Trying to conceive after mc? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Recently graduated from the mosh pit? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake part 4

dorita good news on the tests, it's definitely good to be in "the queue"

beans brilliant news! The stats are indeed on your side now, must have been so amazing to have seen your little bean for the first time. What a great early Christmas present.

jolly great you have good news too, and a follow up scan is great too. It's so good to feel looked after with kind professionals and thorough care, they do say it improves outcomes.

mrsd glad your bleed has slowed down, how are you today?

Lots of good news lately, long may it last!

Massive congratulations state and bonzo! And to jolly bet you're relieved, great news.

We had good appointment at Liverpool fertility clinic today, dp's sperm ok, I've just got another blood test, then appointment in Jan to decide options, they think IVF. It's bit nuts, only asked doc about tests as a sideline to migraine issue, and here we are on a road to treatment.....I don't mind, feel like it's happening on the side of us ttc ourselves, it's only been 10months since mc so not worried, but good to be in the queue so to speak....

Missed your happy scan news last time I was on, jolly. So glad it went well and the worrying bleeding has stopped.

Congrats on your 20w scan, tas, and on your little boy-in-the-making!

Thanks for kind thoughts, all, I did go in for a checkup at the local HR today although I've had no further spotting today. Everyone there was lovely - both kind and professional - and they did blood tests and both internal and external scans. Blood results not back yet, but scan was perfect. Embryo with wee limb buds visible, measuring bang on 8 weeks and with a heart rate of 163. Very relieved and pleased. Know I'm not out of the woods yet, but statistics are very good at this stage and that's great to know. First time I've ever seen anything in there on a scan. It's fantastic.

Wow what lovely news state and bonzo enjoy every minute

cheese brilliant news on the amino and having a girl, I've got a DD, girls are wonderful, and the clothes are much better for girls!

lurcher lovely to hear you're feeling lots of movements, thanks for the stats on survival,rates, I didn't know that.

snorks hi, I remember you from before, remembered your name! Love the moomins! Congrats! Sorry your Epau staff are horrible, that really sucks. Hope everything is ok. I just passed a milestone of 18 wks when I'm no longer eligible for treatment at Epau, I was overjoyed! Hope that will be you soon!

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pebs so glad to hear you're getting excited! 24 wks is a good milestone to get to.

jolly great news on the scan and that bleeding has stopped

hj hope your bleeding has stopped now. Did you get a check today?

Congrats bonzo and state on the new arrivals!!
And great news on the scan results tas and cheese
Good luck for tomorrow beans - I'm sure you'll be fine!
Happy pre-Christmas week everyone

Jolly delighted to hear follow up scan was ok. Did they say much about your resolved bleed? Mine has really slowed down now but wasn't offered anything until 12 weeks as they weren't concerned (not in a bad way)

sorry have realised that my moaning is awful for those still TTC, I am very grateful for my little bean. Hope your TTC journey is very short.

bonzo and state so so happy for you! Welling up here at your wonderful news. Glad your LOs are doing well.

I haven't been on for so long, I'm very out of date with all the news, so,I'll have a read through when DD is in bed. Though last night, I was asleep before her, so that might not work!

I'm absolutely shattered, 20 wks pg now. Still not completely recovered from the pneumonia, with viruses galore on top. I've been off work for prettyy much 6 wks now. i had several colds on the go from the moment I left hospital. Then DD had tonsillitis and croup. Now I'm getting a sore throat. So instead of relaxing at home off sick, with DD at nursery it's been 2 grumpy people in the flat for about a month. Seriously I've hardly left the house in 2 mths apart from going to the GP and a few half days back at work, Ok moan over.

Good news is 20wk scan was brilliant, saw him YES IT'S A BOY!!! and he is beautiful!

Hope all is well with everyone and I'll post more than memememememe when I've had a read through.

Congrats state - wonderful news, enjoy your little girl!

Congrats to bonzo, too, a great season for new additions.

CONGRATS bonzo and state!

congrats on your girl cheese

congrats state and bonzo good to see a couple more graduates!

Very pleased to announce the safe arrival of Lily Mary Hope at 10.03am today weighing 8lb3oz x

Bonzo, congratulations on your early Christmas bundle. Glad to hear DS2 is doing well.

Hi there. I've been AWOL for a while, and not read back through the thread. Just wanted to add my support for those of you ttc after mc. I found the support here wonderful. So, an update, which I hope will offer some hope to those still travelling this bumpy road. And apologies to those who find it all too hard to read... My youngest child, DS2 was born on 6/12/11, one month early and 2.3kg. A semi elective CS due to critically low amniotic fluid. Baby doing well after 8 days in NICU and SCBU. placenta sent for pathology. Hoping it might shed some light on the cause of 2 placentas packing up and one mmc.

Great news cheese

Beans thinking of you. Hoping all is ok xx

Thanks, mrsd and jolly - impossible not to imagine the worst but do feel reassured and no more bleeding throughout the day. Have called insurance who were brilliant. I am covered for this - I can do as I like and they'll settle the bill directly. DH has just arrived, so going to go in tomorrow for a check. I'll be back home in ten days, but will be good to be reassured or at least to know more before Christmas and long journey. Thanks again for your kind words - his board is a great support.

Hooray for the amnio cheese and best wishes for tomorrow state.

Yey cheese! Wonderful news xx

Just a quick hello from me - for some reason I've not been able to view this thread on my phone for weeks. I wrote a nice long reply on Sunday (twice!) and it didn't post.

So here goes! I'm nearly 19 weeks now, getting more confident as I'm feeling movement on a daily basis now. Had a mini-meltdown a couple of weeks ago & an almost-sleepless night worrying about a late loss, but am calmer now.

And I got my amnio results back - all clear! And it's a girl!!!! Am over the moon as I have a DS already! It's helping me "buy into" this pregnancy a bit more. I can even begin to imagine having a baby now. Which is news to me! Still feeling funny about telling people though. Might wait till after 20 week scan before I do.....

Good luck to everyone, especially hjbeans snorks and also state - it's a big day for you tomorrow!