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ttc and planning a wedding

28 replies

cartoonface · 11/07/2012 15:53

hi im getting married 25th may 2013. i have mc'd twice this year and am keen to have a successful pregnancy as soon as poss.
but im not sure how much being a preg bride bothers me.
obvs i want to make sure my due date isnt too close to the wedding dont want to risk dropping on my wedding day!
but would it matter if i was heavily preg? because of looking a fatty in my dress or even just a little as that would mean no champagne for me!
but also putting off ttc for that long isnt something i feel i want to do. we were luckily in that ive gotten preg quickly both times so i have to consider that i may get preg the first month we try!!!

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cartoonface · 11/07/2012 16:05

i guess im just so worried about doing anything that will cause another miscarriage i wouldnt want to risk even a drop of alcohol. especially if its early on.
i do tend to over think things a lot.
like i was panicing over how last min they could make adjustments to the dress if i have a growing bump. ive already choosen my dress its due in the shop sometime in the next couple of months

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JodieHarshHasALumpyPennie · 11/07/2012 15:55

Oh and congratulations :)

JodieHarshHasALumpyPennie · 11/07/2012 15:55

I'd just relax and take it all as it comes, if I were you. Ultimately a wedding isn't about how you look in a frock, it's about a lifelong commitment and the start of a new life together. If you were also visibly showing a new life that the two of you have created - well, so much the better!

Also pregnant women can look absolutely gorgeous, you know!

WHy can't you have a glass of champagne, anyway?