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Santa Baby, Leave a BFP under the Tree for me <brook the Rat Smacketeers>

957 replies

SantasLittleControlGeek · 05/12/2012 19:44

Old Fred here

Here we go Brookers, it's been a long year with lots of BFPs and newborn snuggles for the Brookers. We're just a sleigh-ride away from 2013, when the rest of us will get our get our 12 week scans (because of course we will all have BFPs under the christmas tree this year!)

So come all ye brookers, it's tinsel and baubels all the way!

OP posts:
NoMaybeAboutIt · 09/01/2013 15:49

I can't believe how many of us are at the same point!

Cups pleased to hear you have reduced work stresses too. Hope that appointment comes through sooner rather than later.

Face I hope you're stroking DH's ego Wink

Well done on your Jillian purchase Geek

Face I had no idea clomid could do that. So excited that things are moving along well for you though. How is Thailand treating you both?

cartoontrickster · 09/01/2013 12:06

sweetie blooming drugs! but i guess its a very small price to pay if it helps us get our babies and if it encourages us into more active and healthy life styles that can only be a good thing right?
Hi cakes nice to see you!
with all these upcoming appointments theres sure to be a load of ironic bfps coming v.soon. is anyone due to test anytime soon?!
Dh reckons we should put him out to stud since he obviously has super amazing sperm! according to him if he were a horse we'd earn tons of money renting him out Hmm strange man!

CupcakesAndMulledWine · 09/01/2013 11:21

Happy New Year Brookers!

Sorry I've been absent for a bit, my work problems have been keeping me busy.

Massive congratulations to Cartoon I'm adding in my brooking power for a super sticky cartoony bean. I haven't seen your wedding pics yet, I'll have a look later. God I love a good wedding.

Welcome back Maybe it's so good to have you back. If the lovely Imps is lurking I hope you are doing well, we miss you!

What else have I missed? I really can't be bothered to read back [lazy emoticon]

Keep I'm waiting for IVF appointment too, we have had all our test done. We are waiting on an appointment with the consultant to give us results and our treatment plan. According to the local forum this normally takes 3 months & it's been about 1 month already so we have still got a while to wait.

I've reduced my hours at work to hopefully help reduce my work related stress. So of course I'm on course for a super ironic BFP as if I get pregnant now I'll get a lot less money on maternity leave.

MotherOfCleo · 09/01/2013 11:20

keep thanks so much for the list! Brroking for each and every one of us to get the results we want! xxx

SweetieTime · 09/01/2013 10:46

cartoon I think my weight gain is down to all the drugs/hormones I have been taking. I am on hrt rather than the pill but am sure it is very similar. I am really cutting back now and no booze so fingers crossed this will help

ControlGeek · 09/01/2013 10:44

Just a quickie again, work is super-busy today!

On the weight gain/loss, some interesting stats from my WW meeting last night. My leader's Saturday group came first for the regional Christmas Weight Gain Cup - 127lb between 25 people! One person put on 13lb in the Christmas fortnight. My group came second (but I can't remember the figures) but we still managed a 10lb loss. I lost 3.5lb, MrG lost 1lb and another girl lost 3lb.

Thanks for the list keep, it can be so hard to keep track of where everyone is at!

Thanks for your responses about 30 day shred, I've placed an amazon order for it and a yoga for weightloss DVD so hopefully I'll drop those last 4.5lbs pronto, get to goal then pile it all back on as pregnancy weight Grin

cartoontrickster · 09/01/2013 10:11

keep i did somehow manage to just drop 4 or 5lbs the week before the wedding so i just keep telling myself its not really half a stone and of course the stupid riods dont help. the drip is basically all fat as well! so ive got no hope now! yes my parents know as do dh's. my dad came with me to the clinic yesterday and stayed until dh got there.
thanks for the list my memory is total crap!
so glad ive read this through before posting sooo many mistakes! dh was laughing at me yesterday beause i seem to have lost the ability to string a sentence together

keepitgoing · 09/01/2013 09:51

Also, face I do not believe you can pit on half a stone in three weeks. If it's really true? Blame the steroids!! Grin
Have you told your mum BTW? I remember you are v close.

keepitgoing · 09/01/2013 09:49

Coming up.......

Beedle - waiting for ivf clinic appt
Sweetie - going back on the pill for two months
Keep - iui this weekend
Solars - fu appt from lap, then ivf
Maybe - awaiting cf results and ivf appt
Face - on lots of drugs for pregnancy!
Geek - also waiting for clinic appt
Cupcakes - er...
Cleo - au naturel brooking

Of course we'll all be getting ironic bfps while we're waiting.

There's a lot of waiting on that list!

That's off the top of my head and this page. Who have I missed/got wrong

can you tell I don't have a job

cartoontrickster · 09/01/2013 09:33

sweetie ive also put on half a stone since getting married. i havent been to the gym for 3weeks but im now to scared to go! i think thats the average xmas weight gain actually. well done for getting back to your pilates.
Was it geek who'd lost? well done!
maybe hope you appointment comes through soon! nice to see you back here.
beedle has your letter arrived?
wheres keeps list i keep losing track of where we all are!

keepitgoing · 09/01/2013 07:38

Ah that's true sweetie. Its just because I might be away for the first couple of days of the cycle.

Yes, we have a VPN...

Already have a plan for our rat-smacking tonight. Needs to clear the tubes for the weekend's iui.

SweetieTime · 09/01/2013 07:15

Beedle hope the letter turns up today and DH improved lifestyle that ironic bfp is in the bagSmile

keep we didn't keep the meds, menopur or cetrotide, in fridge but it is a lot cooler here than where you are so it is worth asking the same clinic. I would say to dh that you were scanning I player and saw it Wink Wink Wink otherwise just watch it on your own!!

