Ttc after recent mc, for Creme egg scoffers, shared confusion and joint cursing of mother nature

Hi Baking - wish with all my heart we can all graduate to an ante natal thread soon - like yourself I am now superstitious about jumping too soon - if this is a new pregnancy I will be at the stage I was when I MC'd at the end of March so as soon as I believe it that is my first goal!

Better believe it Spanish! Now we need a few more BFPs and we'll go and have a creme egg thread on the pregnancy board. I'm getting progressively more bonkers as the weeks go by, but don't want to whinge too much on here because at least I'm one hurdle further on. On a pregnancy thread I could give the madness full rein!

I am weak willed.

So weak in fact I got a clearblue digital and poas in the loo at the office....says 'Pregnant 1-2 weeks' - DH still cautions we assume the worst - but we had to agree that a clear blue digital 2 weeks ago said 'Not Pregnant' and one now says I am.

so really nothing left to do but wait to see if digitals continue to indicate pg and then see a doctor and get a definitive answer.

this is on eof the oddest things to happen to me and I know it is my own fault (and DH's!) to have this confusion but appreciate your patience and support ladies.

x

Spanish!!! Sounds like a BFP. And I love the fact that you were going to wait til the weekend, then blatantly didn't!!! :)
Mini congrats, until you are more confident on it! :)

eek! if its ok I'll just stay here and try to ignore imagined symptoms - I'll post up update when I have a digital BFP or BFN.

I'll be lurking to wish everyone else testing this week best of luck....

Sounds like a BFP to me, Spanish. If you've had a negative 2 weeks ago I think any HCG from MC is well and truly gone. Congratulations!

T-buns - I am a crazed woman I have to admit. Apologies for disobeying the system.

its the digital result that would be the decider for me as surely a reversal of results isnt right unless a) Im pg or b) something is left over from MC. So I have to find the fortitude to wait abit longer to try - I am guessing I am 10 or 11 today though just checked my diary and in my last pregnancy I tested positive on digital at 10 dpo.

its not how I thought this would play out (eg if fortunate enough to get a BFP again)

If I am pg I would be very happy and will just ignore the worries of another MC - as long as it turned out alright my DH would come round too.

What's happened to the system?!!

Seriously though, this sounds like a bfp to me, spanish. I can't believe the tests are so different that one gets a clear positive two weeks after a bfn on the other. Having said that, digi tests are not as sensitive by far so time will definitely tell.

How do you both feel if it is a positive?

well I poas stick this morning to use first wee of the day and a second line came up straight away - not as dark as the control line but no mistaking and darker then yesterday - which was done after lunch in the toilets at work!

However, DH and I wonder if it can be something left over from my MC? I had a BFN with a digital clear blue on Thurs 14th Feb - but isnt First reponse or the non-digital strips more sensitive then the digital ones? I am wondering if my hormone levels are still high emough to be picked up on the very sensitive strips but wouldnt be on the digital.

I have only moved on a fraction further from yesterday - I am definitely getting a line but have my doubts as per above.

So I can only wait for a few days to give a clear blue digital best chance to pick anything up - I think if I get a digital BFP then its a clear reversal of the result from 2 weeks ago.

anyone heard of this kind of thing?

Of course shell, shame it's not the Friday but I suppose it's not all about a neat system....

Poas Friday. Yes. :)
runs off to hide sticks

I actually think I will be much better this month. I have lots to keep me busy in between now and then. And due to last months cycle being so messed up, DH is on rape week duty for at least another week from now. Just in case.

Exciting POAS news - fingers crossed for some positive results ladies.

I am nowhere near POAS so will get excited about yours instead!!

Good luck ladies xx

Aaaggh I want to POAS a week on Thurs, please can I Miss Thunder

Ok good plans poas girls. We can have poas Friday for the next couple of weeks at least? And will not talk of it in between times.

My next af should be due around 22nd/23rd so I could do that Friday. Any takers for the 15th?

I still have my stick stash. Although after last months ridiculous amount of poas, I have set myself 1 date. Friday the 8th will be the ONLY poas day. Because although tht will be 2 days early, I am off to a spa and would quite like to sit in the jacuzzi if it bfn. And I WILL not poas before then. much

Spanish, wait till at least Friday. Then you will definitely know one way or another. And can have a few several wines if not. :)

Good luck I believe!

I'm not going to poas till later in the week even the weekend if I can manage it. I just don't believe it to be honest - must be an aberration though am glad my dh said he could see a faint (v faint) line as well - as wondered if I was a little crazy given I had to squint and stand on one foot to be able to see the 'line' I think I can see.

I'm too nervous.

Hey pinkster, good to see you but sorry you've been feeling shitty. Sounds like you've been doing very well with grabbing this fertile window though- impressive shagging too!

My next hurdle is not being too much pressure to actually do it- one thing at a time though.

You still got your stick stash?

Hey hey! Thunder, another hurrah for mr thunder! Very considerate of him. Good to know you will be in this month. :)

I have been a bit quiet again, been feeling so negative, and didn't want to bring everyone else down. But, am on the more positive side.
According to my app, is fertile time now. An this matches exactly with the copious amount of ewcm that has arrived (gross). Which is giving me confidence as last month I didn't have any, at any time!
So mr pink blue?? has been on duty every night for the last 3 days, and will be later again. If it is meant to be this month, we have given it every opportunity to happen!
Now.... Just need to stay away from the sticks.....

X post choc, good work with the dtd effort through the lurgy!

spanish I think this sounds like it might be a good sign in terms of a bfp. Are you going to poas with fmu tomorrow or do as señor says and wait til the weekend? I can imagine that it's an anxious time For both of you

The only other thread I'm on here had two bfps today- and it's been ages since there was one on there. May this be the start of good things for us!

And yes, mr TB is a gem.

jmf, totally understand your sad day. I have managed to avoid too many date checks but realised today I'd be around 6 months now.

How's everyone else? ibip you there buddy?

Hello all!
We managed to get DS into bed reasonably on time before 7 so now watchn the E! Oscars recorded from last night
I have started on the Pringles already but in my defence they are the last we'll have in the house as used to be able to get them cheaply through work. Work have now sold Pringles to Kellogg's (special K Pringles?) so no more.
Which my bum will be happy about

CD17 and finally got a Peak on my CBFM today so just another 2 nights of sex week to go! Which will be a relief as am still trying to get rid of a cold.

I dont use FMU - I am literally going by the most ridiculous of 'facts'.

I had lots of EWCM on 13th & 14th of Feb - but tested neg for OV both those days. I had sex on 16th. thats it - If I had ov on 15th or 16th then that might explain it but I have no idea!

jmf294 - I want to give you a hug and hope that would make it better for you - it cant I know but I wish it could x

I second the hurrah for Mr T-Buns!

well its very faint but pink and about half a centimetre away from the control line.

I basically can see something but dont trust it or me. My DH has said Im to ignore it and wait till at least the weekends.

He says if I am pg he is cross as we had agreed we would wait for at least one AF to start trying again to make sure Im ok and we know where we are with my cycle dates.

He then emailed back saying he didnt mean to seem cold but he is worried how I'll feel if I am not.

he is right I am too obssessed.

Hurrah for your husband Thunderbuns!!