Just MC and ready to try again? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake

cake I believe in that kind of thing too but I wouldn't put too much time worrying about what she said. She may have meant beautiful. I was told that I would have 4 children by a spiritualist type years ago and my first would be a curly haired girl. DD has wild unruly curly hair I'm waiting on the other 3 to show up hope you are ok.

Sure, thanks x

cakeplease, may i pm you about your post please?

Thinking of you MrsN

I've posted this same post on another thread too; sorry if you are reading twice!!!

Hi Girls, sorry I've been out of the looP for a bit. We've been away for a week. Last minute escape to avoid visiting family etc / seeing anyone during the hideousness that is a mc. Best thing we could have done. Had a great time, got away. Lots of wine & shagging (had my mc 2.5 weeks ago and bfn at wknd), have decided to let mother nature take its course & we are not using protection. I have returned feeling refreshed, optimistic & positive.

There is one thing playing on my mind, see what you think: About a week after I found out I was pg an older colleague (66) was telling me how she has vivid dreams that come true (predicted London bombing accurately amongst other things) she asked if we were going to expand the family & then said she'd had a dream about me and another colleague & how we were surrounded by beautiful angel babies (exact words, she has no idea what those words mean, she impled it meant beautiful) at the time I brushed it off & thought she was exaggerating her 'skill' but i started spotting a week or so later. now it's all I can think about, I'm dreading another pg, thinking this is going to happen again & again like her dream.....

Am I being crazy?!?!? I honestly wouldn't believe this under normal circumstances.

I haven't read all the posts I've missed so will pour a glass & catch up but I gather there has been heartbeats and heartbreak

Much love & hugs to you all, these are hard times but you girls are really helping me. Thank you x

Started as i mean to go on..took a couple of paracetamol and made a gorgeous tea for my boys, then downed some super strength tabs.
Better on a full stomach as last time i got gastritis becasue of the pain killers! Now that was a twat of a thing, coupled with mc pain...oooh nasty.

Ive done an online shop, meal planned for the next 2 weeks and ironed all of ds's school uniforms ready for school on Monday.

Im ready....bring it on mc bitch

Hope you all have a lovely weekend & thanks again for your kind words x

so sorry, mrsN - the others are right, it's best to get on top of pain before it really starts so if you haven't already, do down the first dose of painkillers and take the next lot at the right time interval even if it doesn't really feel like you need to.

I'm so sorry MrsN. It is so utterly, utterly unfair that you should have to go through this. I'd also take the painkillers, and any other pain relief I could get my hands on. The emotional side on its own is enough to deal with. Wish there was more i could do.

Oh bollocks Mrs N. with you in spirit. Can you hide under the duvet with a good film, glass of wine and a painkiller?

so sorry mrsn. I agree, take the painkillers now, they're most effective when taken before the pain really kicks in and keep taking them as directed even if the pain isn't too bad. Hope you are at home and making yourself as comfortable as you can be.

Oh, mrsn, so very very sorry. Thinking of you from over here, and take the painkillers - IIRC it's good to get on top of pain before it really starts kicking your arse, and it won't do you any harm.

Oh MrsN I am so sorry. It is just so horrid. I wish things were different for you. I'll be thinking about you.

So sorry mrsM :(

mrsN so sorry take the painkillers now and call the EPAU again

dark dark day today.

bleeding heavier and red now.
Grumbling pain started. Ive got some industrial strength painkillers but not sure when to take them.

Stopped asprin now. Dont want to make a bad situation worse.

Feeling very low and tearful.

Great news sunshine!

Fantastic news sunshine

really happy for you sunshine

jaffa can't believe you are in double figures already :)

thanks! I'm 5+5, (by scan and by my dates). I didn't even know it was possible to see a heartbeat this early. AND they didn't need to do an internal scan which was a bonus (I've had so many of these I've lost count).

great news sunshine smiling with you x

good news sunshine - i will be keeping my fingers crossed for you. how far along are you?

had a scan this morning and bloody hell there was a heartbeat . I was 100% expecting the worst and it didn't really enter my head that they'd be able to see a heartbeat, I thought the best they'd be able to tell would be that there is something there but it's too early to tell.

A long, long way to go but not a bad start.....

I'm in bed with tits. Well not actually with tifs but in spirit I am. Actually I am in DD's cot bed. Good job I am a midget.

Thanks for the sarnie jaffa you read my mind.

I have to say nrsN I am with manda on the hope thing with you. I know hope can be a bitch because it hurts when it lets you down but if chromosomes are the problem then the law of averages should throw up at least one good un. I would be tempted to just check out killer cells. But I know how you feel about throwing the towel in. That's how I felt too. It took me months to even have sex after my last loss. here's Hopi g you are well looked after. X

I have had at least 2 days almost metal free. Blimey. Roll on the weekend x

Morning ladies.

Sorry you're going through it mrsn I hope you find some peace in whatever is going on soon.

I'm still in bed, I have woken up (kind of) really struggling to maintain heat and I'm shaking like a leaf, blood sugar maybe???
The boys are already out playing so I think I'll be resting most the day until they need to go to their fathers this afternoon. Then no doubt dp will drag me out somewhere to eat and watch a film.

Never got onto maternity clothes yesterday, bras are pretty urgent though!

Roll up, roll up, bacon butties and porridge here!

Hope everyone is ok.

I am feeling a bit scared. 10 weeks today if everything is going right. Reached double figures. suddenly seems a bit more real.