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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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BFP in 2012 Part 3 - let's get on with it!

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resipsa · 29/08/2012 11:30

I bit the bullet!

OP posts:
NickiNockiNoodle · 09/09/2012 08:41

I've just clicked that if we aren't going to have sex then a BJ will mean his swimmers are fresher next time we DTD.

Last Sat am we had a house guest so couldn't DTD, so I was very nice to him, meaning the swimmers I got on Sunday after my smiley were hopefully rating to go!

And if AF is on a weekend I feel bad, so do that instead! I will be a good wife! :-)

Sounds lovely, fatas...enjoy it as you deserve the break!

fatasbutter · 09/09/2012 08:26

Hee hee I feel naughty - have crept out of the house to buy brekkie and 'accidentally' found self enjoying quiet coffee on own in a large well known coffee shop - bought a mag too! Feel a bit naughty - that's what being a mum does to you! Woke up at 6.15 and so pissed off I couldn't get back to sleep so jut thought sod it!! Grin is lovely...

kittykatskumkwat · 09/09/2012 08:07

Ha ha love the convo last night
I've not done the old bj thing for a while Blush seems pointless when you need the sperm the other end!!
Yeay for lol opk, we had the same day surge so another testing buddy for me and when!
I didn't manage last night. Home at midnight and dh fast asleep! Hoping fri night was the one but will defo persuade him tonight as a last ditch attempt, im sure he won't mind if it's because of the Smile and I maybe promise him some things, in dh case it be affection, he loves to be stroked ha ha

NickiNockiNoodle · 09/09/2012 07:49

Did you get laid then, Lol?!

Lolcbcblemonlime · 08/09/2012 23:48

DH currently engrossed in finishing an online photo album I asked him to do my fault so I'm in between giving up and going to bed as I'm knackered and waiting and being too knackered anyway.
Might have to try Bj tomorrow morning last resort as too much effort

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 23:20

I've only resurrected this 'hobby' recently! I decided I may as well. :-)

WhenSheWasBadSheWasAnOrange · 08/09/2012 23:09

Just realised I haven't given dh a BJ in years, only as part of foreplay must try harder

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 23:07

BJs seem to have the desired effect! Useful for keeping swimmers fresh too, ha ha :-)

WhenSheWasBadSheWasAnOrange · 08/09/2012 23:05

Lov nics plan for promises of BJs

WhenSheWasBadSheWasAnOrange · 08/09/2012 23:05

lol did you manage to jump on dh? Lov

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 22:56

Bearing in mind my last natural AF before June was in January 1995, I imagine that is probably true! :-)

FrustratedSycamorePants · 08/09/2012 22:51

Because you put it down to something else, or too busy to notice, failing that our bodies know we're TTC and are being evil to us.

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 22:42

It must be...though how I failed to notice the pains I get is beyond me!

FrustratedSycamorePants · 08/09/2012 22:41

In that case mine is rolling about the floor in hysterics. Grin I think it's because you tune in more.

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 22:36

I think our bodies like laughing at us :-(

FrustratedSycamorePants · 08/09/2012 22:30

I didn't notice it before TTC nicki but every cycle it convinced me it was implantation confused me, but cottoned on last cycle to it being a repetitive thing.

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 21:38

Tell him you'll give him a BJ every day after tomorrow until you go away if he shags you today and tomorrow! :-)

Hi Frustrated!

Interesting that you get cramping. Every cycle I get something new to me. It has stopped now, was seriously ouchy earlier.

FrustratedSycamorePants · 08/09/2012 21:26

lolcbcb jump him as late tonight as possible?

FrustratedSycamorePants · 08/09/2012 21:23

nicki I always get cramping in the 2ww, usually dpo 5-7.

Lolcbcblemonlime · 08/09/2012 21:23

Ha frustrated if only id manage today and tomorrow Hmm
Need to choose best option!!! Still think tomorrow I have a better chance.
You'd think I'm crap in bed wouldn't you!!!?

FrustratedSycamorePants · 08/09/2012 21:21

Hi lolcbcb nicki ladies.

lolcbcb i'd count tonight as Ov, and test again tomorrow just to make sure. Can always jump DH again.

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 21:20

Own good.

I stopped testing once I had my surge, though you could check if you wanted to.

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 21:19

Either today or tomorrow, I'd say. Use tomorrow to calculate though. You need to jump your DH ASAP, however!

It's far too complicated for its isn good, isn't it? :-/

Lolcbcblemonlime · 08/09/2012 21:12

I'm feeling sharp pains on my right side now. Might try to jump him tonight but need to play my cards right.
Oh why is this so bloody complicated?
Do I count today or tomorrow as ov? And do I use opk again tomorrow??

NickiNockiNoodle · 08/09/2012 20:29

You should be safe for 24-36 hours. But you don't know when your surge started, so shag him first thing! Your Sunday OV guess seems accurate to me. :-)