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November 2012 BFP bus, part 2

570 replies

JollyJock · 11/11/2012 22:10

Hiya!

Grab a seat.

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OP posts:
QuietNinjaTardis · 19/11/2012 19:04

Oh tinky don't see it as a bad thing, think of it as a chance to get healthier for your baby. Big hug for you.

JellyCurls · 19/11/2012 19:03

Thanks crunchie i really hope your right. Said to dh i wouldn't test again till weekend but i may just do a sneaky one tomorrow morning. He doesn't know about tonights POAS think i am becoming addicted to stick peeing

extracrunchy · 19/11/2012 18:59

Oh it said the first attempt didn't post...

extracrunchy · 19/11/2012 18:58

jelly I reckon BFP!! Evap lines on ICs usually happen the other way round and turn up later! X

extracrunchy · 19/11/2012 18:57

jelly I'd say BFP! Evap lines on ICs usually happen the other way round and turn up later! X

JellyCurls · 19/11/2012 18:43

Confused.
Poas tonight as felt so rubbish all day. Straight away two lines appeared. Put test down to go and break up fight between my two little darlings and came back to only one line.

What does that mean sensible self knows it means dont trust IC tests?

nicnicw · 19/11/2012 18:41

also the other thing is i had my gall bladder removed in july so i cant eat anything high fat anyway cos i dont absorb it and it goes straight through me ! so this is why the question about the full fat milk

nicnicw · 19/11/2012 18:38

tinky im one big curve lol im just being careful i have plenty of weigh to provide my baby sustinence so i will be watching my calories ... i was going to ask are you stilol meant to drink a pint of milk a day and if so could i drinki skimmmed
?

extracrunchy · 19/11/2012 18:36

I put on 2 1/2 stone with ds. It's so hard to lose it again! A friend of mine had a high bmi when she got pregnant and was advised not to diet but eat very healthily - obviously safely but no more than necessary and no more fatty stuff - and she actually lost some weight in the first couple of months (before the baby got bigger obviously!) xx

TinkyPeet · 19/11/2012 18:24

It's 37 ninja :( I stopped counting at 6 stone with dd I just ballooned so I'm dreading this one. I keep getting little cramps, don't remember having them either of the other two ?

QuietNinjaTardis · 19/11/2012 18:01

That's rubbish Tom, maybe blood test is in order?
Sympathy s tinky. I'm presuming your bmi is only just in the overweight 'zone' try not to worry just concentrate on eating well and you'll be fine. I got told by my midwife when pregnant with ds that they only like you to put on a stone and I put on 3. It's all bollocks if you ask me Brew

Silver15 · 19/11/2012 17:52

Wow Choclate, I'm so happy for you. Congs.

TinkyPeet · 19/11/2012 16:45

Sorry tom didn't see your post, maybe get the docs to do a blood test? X

TinkyPeet · 19/11/2012 16:45

Well I've been Weighed :( heavier than I thought I was, and my bmi has been flagged as a risk factor :( :( :(

TomDaleysTrunks · 19/11/2012 16:31

Right AF 4 days late but 4 negative tests. Feel tired with sore boobs. WHat is going on? So annoying! Sad

QuietNinjaTardis · 19/11/2012 16:18

Thanks pink. I've got no ewcm at all so dunno what's going on. I think I'm gonna wait til end of month before testing as I'm not hopeful now that I've even ovulated let alone made a baby. I hate this I really do. You'd think after 6 months I'd be a bit more used to it but I'm really fed up now. I just want to be pregnant dammit!!

pinkbuttons · 19/11/2012 15:42

Thanks setey glad didnt seem like a ridiculous rant. can imagine MIL knowimg would be hard work. shpuld be glad DH is so excited as a few months ago he wnted to wait another yr.
have slipped a ddsc in my back, the last time I did it was in pregncy with DS something to do with hormones, bt think just due to weakness and a heavy DS this time.
sorry to hear ur emotional too. sending hugs bt glad im not the only one!!
quiet AF due on Friday so going to try not to test till Saturday. rubbish about your confusing ovulation! the 2ww is hard enough without it being longer sending you positive thoughts and energy or dtd :)

TakingTheStairs · 19/11/2012 15:00

liking the new name mumbags extracrunchy

extracrunchy · 19/11/2012 14:35

This is mumbags - fancied a change of nickname!
setay sending hugs your way. I know exactly how you're feeling. Xx

Mrskbpw · 19/11/2012 13:26

Poor you Setay. I'd absolutely agree with not testing until you're late. It's just too stressful to do otherwise (and I say that with the wisdom of someone who's ttc twice before!).

JellyCurls · 19/11/2012 13:10

Setay have a hug from me. My MIL once showed me a drawer full of baby things she had bought for mine and DH first kid which was before we were ttc (about 3 years before we thought about it) so you have my sympathies with all the questions. We got 2 dc now and are trying for number 3 but my Father in law is always making comments about whens the next due. They dont even know we ttc so god knows what it would be like if they knew.

As for the emotional rant, that is allowed, ttc is hard on anybody but especially us ladies as we are the ones tormented by every niggle, burp & spot and we are the ones constantly waiting patiently for AF to not show up and then having to wait for her to bugger off so we can start the whole round again.

If I were you I would resist the temptation to POAS again till Sunday but no way I could wait that long, when if AF has not arrived, she will be late by then. There is still a chance you could be upduffed but at cycle day 21 you most probably dont have enough HCG to get a positive test.

anybody else care for some?

setayharas · 19/11/2012 13:04

haha the moment i said it i felt bad. do feel better now iv had my rant though. he must be a saint to put up with my recent mood swings lol

QuietNinjaTardis · 19/11/2012 12:54

Sorry you're emotional setay. It's horrible isn't. I told dh that if I'm not pregnant this month I'd blame but I was kinda joking!

QuietNinjaTardis · 19/11/2012 12:53

When is af/bfp due pink? I've no idea now as think I've only just ovulated when I thought I had a week ago so bit confused now.

setayharas · 19/11/2012 12:47

ahhh pinkbuttons i know how u feel dp told everyone including the mother in law that we were ttc after having a bit to much to drink at a wedding. iv had nothing but questions since driving me potty!
what sort of backpain you having? i feel like iv pulled a muscle.

poas again
BFN
and had a lil cry quickly followed by and attacked on dp because i beleived it was hes fault that he was working late shit the week before i o'd last so didnt get to dtd as much before. poor sod looked heartbroken.
sure af will be here very soon now the moods are getting worse.

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