Ttc after recent mc, for Creme egg scoffers, shared confusion and joint cursing of mother nature

Fuck. Faint pink line. I'm scared.

Janie In theory i.e. if i can hold out that long I can join you poas next Thurs (not literally of course - that would be odd!)
Fod sorry to hear life is throwing crap in your face at the moment, thinking of you x
Shell Fingers crossed!
IBIP Toes crossed!
....can't remember who's 'gushing' EWCM but legs are crossed for you! (Some months I have had a ridiculous amount too ;o)

Fod Im sending you all my love. Just remember, 20% is 1 in 5. Statistically speaking thats fabulous odds! Stay positive my lovely. We are all here if you need us!

Just caught up over the last couple of days - you ladies have been busy (and chatty - which I love!).

Fod - I am so so sorry to hear about your brother - it's truly awful especially after the time you have had recently. Sending lots of hugs and positive thoughts my lovely xx

Hello my lovely ladies. I apologise for a late appearance normally I've been asleep for hours by now but I've been mostly spending my evening in the pub. Yep. Hic.

fod there are no adequate words- I'm do sorry to hear about your brother. He can still beat it though. It is such a shitter how life kicks you when you're down.

pink, yeah why not. I know you can handle an early bfn if you need to, so pee away if you like!

janie yeah next thurs if you like. Anyone else for a next Thursday poas-athon? fri obv better but we can work around that

cam, we're talking normal sneeze coinciding with a 'pants sneeze'? I'd say maybe the official term for that would be a gush? Not had it before but everything goes post mc. Hope you both feel better.

Oh fod I'm so sorry and I really hope he can beat it x

Oh fod.

He had found a lump but left it, it's now spread they have given him a 20 % survival rate....he's only 27! Everytime I feel like we are moving forward life seems to kick me in the guts and knock me ten steps back ;( the hope of pregnancy gives me something to cling to for now it also puts things into perspective

oh fod i'm so sorry. your emotions must be mangled right now. i hope you and your family can get through this horribly tough time. sending you hugs x

camo i hope you're feeling better by tomorrow so you can get on it ;) i do get quite a lot of ewcm, not noticed if i've sneezed beforehand though! maybe i notice it more since mc because i'm looking for it, whereas i wasn't a wiper checker before!

Fod- fuck. Sorry, no other words for it. Fuck. What exactly does nature think it is playing at right now? I am so sorry. Is it treatable? Hope you are holding up okay.

What a shitty day My brother was diagnosed with cancer today Was I a bastard in a previous life or something?

I apologise in advance for tmi. Two questions about ewcm.

So, ewcm. It appeared today, more than usual, after a particularly vigorous sneeze. Is more cm usual after mc or did it... Uh... all 'appear' at once because of the sneeze?

Also, can't dtd tonight as both far too poorly. Does obv happen after ewcm (ie if we feel better tomorrow might it be on time)??

Good luck shell and Janie. Got my fingers and toes crossed for you pink.

Congrats lies. I do feel at least two or three of us minimum should get Christmas babies.

Jmf, hope you're feeling ok post-cry. Sending hugs.

lies that's good news...bring on a December baby

pink do it do it do it

So did another test and again very faint line didn't appear till after the 10 mins so should be read as invalid...just gotta wait again till tomorrow

nice one pink. i knew i liked you :)

Janie. Definitely counts as a symptom. Most definitely. :)

ooooh shell exciting!! i imagine you'll be setting your alarm very early for tomorrow eek!! i have also had cramping and i'm on 7dpo (thought i was 8 but got my maths wrong doh)...how will i hold out for another week! miss thunder do i have permission to test next thursday pleeeeeeease?

and woop woop for you liesl you beat me by one day! may the future begin :) i think i still hold the record at 10 weeks on the button!

so with my symptom spotting... cramps, stuffy nose, feeling like a blown up balloon, and we also went to a restaurant for tea tonight that we went to when i was pregnant last time...does that count as a symptom?!

Do you think it too early? 11 dpo? With an Internet cheapy?

I can't argue with that lovely pink!

Well, I can't mess with the system can I thunder ;)

Fingers crossed for you Shell.
Hurray for your AF returning Liesel.

Yes this cycle is my last chance for a 2013 due date.
I am day 3 of my cycle so there is a few of us around the same stage.

I looked at the Facebook page today of Saying Goodbye- an organisation that has services all over the country to say goodbye to lost pregnancies and babies.
There was a video on the page- I watched it at work and cried a lot
Not cried for ages before today but it still hurts.

Hi girls.

You back to Friday poas again now pink then?

Hooray liesl!

Ok so maybe I'm getting ahead of myself but just downloaded an app which says if we get pregnant this cycle baby will be due end december. It just feels a huge positive step forward to be able to think ahead like this.

Good luck for poas Friday. Looking forward to joining you soon!

Yay lies! Woohoo!

Shell, I have had cramping in every one of my PGs. (however I know this doesn't sound positive as neither of them ended well) but each time k was assured by multiple sources that early cramping is fine, it is things stretching.
Which, btw, I also have. Is most likely af on way for me. Probably. Maybe. Hmm.

Fingers crossed shell!

Well I'm so pleased to report that first af has arrived 9 weeks and 6 days after erpc. Feel like we can now move on and start ttc!

Fingers crossed for you Shell! Im driving myself mad already, had the hospital last Thur and my levels were down to 147. They told me to test again in 10days-2weeks and call back if it's still positive, but I want to check NOW and then I know all the TTC I'm doing might actually work...