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This thread is the one the Rat Smacketeers all become PSEPP and we are Brooking No Argument this is the case. Fact.

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ScarlettInSpace · 07/09/2012 07:21

Ladies this thread is the one, I can feel it in my water [although maybe that's the drugs Hmm ], here you go Grin

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snowcloud · 01/10/2012 14:47

Hi all, I'm in shock and very nervous [shaking] as I just went through my regular testing regime this morning and a tiny little line appeared on HPT - took a couple more brands and darker on those. It is so so early too. I'm so happy but so so so worried after the MC last time. How can I make it stick xxx

keepitgoing · 01/10/2012 03:07

yes, we are lucky. It's not normal health insurance, but all-singing all-dancing ex-pat insurance, provided by DH's company. I'm not going to count my chickens yet, but at least they said all lab tests and consultations would be covered without having to get approval, and then if we are recommended treatment (i'm sure we would be) we have to get their approval.

maybe i am brooking for the test result, but 4% isn't that high, and then even if you have it they can select the embryos. It made me a bit mad yesterday, actually, while researching IVF places here. Lots of them offer gender selection, and apparently lots of Indians come here to choose the sex of their baby. Argh!

sweetie glad you're getting to see the consultant. Do you not get another NHS shot then? I don't know about egg donation, but I think some people on the Assisted Conception thread are using egg donors. I have heard it's a long wait in some places though. Sad

solars glad you're feeling better. Not long till Friday. GROW FOLLIES GROW!!!

AF due by Thursday. I have familiar cramps Sad SIGH

Solars · 30/09/2012 22:36

That is high isn't it, brooking for the cf result Maybe

I think you did right, insisting on seeing a consultant Sweetie I really don't know about egg donors but I reckon the waiting list will vary depending on where you go, maybe worth checking out the websites of the clinics you might be interested in to see if they have any information or even ringing them? Hope you're doing ok otherwise? Are you back at work soon or do you get to spend more time with that gorgeous pup of yours?

SweetieDoesIt · 30/09/2012 18:58

keep lucky you that your insurance company covers IVF, mine don't either.

Maybe fx crossed on the CF result too

Solars glad your cold is feeling better too, I have had a stinking cold too DH says now he has it that it is flu - obviously

Scarlett I am glad your day got off to a good start, December seems a long way off for your next consultation

At my appointment I only saw the nurse, who was very nice, but could only do the preggo test to tell me it was negative. She did say I will need a Failed Cycle Review. At the appointments desk I told them I would like this with a consultant or I would pay to see a consultant as we really need proper guidance of next steps rather than waffle we have had to date from registrars. Anyway they rang me with a NHS consultant appointment for 31st oct. I am warming to doing a natural cycle, as I only got my single egg on full stims, if they will let us do this as I am just not sure about egg donor which I think is our only other option. Does anyone know waiting times for donors? Does it vary depending where you go?

NoMaybeAboutIt · 30/09/2012 13:36

Wow Keep that's amazing!! I didn't know any insurance companies covered it, I know ours doesn't.

Glad you are feeling better Solars

CF is cystic fibrosis. There is quite a high chance that DH is a carrier due to his tube. They will only test me if his comes back positive. Apparently 1 in 25 people are a carrier, so. It's actually quite a high chance

Solars · 30/09/2012 13:03

X-posts Keep well done on the insurance, bonus!

Solars · 30/09/2012 12:51

You certainly won't need that consultant appointment Scarlett! I'm sure spermy and eggy are on their way to meeting each other as we speak! My first stims scan is on Friday morning, yikes! I woke up this morning feeling myself again after the last couple of weeks of feeling mehh I just have a bit of a cough lingering but feel miles better!

Maybe glad you're feeling better, i too no not what cf is and when do you get you're results? I'm sure all will be fine x

keepitgoing · 30/09/2012 12:47

maybe brooking you won't be a carrier, but that's unlikely, surely...?

Scarlett you go girl. Come ON golden egg!!!! Why no appointment till December, do you need a break between cycles?

Good news here, girls. Our health insurance will cover fertility treatment inc ivf if we have a consultant's referral!!! Am in shock. We are thinking to start investigations in December, once dh back from abroad.

solars I'm already brooking for Tuesday. Are you feeling better?

sweetie how went Friday?

ScarlettInSpace · 30/09/2012 12:12

I must've missed that love what is CF?

