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Ttc after recent mc, for Creme egg scoffers, shared confusion and joint cursing of mother nature

955 replies

Thundercatsarego · 06/02/2013 21:32

I couldn't bring myself to call her a bitch, we still need her help! Come on ladies, let's do this thing....

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Mummytothearkbuilder · 08/03/2013 18:54

Evening ladies!! Well....oh my days what an exciting day full of BFPs!! I am so so happy for you all and wish you happy and healthy pregnancies.

I am loving the idea of a stats list - please could someone add me pretty please as I'm on my phone

Mummytothearkbuilder 1DS 1MC TTC cycle 0

I hope you all have a lovely relaxing evening xx

GardenWorm · 08/03/2013 18:52

Get that bicycle thread going preggers ladies - I intend to get back on the preggers bike soon!

GardenWorm · 08/03/2013 18:51

Ha ha - well funny Bodicea, don't be cross!

Bodicea · 08/03/2013 18:43

Just found out hubby has had me on decaf tea for ages without telling me. Should I be cross?

Bodicea · 08/03/2013 18:37

I am sooooo rubbish on my stupid I phone with my big chip fingers!!! Can't do bold for toffe!! Grammar shocking!

Thanks mrs spence. Why did you have to have it?

MrsSpencerReid · 08/03/2013 18:31

So what title are we going for?!

Bodicea · 08/03/2013 18:29

bump it's an anticoagulant like heparin. I tested positive for antiophosolipid antibodies. After my last mc.

Sounds like a good title xxxx

JanieLovesCake · 08/03/2013 18:27

loving*

JanieLovesCake · 08/03/2013 18:26

ooh you have to have posifrickintivity in the title!!

i'm loing how many BFPs are in the stats list :)

MrsSpencerReid · 08/03/2013 18:25

Bodicea, you'll be fine with the jabs (speaking from experience) 19th of march should have been my 12w scan so I'll look forward to some good news to cheep me up Smile

BumpKitty · 08/03/2013 18:11

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC)
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0
Bodicea: 0DC, 2MC, cycle 3 post ercp - BFP

What's Clexane Bodicea?

BumpKitty · 08/03/2013 18:08

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC)
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0

there you go :)

how about... Laura Ashley Creme Egg graduates, join us for mutual freaking out and keep everything crossed for sticky beans,
too long? :)

Bodicea · 08/03/2013 18:07

I like the idea of a bicicle thread. How about we start title with
Tentative November 2013 .....

Just spoken to one of the obs docs after sheepishly telling her i am pg ( i was supposed to get another set of none pg bloods done first) and they are def putting me on clexane once I get a heartbeat. Midwife just put it on order for me and got myself a few little practice syringes and a strange little tummy cushion to practice on first! Needle bigger than I was expecting Hmm. So been booked in for scan on 19th march - eek

Would someone mind adding my to stats please. I am on phone xxx

Bodicea: 0DC, 2MC, cycle 3 post ercp - BFP

MrsSpencerReid · 08/03/2013 17:28

My goodness you lot are chatty Grinit's taken me all day to catch up! Yay for all the bfp's and so sorry to hear your crappy news fod, Hmm
I will join in the Friday poasing in 2 weeksSmile I can't add myself to the stats list as I'm on my phone? Would someone be so kind as to do it for me?
MrsSpencerReid 1DS 1MC cycle 0

Also, I will start a bicycle thread if someone comes up with a witty name Smile

SpanishLady · 08/03/2013 17:17

oooh Bump I think Im 9th Nov so kinda EDD buddies

Cam - yep that makes sense - Im going to talk my DH into an early scan - I just want to know something concrete even with acknowledging that it doesnt guarantee anything, and cant see myself hanging on to week 12

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
SpanishLady: 1 DS, 1MC, TTC Cycle 0 - BFP (before first AF post MC)

bzzbee · 08/03/2013 17:02

Heartfelt congrats to all the BFP-ers!! Such fab news.

Fod, I'm so sorry to hear your news.

