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June BFP part two!!

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Pinkie29 · 03/06/2012 15:26

Well since I filled it thought if best start a new one! 1000 posts by June 3rd well done ladies!

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jaquelinehyde · 04/06/2012 11:25

Morning ladies, wishful I'm so sorry Sad here's to you having a decent wtf cycle.

Well I have taken a step back this month and tried not to obsess about stuff, I think I missed ov as I got loads of mucus and was having plenty of sex, then a few days later started doing opks and got a faint line, over the next few days instead of getting darker it got lighter and then disappeared....So ovulation missed!

However, af is due today (originally down to test tomorrow) and there is no sign of her! So I could either be pg or I haven't ovulated this month hence it not coming up on the opk, but would I still get at?

I'm confused.com! Grin Confused

onemoreforgoodmeasure · 04/06/2012 11:21

AGH! I swear, I signed in a hello, went on a holiday and you're all 12 pages on and in a NEW thread!!! I will never catch up at this pace, I'm only on line every other day or so, but I can tell that there's exciting stuff going on with Pinkie, congratulations!!! Reading that is just the motivation I need, a positive focus! Really sweet and funny the thought of you sitting on the loo staring at a feint line!

And wishful, I'm sorry, that's awful, I don't know your back story yet, but an MC is a terrible, sad thing. I hope you have some good people around you right now.

Now, if I remember rightly this is a no symptom spotting thread, so... great. We dtd the morning before we left on holiday and then the morning we were heading out I got my first ever positive ov stick just as we were heading out so we ran back upstairs because those damn stiks don't say where you are in that 24-36 hour window - I do feel sorry for the guys having to produce the goods on demand like that. We were then travelling for two days and after that I figured the window of opportunity must have closed. I had some cramping on day 6 after dtd, but, you know, I'm not symptom spotting for signs of implantation, afterall, as someone above commented, on 25% ish are successful at this stage.

The earliest I can test is Monday, I will search out when everyone's testing dates!

forgetmenots · 04/06/2012 11:07

I don't want to say congrats yet pinkie but everything crossed for a full on BFP very soon!

Wishful that's so sad. I agree with pinkie, I understand it's their job but to describe it like that is really unpleasant. :(

WhenSheWasBad - enjoy your holiday, relaxation can't be anything but a help! And if there's no BFP for either of us next time we can be cycle buddies next month!

QueenOfTheDrama · 04/06/2012 10:58

wishful I'm so sorry to hear about your mc. Keeping everything crossed for you that you're pg again very soon.

red I'm the same, I'm happy for my pg friends but its hard not to be a little bit Envy because you really want it to be you!

pinkie fx! Smile

Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 10:56

Open - I always piap (pee in a pot) and dip the sticks, I once managed to pee all over the seat and down my leg oh the shame!

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OpenMindedSceptic · 04/06/2012 10:15

wishful I am very sorry to hear about your mc Sad Hope that you are coping ok.
pinkie fingers crossed for you!

I.ve done another test this morning and it failed! No line in the control window. Think I pissed on it too long Confused
Will try again tomorrow.

winkle2 · 04/06/2012 09:44

Agree pinkie :)

Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 09:14

It sounds so clinical Sad I know it's there job but those 'products' which we all were at some point would have been a much wanted and loved dc!!

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redstrawberry · 04/06/2012 09:02

Best not beat! Bloody autocorrect

I hate it when they use awful words like 'products of conception'! Why does it have to be so technical and so insensitive - would it hurt them to describe it as something more human! Wishful hope you are okay Sad

redstrawberry · 04/06/2012 08:58

Ahh! This is where you all are Smile
I'm at the beginning of the cycle again - long time to wait to test again.

