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2WW - somebody please distract me from POAS

147 replies

frustratedpants · 22/07/2012 09:05

Like it says in the title. Have hit the 2ww and really really need someone to distract me, or give me something to do to distract myself so I don't stupidly POAS because that would be a total waste of time and money at this stage

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SuperSlattern · 26/07/2012 13:52

I'm getting tempted to POAS early now :)

You are all a bad influence Grin

frustratedpants · 26/07/2012 13:43

Ooh mass POAS sounds fun. I might be able to hang on until Monday. knowing my sodding luck AF will arrive on Sunday

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PuppyMummy · 26/07/2012 11:17

sorry super just re-read and realised u said Wed. I def can't wait that long!

I'm on hols at mo but kind of wish I was at work cos id not be thinking about it all the time cos id be busy! jeeeeze!

PuppyMummy · 26/07/2012 11:11

if af doesn't arrive on sat then I will be poas on tues
(unless it comes before then of course!)
so we can have mass poas fun on tues!

although I can't rule out cheating and doing it Mon no no no. remember last month will not not not

SuperSlattern · 26/07/2012 10:48

Sounds like a plan. I'll tell you what, I won't POAS if you won't? I think we're due around the same time?

I think it does sound promising for you though Smile

frustratedpants · 26/07/2012 10:21

Darn it my cheapies have arrived a day early. I will not wee I will not wee anyway can't wee until tomorrow. I need to distract myself. Day out spending money that I don't have should do the trick.

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SuperSlattern · 26/07/2012 10:02

fx Puppy. I'm trying to think like that too but failing miserably AF is due on Tuesday, and I'm usually pretty regular. If it doesn't show then I'll test on Wednesday.

Frustrated we've all been there. I'm not an organised parent so there's no way I have time to order lots of cheapies. I might try to at the weekend so they get here just on time Smile

frustratedpants · 26/07/2012 09:56

I POAS yesterday. Blush at 7dpo obviously it was -ive. how stupid do I feel about that
Not ruling myself out yet. Have no more tests until my Internet cheapies arrive tomorrow.
I am also in a foul mood, which is a good sign, was slightly evil when pg with dd

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PuppyMummy · 26/07/2012 09:50

af due sat for me.
usually get sore boobs a week before but they are not sore, but are swollen.
also had some mild cramping this week again different cos I normally get cramps the day af is due (is how I can tell its coming)
however I am refusing to get optimistic due to the horrible disappointment so just quietly crossing my fingers and not thinking about it all! yeah right!

when is ur af due super?

SuperSlattern · 26/07/2012 09:34

Well my boobs are getting more tender, and that's what happened before my BFP with DD. I don't get sore boobs before my AF.

Eek, this is the first month TTC properly. Bloody typical, DD took 2 years and DC #2 takes two minutes. I thought we'd be at the v least 3 months.

Well there's no definate BFP until next Tuesday

How is everyone feeling?

Kittenkatzen · 26/07/2012 09:13

YAY congrats red how exciting! GrinGrin

redstrawberry · 26/07/2012 09:00

FX for you all - I will hang around and lurk if you don't mind. Hoping to catch more BFPs on here.

swimmingnotdrowning · 26/07/2012 08:57

Yay! Hooray for red!

PuppyMummy · 26/07/2012 08:43

congratulations red that's fab news!

redstrawberry · 26/07/2012 08:23

Thanks Slattern - yep thats exactly how I look Grin

I still feel the same - no major symptoms except the boobage and I am glad. I just want the BFP to sink in before the symptoms kick in.

How you feeling?

SuperSlattern · 26/07/2012 08:10

I bet you'll walk around all day like this Grin Grin Grin

SuperSlattern · 26/07/2012 08:09

Congratulations Red thats brilliant news Grin

redstrawberry · 26/07/2012 06:13

I finally caved yesterday and POAS. Couldn't hold it any longer.
Came up straight away with a very faint positive :)

Tested this morning again and def a BFP. Can't stop grinning. It still hasn't sunk in.

PuppyMummy · 25/07/2012 15:50

I see your reasoning.

I have been drinking also in public situations as only my sis knows were ttc but have been trying to stick to a couple of glasses.

only been drinking with oh when af is here!
every cloud and all!

fingers crossed for tomorrow then!

redstrawberry · 25/07/2012 15:23

I have still been drinking although a lot less - just a glass of wine last weekend. But I am seeing some friends, including a pregnant friend on Friday and if its a BFN i might just find it to difficult to keep a happy face on.

So I thought if I peed tomorrow and its a BFN I'll accept that AF is late and just move on. I won't do another test.

My will power has crumbled. Its been hard waiting till Friday. Atleast if i find out tomorrow I can compose myself for Friday.

PuppyMummy · 25/07/2012 15:15

you can. don't do it!

last month I poas on the day af due cos me and oh had planned drinks if it was a bfn.
I thought there was a faint line so did another and then thought there was another faint line. this was sat. did another on sun clearly a bfn then another on Mon also bfn. then af arrived on the tues!

was ridiculous and just made me feel bad. so from now on I'm waiting for af or to be a clear 3 days late.

and we didn't even have drinks after all that Grin

save yourself the torment!
def fingers crossed tho!

redstrawberry · 25/07/2012 15:07

yes I think the time from Sunday - today feels like 4 years rather than 4 days. I am already thinking of caving and peeing tomorrow as thats when AF is due. So should get an accurate result Hmm I don't know if I can hold on till Friday.

PuppyMummy · 25/07/2012 15:04

hmmm red you could be right, or it could all be in my head!

much easier not to think about it than torment myself!
roll on sat! I'm not poas until Tuesday, or af. see what comes first!

fingers crossed for u on Fri. and for everyone. it would be quite exciting if it wasn't so agonising!

redstrawberry · 25/07/2012 13:32

Pipbin - chin up and stay positive :) fx for you all.

thanks slattern although your symptoms are sounding very exciting indeed. No slap for you but just a lot of excitement instead. I hope they are all an indication of an oncoming BFP

puppy i've had no real strong symptoms till last night 1 day before AF is due.
I think if your symptoms are different to your last cycle then it means your body is doing something entirely different and that could be because you might be pregnant too :) I find it useful comparing to my previous cycle every symptom is compared to last months - my cycles are regular and a day out now and then, but mostly regular.

PuppyMummy · 25/07/2012 13:15

don't do it red! stay strong!

sorry to hear that swimming. fx next month.

I'm having some af type cramps, bit early for them as normally get them the day af due. not due til sat but that's based on last month which was randomly 3 days late so I guess it could come anytime! pah. how annoying, just hurry up and start if that's what its doing.
also boobs not sore yet which is random as they normally always get a bit sore about 5 days before.
oh well! just saying over and over bfn as then won't be too disappointed!