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Aiming for an August 2012 BFP Part 2

441 replies

winkle2 · 17/08/2012 14:21

Seeing as the old thread is nearly full, lets carry on the chat here!

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frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 22:51

That'll be the fertile week I was talking about lolcbcb (who or what is cb? I just like the repitiveness ) no wonder you're frustrated. I think donuts will help.

Lolcbcb · 22/08/2012 22:25

Frustrated think I need to borrow your nickname!
Have 3 fertility apps. One says I should ov on 8th sep, one says 11th and the other one 14th Angry
So will use opk. Think I will get even more confused but will give it a go this month.
Already dreaming of another donut tomorrow morning. Will end up with a big bump made of flab at this rateBlush

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 20:33

I guesstimate the I Ov exactly half way through my 27day cycle. And take 3 days either side of Oday, and bundle it all together into a fertile week. OPKs (only done on cycle 2) picked up surge on cd18 Hmm which wouldn't even have given time to implant. I checked saliva ferning this cycle, which put High fertile time as cd12.
I havent had EWCM on any of the 4 cycles so far but some women dot get that but I did have EWCM pre coil. So completely confused over that one.
Only way I am sure I have Ov-ed is the pain. i have mittelschmerz due to endometriosis so usually pretty obvious when an egg pops. it hurts like hell
But it doesn't stop me wondering if I am actually ovulating. But I don't have the will to chart temps.

I like to presume that I have Ov-ed. and that it occurs smack bang in the middle week, and dtd as much as I can in that week.

On a fake symptom spot again - I feel nauseous again. Hmm cramps and nausea I must be pg have a bug. AF due in 3/4days. Bfn this morning. It's got to be a bug. Ugh.

Grin
stickybeans · 22/08/2012 20:15

Thanks Dexidoo, that makes me feel a little better. I've been testing like a madwoman. I'm trying to stay positive but a piece of me feels like I should go ahead and join Sept thread Sad

stickybeans · 22/08/2012 20:08

Ahhhh I'm so confused. I have no clue when or if I even O'd! Frustrated I use an app on my phone that predicts my ovulation and the next af, it was pretty accurate and helped me get pregnant before. I've never been disciplined enough to chart temps ect. Still hopeful, no signs of af yet.

Lolcbcb · 22/08/2012 18:53

Btw I'm baffled with my cycle too! The only think I'm sure of is cd1. Great for ttc. Not.

Lolcbcb · 22/08/2012 18:52

Berri have u taken cb digi? I'm having a good feeling.
Had 2 chocolate bars today as well as the morning donut. My only excuse is af!
Checked in on sep thread but not chatting yet. Hopefully won't see u there!

berri · 22/08/2012 18:44

Thanks frustrated Grin

flicks crumbs off face and between cleavage

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 18:14

Grin now you can see how I confuse myself, and the more I think about things the more confused I get

QuietNinjaObsessing · 22/08/2012 18:07

haven't a clue frustrated, you lost me at basic periods Grin

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 18:06

Thinking about it it probably is a myth ninja since last cycle OPKs picked LH surge up on cd18 and I'm a 27dayer. Confused think it might be textbook basic periods for pre-teens, because not many women are actually textbook in RL, but they don't they divide the cycle up into 4 sections?

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 18:00

Hi berri sore boobs and slightly darker BFP is a very very very very good sign. AF due tomorrow? I don't think you'll be seeing it for a while. oo oo oo oo i'm sooooooo excited for you. I reckon your up-duffed my friend!!!!!

Dexidoo · 22/08/2012 17:58

stickybeans I found that ovulation was delayed by about 5 days post mc but imagine it varies

QuietNinjaObsessing · 22/08/2012 17:58

I think that's a myth frustrated but I'm not totally sure. I'm sure I've seen it mentioned elsewhere but have no evidence to back it up!

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 17:51

Hi sticky Isn't AF day approx 14days before AF due regardless of cycle length? or am I making that up? 4th seems really early if AF is due 24th.
Are you sure you broke the record? wonders if I mentioned my ridiculously early caving last month

Got myself a prescription for mefalamic acid in preparation for AF, watch me get a bfp the moment I collect it from the chemist now that would be sods law. Still wierd crampy when I sit down. Must stay standing.

berri · 22/08/2012 17:46

Sorry pink will keep everything crossed for you for September Thanks

Yes frustrated it's still there....!!!

I think it might be slightly darker than the last 2 days, but it's a different type of test so maybe it's just showing up more.

My boobs are killing me so I'm taking that as a good sign.

Hi Ninja and everyone else :)

stickybeans · 22/08/2012 17:22

I think I've broken a record for bfn last week...I'm confused as to when my O day was because of the mmc. I was told to count the first day of bleeding as my LMP. That would put my O day at 4th-10th this month. Do you think the mc could have delayed it? Af is due the 24th and I got a bfn this morning......

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 16:01

Me too ninja

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 16:00

Me t

QuietNinjaObsessing · 22/08/2012 15:55

Ah that sounds familiar! Think I went there this morning even though af not here yet. Stupid dream building my hopes up!

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 15:52

It's the dreaded Cave Of Doom (or Dispair), that shitty time when you get bfn/AF and mope around and get depressed and angry that you built yourself up for a bfp that didn't show well that's what I do anyway

QuietNinjaObsessing · 22/08/2012 15:19

Oh and what's cod?

QuietNinjaObsessing · 22/08/2012 15:17

Thanks frustrated. Am trying not to obsess but it's hard. I'm
Sorry you're frustrated. I might try the opks again
See if I can get any idea when I might ovulate and dtd every other day and see what happens. No af yet but got very mild period pains so no doubt will start soon.

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 14:41

I was going to say that my cramping has stopped. But I sat down and it's started again. Grrr it's so frustrating.

frustratedpants · 22/08/2012 14:17

berri are you still holding that line?

mmm Krispy kremes stick around please [beg] keep me out of early cod. I'm refusing to immerse myself into September Fred until September.

ninja I'm not sure how you can be certain you've Ov-ed. I think Basal Temps are pretty reliable.
You've also got EWCM, saliva ferning, and OPKs, but these 3 don't work for everybody.
Dtd eod seems to be the safest option without obsessing.

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