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Did it take you a while to start ovulating after the pill?

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KylieP · 05/05/2012 21:20

I came off the pill 5 months ago and I don't think I'm ovulating, so am trying acupuncture, starting on Tuesday. I was freaking out googling a bit and I saw this article below, and wondered if the my body might have gone into "hibernation"?! This article might be PR-influenced but wondered if many people have to wait a while to ovulate? www.telegraph.co.uk/health/3350809/Pill-can-delay-a-baby-far-longer-than-you-want.html

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kalidasa · 08/05/2012 21:39

I've charted for years but I think it's quite hard to start/learn when you've just come off the pill, because you won't really know what to look for and you are likely to be faced with at least a few confusing charts anyway. Have you read the book "Taking Charge of your Fertility"? It is a wonderful guide to charting if you haven't.

Purely anecdotal, but my friend was charting straight off the pill and she found that she did ovulate but not every month; and also that even when she did ovulate (temp shift) the cervical fluid wasn't really in a clear fertile/infertile pattern. In the end she just went more by the temps I think and did get pregnant quite quickly.

KylieP · 08/05/2012 21:30

Thank you :) it actually makes me feel better to hear it does sometime take a while to get back to normal as that means at least there's hope I will start ovulating in the next year or so. Although I know my PCOS does complicate things. Just had my first acupuncture session,apparently she is trying to bring on my period now (on day 31) and then I'd need to see her around mid cycle. And thanks Lora but I have lean PCOS (skinny poly!) so no weight to lose, trying to be really healthy though. Thanks Attila too, I'll go back in June, it can't hurt if I get the referral sooner, you're right and then they can start doing tests. No more googling for now, got myself in a right state last night! x

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carve133 · 08/05/2012 20:39

I was on the pill for about 15 years non-stop and I'm sorry to say OP but it took a whole 12 months for me to ovulate after stopping. I didn't have a period the entire time. It was very frustrating, and worrisome. I went to the GP after 10 months and he did bloods. All normal and he said it can take time for some women (especially given how long I was on it). Just before ovulating again for the first time I seemed to go through a second puberty - greasy skin, spots all over my back. Then I ovulated (knew I had - I felt it), puberty went away and I went back to normal very quickly (including the horrible heavy long periods I hadn't had since I was 15!). Conceived on 3rd/4th cycle (I was 31). There was nothing wrong, it was just time. I'm sure checking with your GP in a few months is a good idea. Good luck.

Lora1982 · 08/05/2012 10:23

i think it depends on how long you were taking the pill doesnt it? i was only on it for about 4 months stopped in feb i had two periods that month which was mad... and annoying normal one in March and April then found out im pregnant last week. Ive read about how the chemicals in the pills can mess up your system making it take upto a year before ovulation is regular again.

and if it is poly ovaries... please dont give up hope or stress. my friend has it she lost a tiny bit of weight last year and now has a gorgeous daughter

AttilaTheMeerkat · 08/05/2012 07:39

KylieP

No googling!. However, Verity's website www.verity-pcos.org.uk may well help.

One in five women show signs of having polycystic ovaries (PCO); it is more common than people realise. The stats for PCOS itself is about 1 in 10.

I would go back to the GP before July and insist on a referral to a gynae at a subfertility unit. If PCOS is suspected it should be investigated thoroughly; GPs are pretty much useless at dealing with such issues and PCOS often requires careful management.

DO not use OPK's either because these kits read LH. Many PCOSers have an excess of this particular hormone to start with so the kit ends up reading this excess level hence multiple positive results. They are not worth the money.

Low GI/GL eating plan can help women with PCOS; any excess pounds can exacerbate symptoms so do try and remain within the correct weight range for your height.

KylieP · 07/05/2012 23:08

Thank so much cavemum, you're right it is common, and stressing isn't going to help at all and maybe even do the opposite! No more obsessive googling for a while :) really freaked myself out tonight! and thanks too pipbin I'll go back to my doc in July and insist on ovulation tests/a referral and take it from there x

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Pipbin · 07/05/2012 22:46

Interesting that you can have periods without OVing.

