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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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BFP in 2012 Part 2 - step away from the COD and into this thread.

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 13/08/2012 23:01

We filled the last one so I thought I would start no 2.

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KickTheGuru · 16/08/2012 21:29

I had a good chat with my dh and he implanted some practical man thoughts.

We will go at it hammer and tongs next month and then i get fertility drugs

redstrawberry · 16/08/2012 21:25

Sorry when and nic. Just met a friend for dinner who announced she was pregnant. For the first time I am not jealous, but really pleased for her. Shes been trying for a long time. A little part of me was envious but not much.

I kept saying to myself that I will have my own pregnancy and my own baby.

KickTheGuru · 16/08/2012 21:24

In me personally. I get them most months is what i mean

i think complete lack of symptoms would make me believe

KickTheGuru · 16/08/2012 21:21

Yet Nichola i have never had boobage pain but now it starts about 3 days after ovulation smiley and hangs around until af arrival. When i have been late, its lasted throughout as well

my nipples have started to burn. I have been sobbing all day. Change in cm. Weird tugs and twitches

still about 99% sure am not pregnant though. None of those are symptoms of anything apart from progesterone

fatasbutter · 16/08/2012 20:29

Oh I'm sorry when that's a real shame Sad
Lots of sad stories at the moment - we are surely due some happiness soon aren't we all?? X

NicolaHazel · 16/08/2012 20:27

Thank you. I'm trying to be hopeful, but I'm struggling, for some reason.

Will you keep TTC next cycle, or wait til you know what's happening?

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 16/08/2012 20:20

Thanks nicola it just seems to be my body going wrong. A RL friend was so shocked the first one turned into a cp. She had to wait a week to get a very faint positive (which is now a 18 month old).

I feel tonnes better once the bleeding starts its the limbo that I find soul destroying. Part of the reason I really like these threads is hearing about others experiences puts everything into perspective. Fx for tomorrow morning for you.

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NicolaHazel · 16/08/2012 20:12

You're more than entitled to be down, When.

You've been through a very, very shit few months. :-(

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 16/08/2012 20:08

Sorry I sounded so down there. I know we are all having a rough time at the moment. It will get better for us.

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WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 16/08/2012 20:07

Hi everyone. I've been off mn for a day or two as have been feeling a bit shit. Just caught up with the thread.

I am so sorry kitty absolutely devastated for you. Nicola really sorry you got a bfn this evening hope it is better news tomorrow.

I had a small amount of spotting but no af so did a test and got a stupidly faint line, same thing happened as the last two months it turned into a bfn the next day (today). Thankfully I started af properly late this afternoon so at least I don't have to suffer in limbo.
Am going to GP tomorrow to try and get some answers, I am convinced something is wrong with me and I just want to find out what the hell it is so I can see if it can be fixed.
Feel awful, like I am letting dh down, he's playing his part perfectly. I seem to be fertile egg wise with a piece of shit uterus.

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weechops · 16/08/2012 20:06

Kitty I'm so sorry. No other words :(

NicolaHazel · 16/08/2012 19:56

My boob pain has gone through many stages...is almost a week of it now. But it is different now than it was.

I did drink A LOT today. Very thirsty / dry mouth.

Very confused though. :-(

PuppyMummy · 16/08/2012 19:53

I normally get them a week before af is due they stop as it starts.

the soreness varies, last month nothing. month before so sore I couldn't lie on my front in bed! so far this month on and off mild soreness just starting right on que!

Kittenkatzen · 16/08/2012 19:52

Ah Nic that's rubbish Sad. Still could well just be too diluted at this stage in the day though. Fx for the morning.

fatasbutter · 16/08/2012 19:50

Ah sorry about the bfn nic - see what tomorrow brings?

I've never noticed when sore boobs start or finish but they are def there for a few days, maybe even a week- but then I get period pains for a week before period comes!! Mainly in the form of bad lower back pain Angry

NicolaHazel · 16/08/2012 19:35

Triple post, but sod it...as a matter of interest, for those of you who do get sore boobs pre-AF, how long do they last?

NicolaHazel · 16/08/2012 19:15

BFN...but I have drunk 3 litres of fluid today. A step too far maybe! Can still see the faint line from this morning's test :-)

NicolaHazel · 16/08/2012 18:56

Don't worry...I'll PO yet another bloody S a bit later on!

If I'm not pregnant, I have a serious hormonal imbalance :-/

fatasbutter · 16/08/2012 18:32

Thanks kitten - that explains the bruises... Wink

fatasbutter · 16/08/2012 18:31

Oh I'm so pea-brained - I read poor kitty 's post and then was distracted and forgot to send a big hug Sad so sorry to hear what's happened. I hope you don't need too long in the COD - and we will all be here for you when you feel ready to come back xxx

swimmingnotdrowning · 16/08/2012 18:29

Oh kitty. So sorry.

Kittenkatzen · 16/08/2012 18:27

fatas they will be sore if you keep squeezing them Grin

nicola sunday?!?! you have nerves of steel!

fatasbutter · 16/08/2012 18:25

I'm in Liverpool - ill drop one over now if you like!!! GrinGrinGrin

NicolaHazel · 16/08/2012 18:23

Ah yes, I remember now!

I'll buy one on Sat for Sunday use if no delivery by then. :-)

fatasbutter · 16/08/2012 18:22

Y'know this Fred has not even existed for 72 hrs and look how many posts there are!! If this continues then we will need a new one in about 5 days!!!

C'mon nic no pressure put us all out of our misery! We're here for you either way...

I'm sorry too that everyone feeling a bit low Sad I just feel tired today! Keep squeezing boobage to see if it's getting sore (no point really as they get sore before AF anyway so doesn't mean anything!!) - am crazy...