After m/c - the wine and shagging thread: no 2!

thanks peeps . Am in total shock. have decided I will tell DH as am so sure I am pg (was going to keep it secret till I have a good and proper line), and we will live by the mantra 'today we are pg'. And if AF comes then so be it!

I can't believe I am being one of those whinging ninnies who ponders about their faint line. whenever I see a post like that I think they must obviously see a line or what are they talking about? An invisible line?! And yet here I am... twonk. I have done 6 tests - SIX - and each has had a line though mega faint. At some point I have to take the plunge and start to believe, eh?! am scared to believe though, and fall in love all over again...

terrified of a digi test woody as am sure it will say not pg! am only 10dpo and they aren't that sensitive so will wait till fri/sat methinks.

haha, thanks one! I can't believe it me'sen!

I don't really believe it yet, not till I see a clear line on a FRER or miss AF... In my world I am pg at the mo, but might still get AF! And then ttc again! Hasn't sunk in I don't think. Well, I just don't believe it.

I chucked the sticks cause I know IC can look funny when they get old and that would make me think it was all bollocks so now think I made it up/dreamt it. However, I am really bloated (jeans undone bloated) and my boobs have been getting sorer all day (when normally would be getting less sore this time in my cycle) and nausea comes and goes :) NO more cramping since getting up! Yay! And I have had no pmt moodiness at all. completely calm. which is most unlike me.

Will still get AF though, but is nice while it lasts!

so, sorry to bang on about this but...

I just did another IC (my last! I couldn't help myself, will have to fork out proper money for proper tests at the pharmacy for tomorrow now. grr) and I can see a thick, very faint line. There really is a line; I can see it right now as I type as it sits on my desk. Unless it is a faulty batch (one of them was weird) I am very early days pg.

for some reason I always get better pg results mid morning, rather than FMU. what is with that?!

I have a BFP?!?!

:)

ps. I have been very queasy on and off and had to have a nap yesterday aft and slept a clear 8 hours last night! (lots for me) sooooo tired. and bbs are starting to seriously tingle on and off but mostly ok. and No AF grumpiness at all :)

well, woody I think you would even chuckle if I tried to show you my 'lines' :) However, if I think I see something, again and again, I am sure there has to be something... because I honestly do know a BFN when I see one. But until you know for sure and have a proper BFP then you could just be being completely crackers.

did you sheldon? I feel so much better now I have given in and let my bloated tum out of my horrible jeans! Just it was the cramping I had last pg that the dr thought might be ectopic and then it was a BO :( So now any cramping means it's all fuckitty fucked. We'll see, prob just bad AF cramps!

will test again tomorrow probably and then have no more tests! eek!

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aw one maybe you are being all pg :) I burst into tears in the car on Monday when DH was teasing me saying I had mouth scabies (yes, he is that childish! and no, I don't have mouth scabies or anything nasty in my mouth for that matter). And am glad you feel a bit better today. Is a really good sign.

me, me, me alert

i did po several sticks! And I have four extremely, crazily faint lines. VERY faint. These are lines that only i would be able to see, every other bugger would see a negative test! However, I have seen enough BFNs in my time to be brave enough to know it when I see it... so think I can't be making up FOUR lines?! On IC and FRER... Or can I?!!! I probably can

So will go for 'mmm, maybe I am maybe I am not' for now tho think I am. BUT, this morning I have had really bad AF cramps :( So bad I have gone and got paracetemol because if I am losing another baby then I don't want to know about it and just want to get on with things. My last pg was very crampy and I was told I might lose it, and I did. So might be having NO baby, or a CP, or another shitty blighted ovum. So no, not hanging out the bunting or even telling DH, certainly until I have a line I haven't made up he might be able to see!

All the fun of the early testing headfuck fair.

ho hum.

hayley it is strange but true! I still got bfps from my mc until 3 days before my WTF cycle AF! and I had all my usual ov signs at the usual time so assume I did ov. (having a mc only put my cycles out a couple of days :))

glad your AF is here and you can start ttc soon cheese!

yo one. am not aware of any symptoms that can't be attributed to pms still get the nasty watery mouth, it was so awful the other night I thought i might be sick. don't know what is up with that, hormonal stuff probably!

Am going to poas tomorrow, yeah man. will be utterly meaningless as if it is a bfn obviously it could be too early so just being silly but still... just fancy it now (having spent a WHOLE day ALONE in a house with the fecking sticks calling to me!)

who knows.

woody you can certainly ttc with a positive test from your mc. However, do be aware that you might not ov until it is very faint, (but I did ov normally despite bfps) and that if you DO get pg you might not know if a bfp heralds a new pg or is still from the mc. This can be a massive headfuck! that's all though so hope is the news you want to hear :)