Just MC and ready to try again? Pregnant after MC and seeking somewhere safe to hide? Come on down to the mosh pit for some serious metalling and cake

champers sorry you are here, I didn't wait after my last early mc and was pg with ds3 within 8 weeks. They found it difficult dating the pg though as I think my body was a bit all over the place. By the later scan he was two weeks a head of what we thought

Ooh, baby IQ on the way! Exciting!

Also still laughing at the cat and the pork. (which reminds me: a friend of mine who shall remain nameless once spent a summer as a student being Very Broke Indeed in London. On the night in question, she and her boyfriend were contemplating yet another dinner of beans on toast, when their cat came in with ... an entire leg of lamb. I think you can guess the rest...)

I think I am going to crack and test today, I feel very hormonal but dunno is it PMS or pregnancy or just weirdness. Also doing ye olde traditional "advance metalling" ie worrying that IF this is the month THEN what will I have to worry about next. Oh, and panicking about DP's job because he might have to travel to the US in the next month or so and I suspect if I get upduffed I will be a giant blouse and not want him to leave the country (or at least the continent) until I get past the date I m/c last time.

champas im so sorry you have had a MC for this early a Mc you can try straight away (i always do) and things may be a little odd in this cycle (we call it the WTF cycle for good reason) so it might be a case of try with no success for the first cycle but a 'lucky' few get preg in that cycle (i did but MC that one too) here have some cake

these are from an order i made for a girl who now doesnt want them or the 10 inch 1 tiered cake to match enjoy!!

Hi All
Budge up make space for me please Luvvies to sqeese on the sofa- sorry i missed breakie this morning was on schl run

I had an early MC this monday ( iwas only 4 weeks along) but i really want to move on and am alreadly thinkng would luv to try again

When can you try again how soon after MC?
Ive read waiting until 2 weeks? or for first period? Or even straigt away Ive got a hospital scan next week to check all is clear, i suppose i must wait til after that?

there was a mum putting her DD into school this morning in a dressing gown and ugg slippers...didnt see a pork join though

tits is too busy to reply, she is wondering round the neighbourhood looking for the missing pork owners, maybe in her dressing gown and slippers.

hi everyone

sorry for the absence

i still havent had time to catch up with the thread but have read todays posts...

IQ YAY for babyQ on the way!! looking forward to your update!!

hope everyone is well

tits at your cat and the pork! my cat is so fussy and refuses to go out (much happier sleeping on my bed) so no chance of any free meat here

Tits still imagining the sight of your cat mid flap with pork joint in it's gob...

Sleepy hello from blue-land...

pebs thinking of you today - so glad the consultant has agreed to testing.

IQ hope all is well...exciting stuff!!!

I am SO glad it's friday and soon soon this work deadline will be done (next weds) and is hopefully my last one before I go on mat leave so I can start to wind down a bit after that which will be nice...right...must get back to it! Sorry for not managing a full name-check...

And my cat scavenges from dustbins.

I believe, from the retching this morning, that m/s has finally arrived for me. On the one hand YAY as it makes me think thus pregnancy will work our. On the other hand - ugh!

Also - iq hope all is going swimmingly. :) we look forward to your news.

Lol at the pork joint, my sisters cat just brings back live birds

Good Morning ladies and hopefully soon baby! Keep going IQ, soon you can hold your baby in your arms and everything will be worth it! :)

Welcome to the new members, sorry you have to be here but we shall look after you. :)

I slept from 8pm until 6am again, poor DP only really gets to see me snoring atm.

I woke up to the delightful sight of my cat dragging a joint of pork through the cat flap, it must belong to a neighbour, I am going to have to go door knocking find out which one and reimburse them. Damn moggie!

I am having a duvet day today, I know it's lovely and sunny but I am still so tired! This exhaustion is getting the better of me, it's never been this bad before.

Oh and whilst I am here ...

chellibelle sorry for your loss and that you are feeling down, we all have good days and bad days. If you have any questions I'm sure there will be someone here who can try to answer them for you

And nothing is tmi here x

Yay IQ how exciting, wishing you all the best!

Hurray! Hurray! Baby IQ is on her way!

IQ, I hope everything goes smoothly and quickly for you. A lovely baby being born on a lovely spring day. I am sorry I don't know about hidden threads but so happy for you. Willing you on...

News in our house is slightly better. No drip needed. But still lots of sickness and diahorrea. Please let it end. Poor little love.

chellibelle sorry you are feeling blue. Pregnancy loss has a habit of creeping up on you when you don't expect it.

IQ yay how exciting (for me anyway, maybe less so for the lady in actual labour). So close now I have contraction envy. I am an actual freak.

I'm not sure about where to post a thread but good luck to you! Not long now till you get to meet your baby xx

Had to cut that short cos I needed to record a contraction in my special counter......now that this looks serious and not wanting to take over the thread where can I post a 'labour' thread that will be obscure and not looked for by that many other people - any suggestions????

Me again - looks like it's a go here.......been on the sofa since 11pm as being sat up allows me to rest/cat nap between pains - lying on my side actually makes it SO much worse, because my tummy goes so hard the edges actually hurt to be touched so lying on my side is like being punched in a huge bruise.

I've done everything advised by the MW (hot water bottle, baths, paracetamol) and it's still going so I believe it is actually here. I've told DH to stay in bed as im managing right now but will definitely need him when these get closer together.

The only thing getting me through each pain is repeating this little prayer "dear god give me the strength to get through this labour" - so far so good!!!

Just getting caught up - the lergy has been less bad today so managed to actually get showered and leave the house!! Can't do a full catch up as I need to try to get some rest and I can feel my paracetamol kicking in.

pebs I just don't know what to say really - im so sorry it's all come to this and it wasnt the news you were hoping for. Sending you love and hugs from here for tomorrow - hope you are able to spend some time just looking after yourself and being with DH over the coming weeks.

Congratulations to the BPFs - it is a long and often rocky road but hopefully this will be the lucky one for you.

As for me - well this might actually be it - I won't say it is cos knowing my luck it will just turn out to be false alarm number 9. At the moment I'm contracting every 10 mins (ish) and it hurts like heck but their just not lasting long enough to bother taking the hour trip to hospital. We shall have to see I suppose......if it carries on I shall start a metallers live labour thread so you can all come keep me company!!!

Hi There, may I join you?
I miscarried just before Xmas, but I am lucky enough to already have a gorgeous lil boy.
I've been fine, but all of a sudden this month I feel very very low.
We're ttc but after reading this thread there is plenty that I don't know!
So I'm hoping you can tell me what I need to do (well not exactly- I think I've got that bit sussed) but when and how I know when, would be a great help.
I have a pretty regular 28ish day cycle, but I always spot for 4/5 days about a week after my period finishes.
I'm so sorry if this is tmi and I know that I'm probably rambling!!

damn that stick up the bum

pebs I'm so sorry, I had a ga after my first mc and it was fine. Hope everything goes ok and your as well as can be expected. Will be thinking about you x

Jaffa hope your dd picks up soon

stela good luck tomorrow, stand your ground

Congrats to the bfps, it's great to see so many

Af has got me although I'm not realy surprised as didn't dtd much due to the stick up bum feeling during ovulation!

pebs I'm glad that the consultant has agreed to the tests. I hope all goes well with your erpc - and that you are able to have time I rest and recoup afterwards. So sorry there was no surprise good news for you.