Kylie I was sent for blood tests which showed that I was OVing.
I went to the hospital to have them done in a drop in clinic. You have to have them a week before AF and then on day 3 of your cycle. They call the first one day 21 because on a text book 28 day cycle day 21 would be 7 days after OV and before AF.
It didn't cause me too many problems with regards to work as it was a drop in thing and no appointment was needed.

CaveMum · 07/05/2012 22:22

The best advice I can give is STAY AWAY FROM GOOGLE!!!

Honestly, you will make yourself feel worse. from what I have read I understand that as many as 1 out of 10 women probably suffer from PCOS, so it really isn't that uncommon.

I hope the acupuncture makes you feel better Smile

KylieP · 07/05/2012 22:07

Have just been freaking out, reading about infertility stats, I feel like an emotional wreck too! I am hoping my first acupuncture session tomorrow will help me relax but also help my body to work better. I almost can't bring myself to think/write it, but are there couples out there who just can't conceive? I always thought that was so rare, but maybe it isn't as rare as I thought? Sorry am usually a lot more positive about ttc but having a bit of a rough day with it today :( x

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CaveMum · 07/05/2012 21:59

I'm 31 this week. I'm hoping the Clomid might have kick started something. I'm trying not to throw too many things at it at once, otherwise there is no way of knowing what works!

I might well look at acupuncture or reflexology to help me de-stress. I'm a bit of an emotional wreck these days!

KylieP · 07/05/2012 20:38

How old are you cavemum? Also do you think even when you stop taking clomid, it could have kick started ovulation for you? (so you might then ovulate naturally even though you're not taking clomid?) I can imagine that happening? Have you tried acupuncture or anything like that? x

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CaveMum · 07/05/2012 20:28

I have heard about the low GI diet and do try to follow one, though not strictly.

I don't know what the next step is. I have an appointment with my consultant in July Hmm. I'm hoping they'll let me have a few more months of Clomid, but who knows. I was told there is some evidence that prolonged Clomid use can be linked to ovarian cancer. On the upside, they will let women take 150mg a month for several months, so I can't see that a few more months of 50mg will hurt me.
At my initial consultation they told me the next step for me after Clomid is IVF, but I'm not sure that I'm ready for that yet Sad

KylieP · 07/05/2012 19:19

She was quite honest about that (my gp), she did seem a bit clueless about it, I knew more - put it that way! We agreed I'd come back in July and I think the fact I was temping helped as I can say I have a problem i.e. I'm having periods but not ovulating based on temps. Also the fact I have suspected PCOS should mean I get referred faster I hope. cavemum what are you going to do now clomid hasn't worked? Why can't you keep taking it as it's making you ovulate? I've just been googling and found that a low GI diet MIGHT help PCOS, have you heard that? x

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CaveMum · 07/05/2012 19:08

In my experience Drs will not investigate until you have gone 6 months without a period. I came off the Pill in May 2010, had 1 period in June and then nothing.
I went to my GP in September and was told to come back in January. Multiple blood tests, ultrasounds and an HSG later they diagnosed PCOS which had, as you say, been masked by the Pill.

I'm now on my 6th, and final, cycle of Clomid. I've been lucky that 50mg has been enough to make me ovulate, but sadly I am still not pregnant.

I am also slim and, barring having the skin of a puberty-ridden 13yo, have none of the other "classic" PCOS symptoms.

Do keep pushing your Dr to send you for more tests. GPs know very little about fertility issues, after all the nature of their job is to know about lots of different things and not specialise in one area.

KylieP · 07/05/2012 18:46

Mine were and are irregular, I think the pill masked PCOS so think I have that but my doc is being a bit rubbish and not diagnosing it properly. It def says on my ultrasound results 'suspected PCOS' or something along those lines. I'm slim though so I must have lean PCOS. DH has been amazing thank god, so relaxed even though he is 35 and really wants kids, but not once has he made me feel like it's my fault (even though it is - or at least it's my stupid ovaries fault!) I'm thinking for now I'll try relaxing and acupuncture plus enjoying my holidays, followed by pushing my doctor for a referral in July and looking into clomid etc. Wish me luck! I'm going to start OPK'ing too, the more I look into it now, the easier it will be to explain to a specialist. It must feel amazing to get the BFP and a bit surreal? I can't wait! x

