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TTC #1 - Thread 8

293 replies

RaspberrysAndIcecream · 31/12/2012 17:02

New Year - New Thread!!! And hopefully lots of BFP's all round!!

Fx for everyone!!

OP posts:
Thunderthunderthundercats · 03/01/2013 18:14

Yeah dulcet, totally optimistic for bfps pdq for us, yeah! Cone on! better persuade OH to have some more sex then

Hey nic, yeah I'm ok considering how horrible the whole situation is. You know how pragmatic I was trying to be about it potentially going wrong....well I think that has protected me somewhat. Trying to look to the future now and be positive about it now. Hope married life is going well x

MotherOfCleo · 03/01/2013 18:13

exciting times re your growing bubba MrsBri!!!

MotherOfCleo · 03/01/2013 18:11

heres hoping!!! Grin I told him the only answer was more sex, he said he was up for the challenge...good of him huh lol

MrsBri · 03/01/2013 17:30

Sounds knackering, Cleo...you'd hope that would work :-)

DulcetMoans · 03/01/2013 16:24

16 weeks mrsBri! Wow time goes quick. Hope you get to hear the heart beat.

Sorry you are back to Thunder. Still, new year for us to be optimistic, right? Hopefully...

MotherOfCleo · 03/01/2013 16:10

MrsBri last month got a positive OPK on CD14 so I OV'd on CD14 or 15,and we DTD on CD10, 11, 12, 13, twice on 14, and 15.....but nowt. Gutting huh. Prior to that I wasn't very well so we didn't DTD much, I think your right I should prob start warming up his swimmers maybe warm up rounds on CD7 and CD9 then get down to business CD11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17 (obv depending on actual OV day. Does that sound like a fruitful plan? Wink

HonniBee · 03/01/2013 15:58

Thanks for the welcome!

Sorry to hear it didn't work out this time, Mother.

Block, keep us posted! V exciting!

In the meantime, I've stocked up on opk, and I'm liking MrsBri's idea of replenishing supplies. Wink

MrsBri · 03/01/2013 15:27

Hey Thunder!

Good to see you're back TTC, even though it's shit you are having to. :-/

I'm good, ta. 16 weeks now, which is quite scary in a way. Seeing my midwife on Monday and hoping to hear the heartbeat.

How are you doing?

Thunderthunderthundercats · 03/01/2013 15:17

Hiya nic, alright? All good?

MrsBri · 03/01/2013 14:54

De-lurks to wave pom poms at Block...POAS for goodness' sake! :-)

And Cleo, do you have sex prior to the run up to your fertile period? If not, the first lot of sperm will be quite old. Is it worth, ummm, replenishing supplies on CD8?!

The month we succeeded was the one we shagged regularly through the entire month (including what transpired to be CD1 halfway through DTD. Messy!), with consecutive days leading to OV.

MotherOfCleo · 03/01/2013 14:35

Hi sunshine and honni

I agree block go POAS or do as I do PIAEC (Pee In An Egg Cup lol) classy chick me Grin

The witch arrived finally old boot took her time about it I now feel crampy and shit, oh joy. My PMA obv didn't quite work, doh. Well looking on the bright side in around 11 days I shall be doing the BD LOTS, my plan is cd11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16 and 17 twice on whichever turns out to be OV day managed cd10, 11, 12, 13, and twice on 14 (OV day) this month which was obv not enough. Wink Do you think I should warn the OH Grin

Sunshine2013Hopefully · 03/01/2013 14:24

Hi can I join as well plz. Me and dh hav been waiting 14 months to TTC (altho we hav been married nearly 3 years!) This is our first month trying and I'm super excited as well as petrified for the journey ahead. I'm 26 and dh 28 but I just feel like I'm still 16 and I'm not old enough to b allowed to do this yet, if that makes sense! Lol

serioustuff hi, I recognise you from the pointless ones waiting to TTC thread! fx for you! BFPs all round hopefully! :)

andadietcoke · 03/01/2013 11:16

Blockette P. O. A. S. if you're late then it should show today. Especially if you got an FRER. [waves pompoms excitedly]

Thunderthunderthundercats · 03/01/2013 11:07

block, this IS exciting! Are you normally on time?

