc#5 cycle 10 BFP due 27 April
Fairypants ttc#3, cycle 1, bfp due 28th April
JellyBeanDavey TTC #1 Cycle #6 BFP due 28th April
Dogandbeth ttc#3, cycle 2, BFP due mid/end of april.
Thatssofunny ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 28th April
marie456 TTC #1 cycle 6 af/bf 29/30 April
MrsAVB ttc#1, cycle 8, BFP due 30th April
CubanoHabana TTC #1, cycle 5, BFP due 30th April
HogwartsIsHome TTC #?, cycle 1, BFP due ?

gillywillywoo · 15/04/2013 09:31

Thank you Smile x

I'm already trying to adopt that same frame of mind actually...
Assume this month was a weird one... Look forward to this cycle being over and done with....and focus on next cycle (whilst secretly hoping I will be surprised and get a BFP!)

All kinds of worries popping into my head like whether I'm not ovulating at all... Maybe I have other problems... Maybe even DH has problems too... TTC is exciting but also a bit stressful for me... Blush

Just going to have to relax I think... Somehow...!

TobyLerone · 15/04/2013 09:13

Aw, gilly :(

This might not be a helpful suggestion, but how about you just focus on the end of this month. Then you'll know for sure either way, and can either start again or (hopefully) have your BFP! I'll hold your hand and do the same :)

Could you even stop temping for this month, or would it mess up your charts? Just assume this one was a weird month, have a Wine and hopefully be surprised by a BFP and not have to start again next month.

gillywillywoo · 15/04/2013 09:07

Ahhhh congrats Lisa!!!! SmileThanks that's great news!

I'm feeling a bit worried and anxious this morning... Cd22 and still no bbt riseHmm
Still don't even know if I've really had a positive OPK this month... Lots of lines last week but I wouldn't class at of them as positives (unlike last month where I had very obvious positives on cd17 and cd18)

Not sure what's going on... Combined with the fact that I had a small amount of blood on cd10... I'm feeling worried and a bit sad! Blush

Last month I'm sure I ovulated.. Lots of EWCM and positive OPKs...
This month = nothing Blush

lisbapalea · 15/04/2013 08:55

Thanks all!

The excitement is kicking in now and DH has gone off to work with a spring in his step and a new incentive to work extra hard! I am working from home today and am going to have to work really hard to motivate myself to do anything other than get excited and muck about on mn!

Fingers crossed for everyone still waiting for sticks to pee on. I might go and have a little look at the December anti-natal thread and hope to see you guys over there soon (am sure I will still be lurking on this thread too though!).

MrsAVB · 15/04/2013 08:20

sorelip your post made me lol... But seriously, I hope you're feeling ok about the BFP and not freaking out too much!
Congrats lisba xxx
Happy Monday all!
Xxx

TobyLerone · 15/04/2013 06:34

Congratulations lisa! :o

pumpkinsweetie · 15/04/2013 06:28

Congrats lisa what wonderful news to wake up this morning Smile Thanks
9 bfps!!! Lets see if we make it to double figures, fx everyone!
As for ironing, own an iron but i only iron the odd garment that really needs it Grin, tumble drier does the job for me Smile

lisbapalea · 15/04/2013 05:49

Sorry for typos - being on a new phone, lying down in the dark is evidently not conducive to correct spelling or grammar!

lisbapalea · 15/04/2013 05:47

It seems you guys were right to wait a bit longer - just tested again and bfp!!

very excited although first reaction is relief for having done the wee i was busting for since 3.30am - i lasted until 5am before thinking i would pop! Luckily Dh forgave me for waking him in the middle of the night!

feel a but guilty for having wine in Saturday night after Saturday morning's neg test result, but i suppose there's not much i can do about that now. Health kick starts in earnest now!

Sorelip · 14/04/2013 23:11

Thank you all for the good wishes. Ela, good luck and I hope you find a happier place to work soon.

The secret to my success? It seems to be:

  1. Only have sex once during the fertile period
  2. Decide you don't want any (more) children for now
  3. Do a test to confirm that you are NOT pregnant so you can go on the pill again
  4. Get a BFP and have a mini panic attack.

Obviously I don't recommend any of these steps.

As for ironing, I own an iron but not an ironing board. Ergo, no ironing is done.

MrsAVB · 14/04/2013 22:37

Good luck for May champagne, science and anyone else I've forgotten. Ela - best of luck- I may be in a similar situation soon and am dreading having to make a decision. FX this is my month! sorelip - congrats, let us know the secrets of your success!
As for the ironing, penny I can't believe you've done an hour! We do iron some things but not everything. My mum on the other hand, irons her knickers, tea towels, dishcloths...

Fairypants · 14/04/2013 21:59

Good luck ela, it sounds like a sensible but difficult decision.

We are just back from our 'babymoon' planned to get ttc off to a good start. According to my app, I should be ovulating today and have dtd ever day since af left so fx we should be in with a good chance this month. We're not stopping yet though as I have a short cycle so I expect I probably ov later than my app predicts. Im really hoping for a good few more bfp's this week.
Jellybean- my DH also finds the shorthand intriguing and we have started using it when discussing ttc so as to avoid too much interest from the dc's.