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 30/09/2012 10:55

Sounds like you have a lovly dy planned Scarlett. Well done MrScarlett for taking things so seriously Wink

I feel like a weight has been lifted, but now I'm worried about the CF results x

ScarlettInSpace · 30/09/2012 10:30

maybe I bet you feel like a load has been lifted x

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ScarlettInSpace · 30/09/2012 10:28

Blush OH assured me it would help to do it twice this morning in various positions he seems to be taking this very seriously ha!

He thinks we should try again tonight but I think we should wait til morning so his swimmers have 24 hours break?

He has gone to a chavfest car show today with his mates so I'm having quality time on sofa with pupster catching up with The British, might attack the kitchen with bleach later, how's everyone else's Sunday looking?

solars when is your first stim scan? Brooking for lots of big 'beautiful' follies Grin

What did they say at your appt sweetie? I booked my next consultant appt when I left on Friday, 18th December but of course I won't need it by then

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NoMaybeAboutIt · 30/09/2012 10:27

Go go golden egg! Am hoping it's in transit as we speak Grin

Solars · 30/09/2012 09:51

How are you doing Sweetie? did you get some feedback from the clinic on Friday?

Hope everyone else is well, leaves behind porridge and tea?

SweetieDoesIt · 30/09/2012 08:41

Scarlett ahem Scarlett sorry to interrupt but just wanted to make sure you are ok for things to keep your strength up today and tomorrow? You go girl and catch that golden egg. I had a ridiculous amount of EWCM after trigger shot too

Good luck my dear I am Brooking so hard for you and still doing the wafty tube to catchy golden egg dance

ScarlettInSpace · 29/09/2012 22:31

little wow 20 weeks already!

Well we did ovulation trigger shot last night so OH is looking forward to telling me SWI in the morning is Doctors Orders Grin

Is it wrong that having read the trigger shot side effects and seen it says not to POAS for at least 10 days due to high likelihood of false positive I'm soooooooooo tempted cos I've never seen a real life BFP Blush

Oh and I was oddly surprised to get quite a lot of EWCM today but I suppose it makes sense??

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TheLittleFriend · 29/09/2012 14:54

Hi all, just popping by to say hello Smile

Sounds like maybe and scarlet have had some good news and hope the rest of you are well too. Really sorry the ivf didn't work this time sweetie. I'm still brooking so hard for all of you xx

I'm 20 weeks on Thursday, scan on Friday so all well here Smile

Solars · 29/09/2012 10:54

Oh that's great news Scarlett brooking for wafty tube x

SweetieDoesIt · 28/09/2012 21:30
ScarlettInSpace · 28/09/2012 19:38

Lovin the wafty dance!

I have poured a glass of red wine because I've decided I deserve it, and it's all in the lap of the gods now anyhoo so I don't think one glass of red wine is going to make a bloody difference. And I needed to open the bottle to make comfort food proper spag bog for tea Grin

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Geeklette · 28/09/2012 19:05

Brooking for you scarlett, you are definitely still in the game and that BFP will be yours before you know it.

Princesslovelyboo · 28/09/2012 18:51

Come on ladies, gather round, we are doing the wafty tube dance!! We need to dance like we're drunk on a Saturday night, all together now

Brooking (and dancing) so bloody hard for you Scarlett now wait till Sunday and SMACK THAT RAT! You smack it good Grin

ScarlettInSpace · 28/09/2012 18:45

boo Thanks to being a mwepp

sweetie we get stopped all the time with pupster too, butter wouldn't melt when he's getting fuss from other people!

maybe great news re the swimmers, it must be such a relief!

geek you've come so far as a brooker, berating MrGeek for missing SFF lol!

solars sorry to hear you are poorly love but hopefully it's taking your mind off everything else

olives nice to see you hope you are keeping well!

Ok ladies here we go then. Nurse rang back and said consultant still believed natural could occur [thank you geek & olives] so he is happy for me to administer ovitrelle this evening to trigger ovulation. He told us to abstain from SWI [which we are doing since yesterday morning as I suspected it would be necessary] until Sunday morning and again ob Monday morning to maximise opportunity. So it's a huge pile of brooking now that the left tube finds its wafty way over to catch the golden egg [ I've considered lying on my right side for 48 hours to help it lol]

Thank you everyone you are all a huge support, sorry if my posting has been meme and patchy lately, haven't been on laptop at home for last 2 weeks as I've been out doing this weird thing called work Hmm that my boss seems to think is important freak Grin

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GreenOlives · 28/09/2012 18:04

Scarlett Sorry to hear you had to abandon the cycle, but Geek is right, the other tube can waft over and collect the golden egg so a natural is still a possibility - brooking for that my lovely!

Solars · 28/09/2012 15:27

Oh Scarlett be kind to yourself, lovely x

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