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Hop on board the October 2012 BFP bus

887 replies

takingthestairs · 06/09/2012 13:01

I will be your conductor thread starter for all of us that are hoping for a BFP in October 2012.

Allow me to start.

takingthestairs. Cycle 1 BFP due Oct 2nd

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chookford · 22/10/2012 09:07

Woody fab news.... have everything crossed for you! Smile

Hai1988 · 22/10/2012 09:05

Oo very exciting woody will keep my finger crossed for you :)
What dpo are you may i ask?

Well with me i think the pain i was having in my left side all weekend was just constipation Blush

woody17 · 22/10/2012 08:42

Tested this morning and got a very very very very faint line but it's definitely there. Hopefully it'll get darker by the end of the week. Really hope this one sticks.

Laptopgirl · 21/10/2012 20:51

AF decided she wanted to visit this month.... must be the xmas cake she could smell and wanted to try and sneak a slice! So im off to look for the next bus, Hope its as nice as this ones been - thanks for being lovely ladies to me! :)

Good luck all those who have BFP hoping you have 'easy' pregnancies!

More good luck to all those who have had BFN, hope to see you on the next bus and ending your journey with a BFP! xxx

Hai1988 · 21/10/2012 19:11

Oh and fx for tomorrow woody ill be thinking of you, be sure to let us know how you get on :)

Hai1988 · 21/10/2012 19:10

Im not 100% on this but i think i may be 7dpo maybe more maybe less. Just gonna carry on as i was dtd till bfp or af.

woody17 · 21/10/2012 19:02

hai what dpo are you? I've worked out that in the past I have never ever tested +ve early.

Got my test ready for tomorrow - fx!

Hai1988 · 21/10/2012 14:16

Hey all tested again this morning at 4am but it was def a bfn :(

But atm im slightly worried about the pain im having.in my left side:'(

woody17 · 21/10/2012 11:19

Really sorry dexi. Have you thought about acupuncture?

Couldn't get a FRER for today but going shopping today so will get one and test tomorrow.

Dexidoo · 21/10/2012 10:15

AF arrived yesterday evening so Angry it was only CD23 FFS!

Allowing myself today to wallow in self pity again before dusting myself off and starting again.

Think I'm going to try reflexology to see if I can get things back to a more regular 27/8 days

Good luck for the remaining Oct ladies xx

Hai1988 · 20/10/2012 12:56

I know what you mean woody i.am.having them werid twinges and slight stabbing pains also, so fx for us.both hey!

woody17 · 20/10/2012 12:47

dexi sorry that your optimism has gone but fx that it is just implantation bleeding. It's probably too early to get a +ve?

Sorry that af arrived flo

hai I don't know about the test - I wouldn't have thought that a line would show up if there was no hcg to 'activate' it. FX!

wee maybe you've just missed the surge? Have you had any ewcm or anything?

Well still feeling very sick, tired and have very sore boobs here. Really hoping that these are good signs. Having no cramps but kind of weird twinges and the occasional almost stabbing pain.

Hai1988 · 20/10/2012 12:32

Hey wee it is very easy to miss the surge, so chances are you have oved but just missed the serge

weechops · 20/10/2012 12:25

flo really sorry af got you

dexi sorry you feel poo. Try and hold that chin up, you will get there.

I have no idea what's happened this cycle! On cd19 now of ususally 28/29 day cycle and no smiley has appeared on opk :( So unless I missed the surge somehow it looks like i didn't ov. Or maybe I got dodgy sticks this time and they didn't work :)

Hai1988 · 20/10/2012 11:58

Hey ladies how are we all today?

Sorry to hear your optimisom has gone dexi fx crossed for you tho

Well for me today has just got very fustrating although i cud only been about 1and a bit weeks pg if i am i feel weridly pg so this morning i poas but forgot to check it before i went out :o

Came bk an hour later and there is a ever so faintest of faint lines in the test box!! But dont no how valid the result is as.i looked after an hour??

I used a ultra early internet cheapy midstream test is was red ink one.

So was this a bfp or not?? I will test again 2moro with fmu to see and make sure i check it after 5mins not an hour.

Dexidoo · 20/10/2012 09:59

Hi all

My optimism is steadily wearing off Sad spotting has continued, not even enough to wear a pad but now a bit crampy. Tested this morning 11dpo and BFN

I'm off to do some reading on supplements to try something new. Getting a bit fed up now started TTC March, got pg in May but mc June and it's now nearly Nov. Sad

Laptopgirl · 19/10/2012 21:31

Flojo if you would consider alternative, have a look at Agnus Castus (available at holland and barrett) and other health food shops!

This would help with your cycle, save you using contraceptive for a few months! Google would be your friend to do some research yourself.

Sorry to hear your off this bus thou xx

Hai1988 · 19/10/2012 17:22

Sorry.to hear that flo :(

Hai1988 · 19/10/2012 17:18

Sorry.to hear that flo :(

FloJo151 · 19/10/2012 16:10

Next stop please, am off the bus Sad. AF arrived last night in full force and have bad cramps today.
didnt really have any af symptoms leading up which i normally do which had made me get my hopes up along with all the 'symptom' spotting, ( weeing more often, sore boobs/nipples, lightheadedness(thats been happening for a while actually before we started ttcing)) so poas wed morn but was -ive.

do other peoples AF cramps feel like its their bladder thats hurting?

am gonna have a break for a bit as in process of trying to move (have sold house and waiting for an offer to be accepted!)
will need to go back on pill though as have endometriosis and pill helps to keep AF lighter and with less painSad and can feel this months pains are more painful than the last 3 (inc the mc/cp i must have had at some point over aug!)

Will prob rejoin ttcing after the new year sometime when we're settled in new house. Good luck to all those still waiting for BFP's.

Hai1988 · 19/10/2012 12:14

Well that all sounds promising woody loves the fact that this is the only forum were feeling like crap is a good thing :)

Dunno about me ppl think im crazy cus i have a werid "feeling" dunno what it is but all these months of trying i have never felt like this, its hard to explain but its like my my tummy is constsntly full even tho im hungry all the time.

I just new with ds and although and cant really remeber what that feeling was i dunno i am starting to think maybe this was it.

Then again i could be attually going crazy Blush

sazzababs · 19/10/2012 11:59

Hey Ladies! Not been around much as I'm back at work after 2 months off :/ I ended up having 2 (!) AF in Sept, so I'm just hanging on to October by a thread... No symptoms, well, there have been, but have to admit its mostly wishful thinking! MC seems to really mess with you doesn't it?? Due AF today and no cramps/any signs, but have a big duuuurty BFN also... I'll either start or be a POAS addict for the next week XD
Hope everyone is well and mucho congrats to all the BFPs :D

LexiLoganberry · 19/10/2012 10:07

It will be interesting to see what the blood tests shows but tbh I'm not letting myself get to hung up on it as I really want to concentrate on the next cycle, I'm still bleeding and think I'm just going to have a lighter AF than normal.

Enjoy your weekend waves fx for a BFP on monday.

TakingTheStairs · 19/10/2012 10:06

wavesandsmiles have a lovely weekend in London :)

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woody17 · 19/10/2012 09:54

Hi hai - still nauseous and sore boobs here! How are you feeling?

waves that sounds like a good plan. Hope you have a lovely weekend in London.