hiya all, hope you're all ok.
Sorry to hear about your AF Skerriesmum. It seems to be a fairly common thing for cycles to change when ttc, although generally they seem to get longer rather than shorter. I have a theory on this - it's a generally known fact that stress can delay ovulation, I think therefore that it's possible that the stress of ttc can delay or even prevent ovulation and consequently can delay AF which in turn causes more stress which delays ovulation next month and so the vicious circle continues. So I think really there's a lot of merrit in not stressing over ttc, although that's a lot easier said than done.
Decafgirl welcome :). Am going to be slightly blunt here and say that if you're having generally 42 day cycles and over you should seak medical advice. Such long cycles are often an indication that you are not ovulating regularly or normally and could indicate a medical condition such as PCOS. I'm not an expert on this condition although I do have a friend who has it, and she has very long cycles as well - might be worth talking to meerkatsUnite about it as she is generally quite an expert. Of course I'm not saying you would necessarily have the condition but such long cycles aren't generally considered to be normal, and the sooner you go and see a GP the sooner they can establish if there is anything which could prevent you from conceiving.
Well I'm on CD 23 today, this morning had some quite painful cramps - felt a bit like AF, even called DH and he basically said "oh well that's it for this month then", but AF didn't arrive so not sure what that was about. Have the customary sore boobs for this time of the month but am refusing to read anything into those as have been there so many times before. If I have a 28 day cycle (which I've had until about 3 months ago) AF should arrive on Wednesday, am tempted to test then or maybe will just wait till next weekend but I know i am not a patient person.
Well best shoot for now - the housework isn't going to do itself and have to ring the college to find out about my next course.
tc xxx