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TTC for the first time

786 replies

bluefreckles · 17/01/2013 18:50

Hello ladies

I would like to start a thread/bus/merry-go-round to meet, get support and share with ladies in the same boat as me:

TTC baby no 1!

Will you join me and see it through to the BFP?!

A bit about me - I'm 29, DP is 35. This will be our first child.

OP posts:
SarahMargaret · 17/04/2013 22:26

Hey everyone me again, on this thread for the 2nd month running lol. So I ovulated last Friday, but was getting positive opks on Thursday and Friday? weird? Anyway can't test till next Friday at least but have been feeling a few wee twinges feels like ovulation cramps? weird or a good sign? x

Beautytobe · 17/04/2013 18:33

Hello, new to this. Am 26 and last month me and my partner decided to see what happens and in my head we are trying!
I am pretty intone with my body and my cycles work like clock work! Never been on the pill and af comes right on time every month. We dtd every day of my fertile period 1st 2nd 3rd 4th 5th(ovulation day) and every other day til now. I have been exhausted since the 10th and on the 15th started to feel so sick(but not actually sic) i have taken lots of tests all bfn but something isn't right! Am due af tomo.

Beccadugs · 16/04/2013 20:40

Congratulations sairwa!

And welcome from one newbie to two others!!

sairwa99 · 16/04/2013 20:21

Thanks everyone!

Fingers crossed for you all!

BewilderedBug · 16/04/2013 19:00

Hi! We're TTC for the first time too! We've been going at it for 9 months and nothing :( Doctor is testing me for infertility...if anything is wrong it's probably me because DH has a daughter from a previous marraige. This is stressful! Is it always this stressful?!

Percypiglet · 16/04/2013 18:40

Hi, please can I join too! Am TTC first. I am 33 and hubby 40, we've been TTC for 5 months now and AF turned up today, boo.

hopetobeamum · 16/04/2013 09:42

Congratulations sairwa
Hope you have a wonderful pregnancy.
And fingers crossed I get my BFP soon :)

Thisisfreakingmeout · 15/04/2013 22:06

Hooray! Another BFP. Congrats.x

WakeyCakey · 15/04/2013 21:40

Congratulations sairwa !!!
Good luck for a brilliant pregnancy!
The BFP's are beginning to stack up!

sairwa99 · 15/04/2013 19:02

Hi all,

Cant believe im saying this... I got a BFP! Friday morning on CB digital test.... had been testing everyday since 1st day of missed AF.

Good luck to everyone else.. hopeto I was late 5 days before getting my BFP! I only had cramping, no spotting but the BFP finally arrived!

Can anyone advise about the GP appointment? Going tomorrow night after work, do I need to take a urine sample with me? Someone at work thought I should but don't want to pee in a cup if I don't have to...
'hi doctor'
'hi'
'heres my wee'
'ok'
embarrassing silence lol

cant find info about what to do on NHS website?

fingers crossed for everyone ttc... and for me for a safe pregnancy!

hopetobeamum · 15/04/2013 04:01

Thanks everyone for ur knowledge. I'm still suffering cramps but no other symptoms. I still have not had a positive on the OPK its CD 28 today and the spotting has stopped so ill keep u updated whether I get AF or I test pos on hpt on what should be wk 5 in 1 1/2 weeks time

Liquoriceallsort · 13/04/2013 22:01

Hopeto fx it isn't an early af. I've suffered with spotting ever since I came off the pill 2 years ago, I tried reflexology for the first 2 weeks of this cycle and no spotting this month! I would recommend it if you have the time/money to do it Smile

Sparrowlegs248 · 13/04/2013 18:39

Thank you madratlady, that clears things up a bit.

WakeyCakey · 13/04/2013 15:10

Well AF has arrived today! So onwards and upwards! At least now I know my cycles are a more regular 34 days as opposed to jumping all over the place.
Hope everyone is doing well!

Thisisfreakingmeout · 13/04/2013 08:21

hopeto no wonder your confused but you'll get there. Sorry I don't have any real knowledge to share but I'm keeping things crossed for you.

hopetobeamum · 13/04/2013 06:44

Hi Everyone,

I'm 26 DH 30 We are TTC our 1st. I have irregular periods spotting all the time and not sure when or if i ovulate. I recently had a D&C and all came back fine and i have hypothyroid which is at a good level due to my thyroxine. I had my first proper AF on the 19th march and it ended on the 3rd april (15d) I started tracking OPK on the 5th but no positives so far. I'm confused because i've been really tired sleeping 7hrs night and 5 hrs naps in the day, ive also been having headaches and brown spotting the last few days when i wipe. Do you think its possible I O while on my last days of period? my Hubby and I have been at it since the 4th. I tested negative on hpt but will try again in a week. Fingers crossed but may be AF coming early. Ive never been a short cycle kinda girl always 40 day cycles plus.

Madratlady · 12/04/2013 23:15

Just ordering some ovulation sticks to use this cycle. AF arrived this evening (35 day cycle this time).

Madratlady · 12/04/2013 23:15

AF = Aunt Flo (period)
BFN = big fat negative when taking a pregnancy test
BFP = big fat positive
CD = cycle day
CB = clearblue, a brand of pregnancy test and fertility monitor
CM = cervical mucous
DTD = doing the deed

Sparrowlegs248 · 12/04/2013 22:11

Hello, complete newbie and don't get the lingo. What is AF, BFN, BFP, CD...., CB?? I am 35 and was on depo jab until december (jab due 6th dec but didn't have it) no proper period as yet.

Thisisfreakingmeout · 12/04/2013 21:53

Great news pistachio! May it be contagious! Hold tight wakey, we're beaming good news vibes at you.x

123234345 · 12/04/2013 20:16

Fingers crossed Wakey. Try to keep your mind off it as much as you can though (which is not very much, if you're like me).

WakeyCakey · 12/04/2013 18:01

BFN again. I'm on CD34. AF came cd33 last month.
Will wait a week I think and test again if AF doesn't show.

Wasted a CB digital as well I was so convinced! Back to symptom spotting!

PistachioTruffle · 11/04/2013 19:56

Thankyou everyone Thanks

Fingers crossed for some more BFP's on this thread Grin

Beccadugs · 10/04/2013 23:54

Congratulations pistachio! Looks like we will be ships passing in the night!

Hi Angel, know what you mean about it getting you down. I went mad looking at baby stuff now that OH said we are officially TTC, and now feel v blue and stupid for getting excited!

ticktock1979 · 10/04/2013 17:16

Pistachio!! Congratulations - too exciting! Really hoping this is the start of a trend. Fingers crossed xxx Grin

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