No TTC/BFP news here (been too sick) BUT I got a new job. The job I applied for to dig me out of mc depression (no imminent mat leave put everything in painful perspective) so I am delighted about that. And maybe like the proverbial bus stop cigarette I will now get accidentally pregnant whilst not paying attention (if only!).

Given all the good news and luck floating around I suggest we all buy a lottery ticket ;-)

BumpKitty · 08/03/2013 16:59

hey spanishlady I already checked my EDD and it's 10th November, I'm 5 weeks on Sunday (fx). It's a combination of late testing and 30 day cycles that meant I didn't find out till now. It's DH's 40th on 7th November so will be (all being well) a nice present :)
garden There is no way I will join a November thread, I want to be with you lot. I would join an interim bicycle but I'm not brave enough to start one...

cam good luck with the seduction Grin
alyvant that is shit, so sorry I had a whole load of crap left too so had to have an ERPC 4 weeks after MC started, hope they can get you sorted as soon as possible xx

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek
BumpKitty: 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 3 - BFP

JanieLovesCake · 08/03/2013 16:55

oh aly how bloody annoying. just when you thought you were back on track. if it's any consolation, i had an erpc and they discovered loads of watery cysts when they did the pathologists report, the doctor said it was much better that i had the erpc as then there was a nice clean uterus for a further pregnancy to snuggle into...definitely a 'better out than in' situation. i hope you're ok, such a bummer.

and ok garden i'll do my best to stick to next friday as well (unless af shows up on thursday obv). lucky are you with us? :)

stats

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC
Janie: 0DC, 1MC (oct12), TTC cycle 3 - poas 15/03/12 eek

CamomileHoneyVanilla · 08/03/2013 16:50

Spanish - I personally wouldn't bother. I did last time and it was still cheerfully saying 3+ after I'd mmc. Its not mental, its understandable you want some reassurance, but ime expensive false reassurance is worse.

Sorry, could you spend the money on weekly treats for yourself instead?

SpanishLady · 08/03/2013 16:05

alyant - what a load of poo - so sorry and can totally understand your frustration - fx for a quick recovery and thereafter a quick BFP.

general question - as I've got to 3+ weeks with the celarblue digital - is it worth continuing to use them for reassurance? eg I know it will only be able to say 3+ but that at least lets me know it isnt falling back?

or am I mental?

dont answer that

GardenWorm · 08/03/2013 15:34

HOLY FRICKEN CRAP!

I leave you alone for 5 minutes to go an earn a crust and you all go and get bloody pregnant! IBIP&SHELL&BUMP

This calls for a double thumbs up (think 'We are the Champions' if old enough!). Congratulations ladies Grin

Janie I fully doubt intend to stick to 'Fertile Friday' to test, not massively hopefull so any witch craftery/fate/blah that can add a sprinkle of baby dust the better.

Maybe the pregnant ladies could create an interim thread like getting on a bicycle rather than a bus - i want to aspire to be on a bicycle thread soon.

Lucky13ForBaby · 08/03/2013 14:47

oh Alyant :( so sorry to hear of your news. Don't jump the bus yet though.
Shell - Thanks for the comment. Silly testing so early I know Blush

Who else is due to test early next week? I can't wait til next Friday!!!

List update:
Stats list 8 March 2013

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0
Lucky13: 1DS 2MC, TTC cycle 5 post MC

Thunderbuns · 08/03/2013 14:47

No time to post properly but just scanned through and had a thought- should we rename Fridays Fuckday? That's what most of the posts say today anyway....

CamomileHoneyVanilla · 08/03/2013 14:24

Alyant - how fecking frustrating. Feel very cross on your behalf. I'm going to go and buy a pregnancy test now just to be sure (need to get the steak anyway!).

CamomileHoneyVanilla · 08/03/2013 14:23

Stats list 8 March 2013

Santa 2 MCs TTC cycle 0 (i.e. before first AF after ERPC)
Shellshock7 2MCs 1 DS - TTC cycle 3 - BFP
alyant79 1 DD 1MC - TTC cycle 0 (next week)
Camomile 0DC, 1MC, TTC cycle 0

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