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CraftyGirly · 07/05/2012 18:26

I know Kylie some people can be so insensitive, it's annoying but try not to let it get to you, your boss is a bit Out of order IMO though, you are entitiled to have a baby if you so wish and by law they can't discriminate against you for it (although I know in reality this does happen). I know when it comes to the time I have to tell my boss, they will be less than pleased for me, but it's their loss.

my cyles were 28 days before I went on the pill when I was 15 and 10 years later they went straight back to being 28 days. what were yours like pre-pill as this might give you some indication. I know that it can mask irregular periods and PCOS, wishing you the best of luck in getting to the bottom of your problem.

I ditched the temping about a week ago as it was turning me into a crazy woman, would recommend OV sticks though (just the cheap ones from ebay) as they are cheap enough to test a couple of times each day so you can be sure you dont miss it. I know they dont tell you when you have OVd but there is definitely some comfort in knowing you get a LH surge.

KylieP · 07/05/2012 18:10

Ahhh yay! You must be feeling so overwhelmed! Ok I'll try not to let the temping thing get to me, it's my fourth cycle though since December, but I am feeling more positive now I have my first acupuncture session tomorrow and a couple of holidays coming up. How long were your cycles? Were they regular? Mine aren't :( And you're so right about work, it's just the other day I was saying how cute a baby was and my boss said "no, you mustn't start getting broody!" - I know she didn't mean to be nasty but def insensitive as I just got married last year and am 30 and struggling to conceive (fair enough she doesn't know that last bit!). Then someone else at work started saying she thinks I shouldn't leave it too long as am 30 and so many people struggle post 30, I might not be able to get pregnant etc..argh! Anyway congrats crafty, heaps of luck with the pregnancy x

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CraftyGirly · 07/05/2012 17:55

Kylie dont despair, my temps were all over the place all throughout my cycle which led me to think that I didnt ovulate, however I must have because this morning I got my BFP :) came off pill at beginning of march and had 2 cycles since then, BFP 2nd cycle

as for work, it's none of their beeswax, if anyone enquires just say 'womens problems' and in my experience they tend to ask no further questions! even if it's NOT womens problems thats what I tell people to stop em being so nosy!

hope everything works out for you! :)

KylieP · 07/05/2012 17:37

Oh I see so you have to do the tests on certain days? I was thinking about what to say to work if I need to keep going back for appointments - do you just say doc appointments and leave it at that? Am worried work might get suspicious that I'm ttc (but I know that doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things, getting pregnant is much more important!) x

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Happilymarried155 · 07/05/2012 17:26

I'm not sure to be honest, I'm in the early stages have a blood test tommorow which is day 21, this is testing various hormone levels and my thyroid etc...I don't know much more apart from that. She said to have these blood tests, we would look at the results and go from there! X

KylieP · 07/05/2012 17:06

Oh and I forgot to say I'm not even sure I'm not ovulating but my theory is based on my bloody frustrating temp chart (no rise) and also my irregular cycles. Apparently irregular cycles are a sign of not ovulating :(

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KylieP · 07/05/2012 17:02

Hi, you definitely can have a period without ovulating apparently, how annoying is that! Also you can ovulate some cycles and not others. That's why I'm a bit worried about going on drugs (clomid) to start me ovulating when I'm hoping I will start naturally or at least naturally some months. Although lots of people on here seem to do well from clomid? happilymarried what tests do they run and how many cycles do they test you for?

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Happilymarried155 · 07/05/2012 16:51

Pipbin I was going to ask the same question, I have been following this thread with interest! I came off the pill a year ago, did opk for about 6 months and got smiley faces and have a cycle of 30-33 days. I was pretty sure that all was good and I was ovulating but apparently the opk just tell you there is a surge in hormones so you might not ovulate and now the doctor is sending me for blood tests to check I'm ovulating so I guess you can have a period without ovulating!? X

ilovedjasondonovan · 07/05/2012 16:07

6 months

Pipbin · 07/05/2012 16:03

Not wishing to sound daft but can you have your period without ovulating?