But surprisingly feeling not bothered by it all. Had an emotional chat with dh yesterday about my friends being pg and how I felt about it all and listening to them talk abt their early pregnancy symptoms was making me Sad. They are my beat friends and i love them to bits and i felt guilty for feeling so selfish and Envy But feeling a lot better now tht it's all out and hopin for a spring baby now.

wishful how are you... Big hug to you xx

winkle2 · 04/06/2012 08:53

Sorry to hear that wishful :(

Whispering congratulations pinkie. Keep us posted.

Life's not great here at the moment :( Had a massive row with my husband yesterday about his drinking. Won't go into details as its not a thread about my hubby's drinking! But just wanted to check in with you guys. :)

Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 08:34

Oh wishful Sad bless you (hugs) how awful, I hope your doing ok and pg again very soon!!

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KickingUpQuestions · 04/06/2012 08:33

ah wishful am so so sorry

are you holding up ok?

wishfulthinking1 · 04/06/2012 08:26

Cross post- sorry about congrats!! X

wishfulthinking1 · 04/06/2012 08:24

Congratulations pinkie! That sounds very positive! Now, no more peeing on sticks today- try to relax and have a nice day.

Well, I'm back- was on the very beginning of the thread with a BFP in may, I got to 7 weeks and am now miscarrying. Had some spotting so saw dr on Friday, booked a scan for Tuesday but have bled heavily with massive cramps over the last couple of days so have accepted that im miscarrying. Out of hours dr says I need to go to scan on Tuesday to check that all the 'products of conception' have gone :-(

Anyway, I really don't want to bring the mood down- it was good fun being on the may BFP thread and I really feel like I need something positive to focus on. Plenty of women concieve on their wtf cycle and here's hoping I'm one of them!

I'm counting yesterday as cd1 as that was when the heavy bleeding started and as soon as it stops we're going to dtd every other day (or maybe every third day) and more if I see ewcm and we shan't stop until I have a BFP again or AF turns up

Have a fab weekend lilmiss!
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KickingUpQuestions · 04/06/2012 08:18

superdrug is meant to be the most sensitive but most reliable.

its 10mui and clearblue is 20mui. cb though also gives a lot of room for error - its a lower sensitivity but they dont put that on the pack

have a read of www.poas.com

Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 08:14

Ate superdrug ones good? If I do go in sure ill be seeing you very soon on the other side Grin if anyone deserves a bfp it's you after all that effort!

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KickingUpQuestions · 04/06/2012 08:08

yeh i dont want to say congrats. not yet.

next go pick up a superdrug one and a clear blue digital :)

i will miss ylu though

Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 08:02

I said to dp maybe it's my womb getting ready, I'm ok now but no congrats yet please (thank you tho!!) want to wait until its a proper bfp Grin

Will test again 14dpo then if that's any clearer ill pick up a clearblue digital at the weekend

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KickingUpQuestions · 04/06/2012 07:58

pregnant people report af type pains before af should have arrived

just in case i wasnt clear :)

KickingUpQuestions · 04/06/2012 07:53

not sure about the af type pains but people have reported that for one day before af would have arrived

its not implantarion though as the hormones takea 5 days to show up in urine

it could just be your body making space?

i want to say comgrats Grin

Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 07:48

The same colour but very very faint, it looks like a fading opk test if that makes sense? I've come back to bed trying to calm down!

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KickingUpQuestions · 04/06/2012 07:44

what colour are the lines? am thinking if they are clearly there as faint lines in the same colour as the control then its looking good :)

Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 07:31

I've done 5 tests now and it's there on all of them!! I'm trying to calm down tho as having a lot of af type pains so if I have conceived I'm preparing myself for a cp but at least I'll know I can (hopefully) conceive!

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Pinkie29 · 04/06/2012 07:21

Ok I'm sitting on the loo shaking! Dp stayed out last night so he's not here, just done an Internet 10 (is it miu??) test and there's definite faint second line staring up at me!!!! Grin

Done an asda clear response and there's a very faint one on there too but prob not ad sensitive as Internet!

Any thoughts?? Evap lines?! False negatives? Oh man!!

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