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How likely would it be that I am pregnant ?

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StupidStupidStupid · 07/06/2012 14:18

It is many years since anything pregnancy related has had to cross my mind, so i'm not sure wether I am imagining things or what.

I am not 100% sure of the date of my last period, but I think it was about 16th May. I came off the pill a few mths back and so haven't really been paying much attention to when they are, just how painful they are.

Anyhow, I had sex on 28th May and used withdrawal method ( i know i know, fuckwit). Anyhow, since yesterday (7th) i've felt a bit odd, slightly queasy and just not quite myself.

It would be too early to be getting pregnancy symptoms, right ?? More than likely a bug ??

There are a million reasons why being pregnant would be a disaster, and yes, I know I should have thought of that before using such a shit method of contraception, but it was a heat of the moment thing.

So, i'd now like you all to say 'no no, def not pregnant' lol.

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lovechoc · 19/06/2012 18:35

I can bet that you're stressing about it has delayed it (talking from personal experience here!). Glad you got the result you wanted! :)

shelley72 · 19/06/2012 10:16

Oh that is good news for you. Am so pleased that its worked out. Maybe the stress and worry delayed things. you can relax now!

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StupidStupidStupid · 19/06/2012 10:11

My period finally arrived Grin

Thanks to all who posted advice.

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StupidStupidStupid · 18/06/2012 21:34

Did a clear blue digital today and it was negative. I think my period must just be playing up, cos a positive would have shown by now surely.

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StupidStupidStupid · 17/06/2012 18:54

Thank's lovechoc. Fingers crossed then.

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lovechoc · 17/06/2012 18:36

I had periods that lasted varying lengths from 27 days upward to 40 (without hormonal contraceptives), so it may be that your AF is late. Try not to worry, because that may also be making your AF late too (easier said than done!).

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StupidStupidStupid · 17/06/2012 18:28

I tested on Thursday and got a negative straight away.

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confuzed90 · 17/06/2012 13:37

When was the last time you tested?

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StupidStupidStupid · 17/06/2012 11:56

Well I told my mum yesterday, and it didn't go well.

I'm back to not knowing what to do again now. I was so relieved yesterday when i thought my period had arrived. Maybe not keeping it would be best for everybody.

Ive not had anymore bleeding, just more mild backacke. It's day 32 of my cycle today i think, so two more days and that will be the longest ive ever gone. I'm not going to test until next wednesday though.

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StupidStupidStupid · 16/06/2012 16:29

Well today has bought some stomach ache and a tiny tiny bit of pinkish blood.

Still got some mild stomach ache but no more blood. Looked at implantation bleeding, but i think it's too late to be that.

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StupidStupidStupid · 15/06/2012 20:32

Thank's shelley. I am ok, just desperate to know one way or another.

Had period type pain back ache today but i had that with my other pregnancies, so that doesn't mean alot. Have also had a horrible taste in my mouth and felt a bit urgh all day.

Spoke to the dad today and he is being supportive, and wants to be involved if i am pregnant, so thats good. He is a nice bloke so i thought he would be ok. We are just not good together unfortunatly.

I am sorry to keep rambling on, on here but only the dad and my friend know and so it's hard to sitting here thinking about it on my own.

My period turning up would still be the best option, but i think thats looking more and more unlikely.

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shelley72 · 14/06/2012 17:42

sorry, i've only just come back to this. bugger about no AF still, but yes it may be a bit too early to get a result.

i am glad now that you have had time to think that you have worked out what you would do if you were pg. you have to do what is right for you - never mind what other people think or say. its YOUR decision either way.

hope you're ok.

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StupidStupidStupid · 14/06/2012 14:44

Hmm, if anything, i think i ovulated late.

I'll have gone insane by the time i do find out. I keep analysing every tiny detail of my body.

I think i have decided that i will keep the baby though. Not sure i that is a good or bad thing tbh and I know that alot of people will be against me, but i have to do whats right for me.

Thank's for the reply littlefriend.

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TheLittleFriend · 14/06/2012 14:24

I know you don't want to hear this, but a positive almost certainly wouldn't have shown up by 3 from your last period, unless you ovulated very early. It shows up around 4 wks from last period. Good luck though, hope you get the answer you want.

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StupidStupidStupid · 14/06/2012 14:03

I used first response early tests if that means anything to anyone.

Sorry to go on, but i am going a bit crazy.

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StupidStupidStupid · 14/06/2012 13:47

Well several days on and still no period, but another negative test.

Managed to work out my last period dates and i'm on day 29 of my cycle today. I think i've been as late as 34 days before, so it could still arrive I suppose.

According to due date thingies i'd be 3 weeks now, if i was pregnant. A positive result would have shown up now wouldn't it ?

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shelley72 · 11/06/2012 15:58

Oh that is good news for you, had been wondering how you got on. Hope all the worry didn't spoil your birthday too much. Hope you are feeling ok now

bonzo77 · 11/06/2012 13:00

Thanks for the update. Hope you are ok.

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StupidStupidStupid · 11/06/2012 12:02

Test was negative. Bought a double pack so I can test again if period doesn't arrive soon.

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StupidStupidStupid · 10/06/2012 13:50

Thank you Bonzo

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bonzo77 · 10/06/2012 12:58

Happy birthday! What a "gift". Hope that whatever happens turns out for the best for you and your family.

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StupidStupidStupid · 10/06/2012 12:47

Oh shit bonzo Confused

God i am so fucking stupid.

Thanx for posting anyway bonzo. You are right, i need to find out don't i. Will buy a test in the morning. Cant get one today as it's my birthday and were having a big family meal.

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bonzo77 · 10/06/2012 11:53

Possible definitely. You had sex 12 days after your period started. Sperm can live up to 5 days and an egg one day. So if you ovulated between days 11 and 16, which is pretty normal, you could have conceived. I got nausea 9 days after I ovulated and a BFP a day later. You must poas!

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StupidStupidStupid · 10/06/2012 11:40

Thankfully, the sickness has dissapeared so i thinik it might have just been a bug.

I had actually not been seeing the possible father for very long tbh, and we split up last night anyway so being pregnant would really not be good.

I will update on here once my af hopefully arrives and thanks for asking how i am.

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shelley72 · 10/06/2012 08:11

how are you feeling now stupidstupidstupid (which you're not btw)? just to say i hope you get the result you want tomorrow, have you told your OH yet of your worry?

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