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Elderberry Pavlovas Unite - the over 30s TTC number 1

993 replies

Bunnygirlie · 07/10/2012 22:06

Hi y'all, Welcome to our new meeting place :-) Let's refresh as usual -

Bunnygirlie - 32, married, TTC since June, due to OV this week according to app

OP posts:
ZombiesAreClammyDodgers · 11/10/2012 17:49

Me too work west, live east.
There's a trend here Smile

yorkiebilb · 11/10/2012 17:23

Fantastic news Hazel woo hoo!

I live London too! Work central live east

happylass · 11/10/2012 17:00

I'm in South Wales, anyone nearby?
Woohoo Hazle that's fantastic news Grin

HazleNutt · 11/10/2012 16:21

I work in Switzerland, live in France (Alsace).

janey1234 · 11/10/2012 15:51

I'm in London too zombies. Work in West, live in East... We know that hazle is in a pink house in France. Beyond that, I don't think I've any idea where anyone is!

ZombiesAreClammyDodgers · 11/10/2012 15:48

Just out of curiosity- where are you all? I'm in London.

janey1234 · 11/10/2012 15:30

I mean countdown to giving birth sorry!

janey1234 · 11/10/2012 15:29

Glad you're sticking around hazle - maybe one day we'll be able to start our own count down to pregnancy thread

ZombiesAreClammyDodgers · 11/10/2012 14:39

Congrats hazle - brilliant news! Fingers crossed for the next few weeks.

HazleNutt · 11/10/2012 14:30

thank you all, won't be leaving this thread though, need to see other BFPs too!

janey1234 · 11/10/2012 14:10

Hazle - AMAZING NEWS, am SO PLEASED for you
Got absolutely everything crossed for you :o)
x

janiewoozle · 11/10/2012 13:36

hazel that's that's brilliant news! i'll keep my fingers crossed for you
x x x

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 13:21

and to add - surprised at both but it doesnt matter now hey!?

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 13:12

OMG congrats!!!!!!!

HazleNutt · 11/10/2012 12:43

Well.

So I've been using the internet cheapo sticks, did one this morning, also yesterday. BFN. Not even a hint of a line, nothing.

Went home for lunch to let the dogs out and thought that no, this is funny, but I feel pregnant. So did a Clearblue Digital.

Pregnant 1-2 weeks Grin Not getting too excited as I had the same last month, but it didn't stick. So let's see how this one goes.

Lesson here - don't trust cheapo tests even if they claim to be really sensitive.

HazleNutt · 11/10/2012 09:16

that they asked or that they still hired me?

winkle2 · 11/10/2012 08:47

Wow I'm surprised at that hazle!

HazleNutt · 11/10/2012 08:11

Morning all. I have this funny feeling that AF might be making her appearance soon..hoping I'm wrong of course, should see in the next couple of days.

Regarding work, my current company actually asked me during the interview (3 years ago) if I'm planning to have kids. Of course we all know they should not do that but they still did - I was 30 and re-locating to move in with my now DH, so I understand the concern. I told them honestly that yes, not immediately but in the near future, but I would return after the maternity leave. They hired me.

ZombiesAreClammyDodgers · 11/10/2012 07:37

janey1234 re the job thing- that happened to me too!! Such a shame a I would have had a decent pay increase. I didn't tell them the real reason ie TTC plans.
Re the pet thing- I have a dog too, and I am SO waiting to have my dog and my kid if i ever have one to bond. I'd love for both of them to enjoy the other.

ZombiesAreClammyDodgers · 11/10/2012 01:47

Marking my place! Haven't checked MN for a bit and here we are with a spanking new thread! Will scroll and read through..
CBFM shows high at the moment but i believe that's because it's cycle 1 on the machine - it's CD 8 or 9 of a 40 day cycle so no chance of it actually being high right now Smile

HazleNutt · 10/10/2012 21:45

aww Rach yours must look amazingly cute. Yes ours were a bit of a handful as well, but it's actually easier with 2, they play with each other and don't destroy things due to boredom. Took some training but they are very well behaved now.

I understand how you feel winkle but congratulations, auntie! And think about all the money you save as your soon to be appearing DC can get all your niece's stuff!

Maternity pay in my case - well the good news is that it's 100% of the salary. Bad news - the leave is only 3 months. Three months! Bloody ridiculous, but I'm the man earner and will actually have to go back. Luckily DH can stay at home. (honestly he'll make a lot better SAHP than me anyway).

No change here otherwise, boobs sore, lower back hurts, tests negative - before you ask, yes, too early to test anyway.

winkle2 · 10/10/2012 21:30

I keep looking at the pics of the baby and thinking I wish it was me.

Pipbin · 10/10/2012 21:19

I feel your pain Winkle. We were already about 6 months into trying when a friend announced her pregnancy. Pictures of her and now 3 month old all over facebook, along with another friend with his week old, and another two three with their number two bumps; oh and a woman at work. All conceived while I've been TTCing, any one of them could have been me.
Fed up of it now.

winkle2 · 10/10/2012 21:07

My sister had a little girl today! So pleased for her but a reminder if I'd got pregnant when we started really going for TTC in jan, it'd me :( she started TTC at the beginning of the year and got pregnant first time.

Rache1S · 10/10/2012 20:56

Our Pup is a Labrador Labradoodle cross and he is a right little cutie. Smile I will get a photo on as soon as I work out how! Confused HazleNutt your dogs are gorgeous! They mush have been a bit of a handful when they were pups though, I'm worn out with just one!

Winkle My employer also pays crap maternity pay. In fact it pays zero maternity pay above what is required by law. I am an above-average earner so I will take a hefty financial hit when I go on maternity. It really pisses me off when I think about all the tax I have paid in over my 18 year working life and i've never claimed a single penny in benefits Angry