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Hoping for a July BFP Part Two

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redstrawberry · 04/07/2012 09:39

Hoping the luck continues here.....

OP posts:
Dexidoo · 15/07/2012 13:02

So sorry whenshe

Dexidoo · 15/07/2012 13:01

winkle sorry I made you :( what I should have said is that getting your doctor involved will hopefully be reassuring that bloods and SA are fine. What would weigh on my mind is that if you wait longer you might regret not getting the ball rolling earlier from the point of view that around here I know the wait for gynae assessment could be 6 months.

Many many couples take 12-24 months to conceive and get to cancel the referral. Xx

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 15/07/2012 12:53

Oops clearly not in the mood to proof read either (a simple it sucks)

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 15/07/2012 12:52

Thanks resipsa. Am not in the mood to be cheered up today, I simple it sucks covers it nicely.

Wish they were proper chem pregs but instead I tested on missed period day got a faint positive then had to wait for af to show up days later.

chimp any more blood? Hoping it is just a tiny bit of spotting.

winkle best of luck with the doctors. I think you are right to go now it will take a while to investigate so it is best you don't put it off.

resipsa · 15/07/2012 12:33

It's pretty grim all around today. Why is it so hard to do something that should be so easy? Grrr.
Winkle I know it's easy for us to be upbeat and say going to see the doc is a good idea when you probably feel like it's some admission that something is wrong but I hope you feel better about it after you've been.
Whenshe don't know what to say. Sorry. It sucks.
Chimp Nicola Pooley keep hoping!
Anyone got good news?

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 15/07/2012 12:17

Well it is shit news from this end. It was just a bit of spotting but no af yet. I did another test and the line is somehow even fainter than yesterday (didn't even think that was possible). I don't even think there is one but dh swears he can see one. Also did a tesco digi, they are brand new, say either pregnant or not pregnant. Result was not pregnant.

So it is another bloody chemical pregnancy. Am starting to think there is something wrong uterus wise. Sorry to sound do miserable again.

kittykatsforever · 15/07/2012 12:09

Winkle going to the doctors doesn't mean there is something wrong, just that your taking more control to find out, I found it really comforting to feel I was taking charge and relaxed considerably, as it all takes a long time I defo think your doing the right thing and you can keep doing what your doing in the meantime x

winkle2 · 15/07/2012 11:41

:( Dexi

Dexidoo · 15/07/2012 11:01

I think you do the right thing winkle if it has been a year then preliminary tests are a good idea (hug)

Dexidoo · 15/07/2012 11:00

chimp don't get too disheartened I had those exact symptoms 5 days before my previous BFP!

winkle2 · 15/07/2012 10:56

Chimp it could be IB, sounds like the right time for it. Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

winkle2 · 15/07/2012 10:55

Chimp - sorry for BFN :(

Whenshewasbad - any more news? Is it full flow or just spotting - hope its the latter

Nicola - fingers crossed for BFP

Fatas - any idea when you usually OV? Try to dtd just in case!

Dexi - sigh, yes this is the longest cycle since I started tracking them last August. :(

CD37 here. I think I'll make an appointment at the docs for Tuesday. Might as well take my husband with me and start the ball rolling for fertility treatment :( Never thought this would be happening to me :(

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 15/07/2012 10:53

I'm sorry pooley when is af due? Bfn with no af sucks, mind you af sucks too.

ttc is a a real pain.

Chimpette · 15/07/2012 10:28

I think I might be out too Sad

Just had a bath and (TMI alert) there was a tiny bit of blood. I'm on CD24, 12 dpo. Normally my cycle is 28 days, so now I'm really confused. AF never visits early!

The mental part of my mind is wondering whether it could be an implantation bleed, as I've been having cramps all week (don't usually get them until AF is in full swing).

Clutching at straws?!!

NicolaHazel · 15/07/2012 10:26

Has AF arrived Pooley? If not, you're still in.

Pooley42 · 15/07/2012 10:17

I'm out. Bfn :(

Dexidoo · 15/07/2012 09:46

I hope that it is not AF when, keeping my fingers crossed for you as it was all sounding so positive.

winkle you must be so fed up, is this the longest cycle yet?

I'm CD10 DTD CD 5, 8 and planning for 10, 12, 14, 15, 16 so a busy week ahead! Unless I ov in the next couple of days I will be out for a July BFP but still lurking about.

NicolaHazel · 15/07/2012 09:22

The Superdrug 2 x 2 pack for 8 quid is rather good. If you have one nearby (and the offer is still on!).

Plus a shed load of internet cheapies :-)

fatasbutter · 15/07/2012 09:15

And u r right kitty - I NEVER buy singles!!

fatasbutter · 15/07/2012 09:14

Ah sorry winkle but still ain't over unless She gets you!
And sorry when too - will keep my fingers crossed its not AF just in case!
Well cd15 here and still haven't dtd so unless a miracle happens and can dtd tonight AND I ov late then am out this month. Holiday travel back to DH yesterday has totally wiped me out! Will have to try harder today ... just in case!! Wink

NicolaHazel · 15/07/2012 09:11

And sorry for your BFN too winkle. :-(

NicolaHazel · 15/07/2012 09:10

I did that yesterday, Chimp, due Thurs. Gonna try to hold out now and only test if she doesn't come. Hmmmm...see if I manage that.

Sorry, When, that's really disappointing. Is it definitely AF and not spotting for another reason?

WhenSheWasBadSheWasHorrid · 15/07/2012 07:57

Just went to the loo. There was blood when I wiped, oh well I didn't think this was going to end well at least it is happening quite quickly.

kittykatsforever · 15/07/2012 07:27

Sorry for bfn's, winkle "she's"really taking the piss now!!!
Chimp- yeah consideration not due yet, wait til af due date now

Chimpette · 15/07/2012 07:20

Tested this morning - bfn. I think it's still too early though; AF isn't due until Thurs/ Fri next week.

Over eager? me?

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