Maybe gggrrrrrrr for the lack of results, it is so frustrating

BeedlesPineNeedles · 09/01/2013 07:11

Well I thought I might keep this name for a bit longer, its not too Christmassy and it feels suitably swedish and I quite like it :o

Can you get bbc iplayer where you are - is it some kind of cheat?

Is it really only boo, sparks and face after the triple whammy ladies? - we need to up our game people, compulsory rat-smacking for homework tonight :o

keepitgoing · 09/01/2013 07:00

beeds your name is, like, SO last season...

Brooking the letter turns up today instead!

BeedlesPineNeedles · 09/01/2013 05:41

maybe lovely to have you back with us

keep no news from the clinic yet, I was sort of hoping we'd get a letter yesterday. But being a bit realistic, that was unlikely, it might seem to be the most important thing in my life at the moment, but I'm sure I'm not that important in their eyes.

DP has made a new year resolution to be healthier, so I'm hoping it lasts more than a week or two and then results in improved sperm which will lead to my ironic pre-ivf BFP? Unrealistic? Me? :o

Right must get ready for work

keepitgoing · 09/01/2013 03:48

maybe!!!! So good to see you!! Can't believe you don't have your cf results yet though, grrr.

I'm still here. Hard a cancelled clomid iui cycle last month, as clomid made my lining too thin. Am having letrozole and iui this month, scan tomorrow, eek. Then unstimulated iui next month, and if hopefully in March. I think our clinic always does short protocol, but will meet re the details in a month.

There's been only boo sparks and just recently face since the triple whammiers. Is that really right...? Antenatal will be quiet so we'd better up our game.

OK, given MN is secret from dh, and we're not in the uk so I can't have seen any adverts, how do I say to dh I've found a random bbc4 programme on iPlayer called baby makers that we should watch?!

beedle sorry about AF and short cycle. You sure do pack those cycles in. You and geek are opposites. Do you have a clinic date yet?

Well done on the weight loss geek and pilates sweetie. I was annoyed to have come back from holiday having lost 2kg! Those who know me know I want/need to put ON 2kg. I am currently having a banana muffin in the sun :-) and dh is trying to make me eat the same portion sizes as him!

Rash is slightly better thanks solars, though it seems to get worse at night. I said to dh I am prepared for if drugs to be much worse.

BTW solars sweetie did you have to keep your ivf drugs in the fridge?

Withalittlesparkle · 08/01/2013 23:00

solars I watched an episode of baby makers last night, I didn't realise I could watch the other episodes on I player! I actually cried through most of it, especially at the end when one of the couples got there positive test!! Oh dear lord nothing would stop the tears following!!!!

I had to periodically pause it and go cuddle Mrsparkes!!!

Couples who go through IVF (and this goes extra for brookers) are so strong, and so deserving of positive outcomes!!!

NoMaybeAboutIt · 08/01/2013 22:44

You poor thing. How are you feeling now?

All tests complete this end. Still waiting for my CF results, but all other results are perfect apparently. Have just spent so much time chasing paperwork which is just so frustrating.

Solars · 08/01/2013 22:26

I think you can catch up on iplayer Maybe

I know what you mean about 2012 finally coming to an end..

I'm good, I had a lap performed mid December to get rid of my endometrioma on my ovary and luckily they found no other endometriosis. I'm due for my follow up on Saturday and then we are registering with a new clinic for our next round of ivf. Have you & dh had all your tests completed now? How are you feeling about it all?

NoMaybeAboutIt · 08/01/2013 22:06

Solars lovely, how are you? What are your plans? Sorry for the questions Wink

DH and I are ok thank you. We were pleased that 2012 finally came to an end!

Wish I'd watched it last night!

Solars · 08/01/2013 22:02

Maybe I'm so chuffed you're back! Hope you & DH are both doing good!

I've just been watching Baby Makers with DH, which was on last night. I started blubbing halfway through and DH made me turn it off and said it was like watching me go through ivf all over again Sad I'm going to have to watch the rest without him now, looks like a good series though but I know what DH meant because I could definitely remember what I was thinking as each of the couples was going through all the same phases.

Sweetie I've also put on a bit of weight too, ever since the ivf in my case I think. Take it easy tmrw!

NoMaybeAboutIt · 08/01/2013 21:32

Thanks Sweetie Smile where are with things? Panic not about the weight, you'll be as good as new in a few weeks. I cannot believe its triple whammy Friday birth time already. Where has that time gone?

Cleo hello there. I am an ancient brooker. I too have a Jillian crush!

SweetieTime · 08/01/2013 21:27

Just back from my first Pilates since early December Blush Blush Blush Feel better for it at the moment, might be a bit sore tomorrow. I put on half stone on holibobs and over Christmas Blush Blush Blush and currently look ready to announce my non existent pregnancy as I must be at least 12 weeks Sad Sad Sad

Maybe so glad you kicked evil boss into touch, you are worth so much more than that. I suppose you will have seen all the new arrivals from fb, and there are more waiting in the wings. I think Whims is next then the triple whammy ladies, can you believe they are all getting close to their sneeze births??

MotherOfCleo · 08/01/2013 20:28

Ive done the 30 day shred geek i have a huge girl crush on jillian, gets a bit repetitive but certainly works! Smile

NoMaybeAboutIt · 08/01/2013 20:21

Ooh Geek. I love Jillian. It's brilliant. All her DVDs are. Very sweaty though. Whereabouts are you with everything? And yes, not really much more to do with Twunt face. I am unemployed though Hmm