Hi honni Grin

Blockette · 03/01/2013 11:00

Hi HonniBee - Welcome!

Still no sign of AF - I keep finding myself going to the loo to check every hour or so! I'm trying not to get my hopes up, I'm only 1 day late! - DH still saying to wait for saturday to test though - spoil sport!

I really didn't/don't think anything has happened this month, but now I'm getting my hopes up!

HonniBee · 03/01/2013 10:17

Morning all!
I'm also a newbie...to the forum and to TTC as well. We decided to start trying in December but AF arrived on boxing day... While im waiting I thought I'd try to learn more about the process on here and boy is there lots to learn!
I'm on Cd8 but I'm not sure when I ovulate. I had no idea opk existed so going to get some today.

Good luck all!

MotherOfCleo · 03/01/2013 09:28

Grrrr, so had a small amount of pinky brown when I wiped last night, lots of cramps but no AF......god I'm confused! I just want to know one way or the other! Confused Not going to test again till Saturday when I will be around 5 days late, until then I am just going to expect AF to appear!

(warning TMI) I don't think I can count this as a period yet, I've not even had any red blood, this is pinky brown and hasn't even spotted the pant liner, I've had a couple of red streaks but they were tiny.

Why does this have to be so hard???????? Sad

SeriousStuff · 03/01/2013 00:46

sunnyday01 similar thing happened to me - this current AF was 3 days late and when it did start, it only spotted for a day or two, but now it's here full force (sorry if TMI!). I'm putting it down to a change of exercise routine and different eating habits over Christmas!

Thunderthunderthundercats · 02/01/2013 18:51

Thank you for the kind thoughts ladies, let's hope 2013 is a top baby year for all of us!

sunny could it be implantation?

mother this is annoying for you too. I can't remember about implantation bleeding, when does that happen then and what's it like - does anyone know?

Hi blockette, sorry to hear you are still here. Shall we both get bfps this month, yeah?

Hi cacks, sorry to hear its not been a good time. Do you use opks?

Cacks81 · 02/01/2013 18:12

Hi Ladies.
This is my first time joining in a thread, have just joined MumsNet after months of reading.
I'm 31 and been TTC for 8 months. Finding it very stressful and upsetting when AF comes every month. Had a day 14 progesterone test last month, all fine, waiting to hear about day 3 test. I should have ov today. (Fx).
Have found reading your posts very useful, so thank you.
It's on my mind all the time, so I'm very happy to have others in the same boat to talk to.
Good luck all. X

sunnyday01 · 02/01/2013 17:45

i have had a strange first day of AF, had a smallish amount of dark red - nearly brown blood, and seems like it isn't coming out anymore (sorry if tmi). Going to see what happens tomorrow - i'm not too bothered if if comes full blow tomorrow as i wasn't exepecting a BFP on the first month of trying to be honest - i'm probably reading more in to it than i need to!

Thundercats - sorry to hear that, fx for a BFP for 2013 x

MofC - keep us updated!

RaspberrysAndIcecream · 02/01/2013 17:39

Hi Thunder, I'm very sorry to hear that u had mc. Hoping 2013 is a fab baby year for u!! Xx

Block I have everything crossed for u!!! When are u going to poas?!! Grin

mother I really hope that you're out of limbo soon, preferably with a BFP!!! Grin

Big hello to Blanket, hope ur out of limbo land as well soon!

I poas this morning (bfn) because it's day 23 & still no peak on the ov monitor Sad and I thought it might be cause I'm already pg but not pg and still no peak - I'm beginning to get really fed up now. Hmm

OP posts:
Blockette · 02/01/2013 17:22

Oh Thunder I'm so sorry! I remember you on the old thread.

MofC that sounds odd! fx something happens either way - limbo land is not fun!

MotherOfCleo · 02/01/2013 17:09

I got a positive OPK on the 18th Dec, so somewhere between 14 and 16 days ago. I think I'm defo out for this month, just wish the witch would stop lurking and would actually show her horrid face!

andadietcoke · 02/01/2013 17:07

Meant to say, that if it is implantation then it would be too early for a BFP...

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