Elderberry Pavlovas Unite - the over 30s TTC number 1 (thread 2)

Navis you can buy concieve plus in boots but it is a lot more money that amazon.

Welcome Neshie.
Brown spotting had stopped

Will be going to see friend tomorrow who was 8 weeks pg after only 2 months of trying last time I saw her. Will have her baby with her this time. Must not cry.

Hey! How is everyone today? All ready for xmas? I?m at future-MILs ? and VERY bored

Quod - PGD = pre-genetic diagnosis ? I?ve got a balanced translocation on my chromosomes which is the probable cause of my mcs ? we?re investigating whether or not this would be worth doing ? but it seems like the no of mcs I?ve had are not consistent with the odds for that translocation, so we?re going to make sure there?s nothing else wrong before (potentially) forking out a ton of cash on IVF

Golden/Viv - welcome!! Know what you mean re dtd around ov time ? fortunately my OH, having had it all explained to him, is now v obliging around that time and takes his part of the ?job? very seriously!! Hmm, interested in this pre-seed/conceive lube plus stuff?may have to do some googling ? can you buy it in boots or somewhere? (no time to get online ? off overseas for 4 months right after xmas)

Neshie - welcome!

Good luck to everyone with scans tomorrow!

Navis176, 35, TTC #1, cycle 3 (this time around), bfp due around 19 Jan (I think?)

May I join? I'm 31 and DH 42. TTC #1, on cycle 9, after stopping the pill 18 months ago (took 10 months for AF to return!) BPF due 12th January Fx

MeanMrsMustard 31, 5 weeks pregnant.

Sorry pip

MotherOfCleo TTC#1, cycle 3, 5dpo, BFP due New Years Day.

bunnygirlie, 32, TTC since June, AF coming around New Year!
Twinklestar 2, TTC1, cycle 16, BFP was due 19/12
Winkle,
Zombies,
Pipbin,
BraveLilBear,
Lolcbcb,
Aquarius,
Happylass,
Janey,
Rach,
Quod,
HazleNutt, due June 21st
Purplemonster

I have a wonderful mental image there Viv.

More spotting. Brown this time. 10DPO and I get spotting every month.

Lol Viv!! Your writing makes me laugh!

I'll add myself to the list when I am not upside down...

Twinklestar 2, TTC1, cycle 16, BFP was due 19/12

Still not here, on cd35

Thanks everyone. Pip, you are so right, which is why I have developed a rather hard attitude to this 'male anxiety issue'. I have no doubt that when I am at my mother's every other weekend he is spunking like a water hydrant. Anyhoo...I am typing this with my hips raised. Yes! We did it! There was smoke coming from his poor beleaguered penis and we were getting nowhere fast so I found some free porn on t'internet and forced him to watch some 'hot teen blonde' whilst I filed my nails moaned encouragement from the pouffé.

Lol pip I agree!

Welcome Viv :)

Viv men don't make it easy for us do they.
We pee on this, measure that, examine stuff they'd rather not know about and all we need them to do is what they spent their teenage years desperate to do. I understand that for a chap to 'reach a conclusion' when having sex is a purely mechanical exercise, rather than mental like I find it too be. So they can just shut up and get on with it.

Shhh, no more spotting. No loud noises please guys. Don't want to wake the red bitch up.

Aaargh! Still waiting for last night's sex! DP's schlong too tender last night - apparently. What if I ovulated in the night? Raaaa.....!!

rache you give good advice. I should "step away now, and no one gets hurt" :)

Step away from the google Zombies, all will be fine

Very worried about mc rates for women with PCOS and trying to not read up too much on the Internet. Apparently it can be as high as 60%.

Welcome vivienne!!
bunny will you be doing the new fred honours?

Hi all, (belated) welcome Vivienne. Bunny glad to hear you're getting some fun in.
I'm on an empty early train heading for last day of work before I get some Christmas going on. Not much to report from me at the mo as I'm off ttc schedule until cyst is dealt with. Booked in for gynaecologist on jan 4th.. Fx they can fix me quick! Also dtd JUST FOR FUN this week! (Sods law I get the BFP this time when I'll be waiting for operation etc ).
Happy festivities everyone, big fx for all scans, POASs and OVs.

Hello ladies, I've had a name change (was Golden but the moniker was making me feel old ). Thanks, Janey and Quod for sharing your timings. It cheers me to think people are getting pregnant without necessarily having sex exactly at ovulation. The stress of trying to time it perfectly is so counterproductive, I know, but I seem to be obsessed. To be fair, it is my way of trying to take some pressure off DP - if only I could see into the future I might not have to subject him to such a rigorous regime prior to ov!

Very of those who, like Pipbin, will know within days whether they are going to have a baby! Mind you, I'm of all of you young under-40s