TTC after a miscarriage - Wishing everyone shed loads of love, luck and babydust xxxx

Sorry it took so long, also you have to factor in were ttc too.

Thats while living abroad and...

Ok here goes and anyone of you other ladies pls feel to give advice etc.
Well as you know dh may lose his job 2morrow. If this happens i will have to give up my job which i love to take a higher paying locum job (if i can get one). I have no problem supporting dh and have done so previously while living and also while pregnant. When we came back from NZ i was pregnant we lived with my folks and i worked while he looked for work ( for 5 months) I started working post birth after 6 months part time and were now in our current situation. Dh has an interview monday for another job, much better paid plus company car too. But may involve staying away from home maybe a night or 2. He said if that is the case he wont take it even if hes been made redundant, its more important to spend time with family! I think he is being selfish, as i will have to give up my job or if no locum work available, we will have to ask to live with my folks ( his idea i dont want to, but he wont accept getting a council flat etc ie cheap housing) He says he has much right to beat home as i do with our ds and doesnt want to be a stranger to him and doesnt want his lack of presence to be an issue for ds. I think yes but your lack of responsibility will impact on him, also arent mothers and fathers roles different, he cannot cook, clean properly, have patience to go swimmng, teach etc do activities. Pls note he often has few weeks of at a time due to nature of present job and has yet to do anything with ds, who is now 3!!! He says if i want us to play man woman roles then he shouldnt do anything in house, again pls note he only does bins and washing up on an evening. He says i shouldnt expect him to take job just because he is the man!! But i do, if he doesnt i will resent him, am i being unreasonable?

where did she go??????????

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I am listening.......

feel free to ask but i don't know whether i'll be any good with advice. i'll try though

Parental roles

what's it about?

Can i ask you guys something? Dh i are having a bit of a disagreement about something and i think im being quite reasonable and cant understand where he is coming from.

DH is the same. It confuses them. Awwwww bless.
I will try and keep myself busy at work (not hard)

Peepee, were allways willing to listen and im sure most of us know how your feeling too. Even my dh has got the testing bug, i have told him its too early, only cycle day 15. lol, he aint too good with cycle biology.

Hi.....

Keep the baby dust coming. I am really trying not to think about testing. It's killing me....... I don't feel it coming on and have felt a little queasy.... I think it could be psychosymatic
As I said if no AF by urm, urm Oh I don't know... then I will test. Naughty really as I am supposed to carry on with the progesterone throughtout a pregnancy if there is one.
Oh, shite what am I supposed to do? I am cd30 today and normally have a 28 day cycle though last months was cd30???? All very confusing. Mind u last month I could feel it coming on big time. I was doubled up. I had always been one of the lucky ones. Normal pain free AF for 4 days and a 28 day cycle. Until the m/c's.
I may not wait till sunday. I'll see. I just want some normality back to this and to get away from the clinical feel of it all.
How confusing is all of that?
Sorry for the headache ladies just wanted to sound off. X
Thanks for listening

peepee - af still not here sounds promising.

g4p - all is well with me thankyou, apart from constant tiredness and headaches but i'm fine.

ch - you seem to be enjoying your studies more, we know you'll be top of the class!

pepper - yay! another month of ttc, fantastic

mygirl - i'm sure gp doesn't think that he probably says that to everyone. hope dd gets better soon.

hope everyone else is alright.

hello everyone. please read pregnancy after miscarriage thread, poor hk has started bleeding again and she's now booked in for a scan tomorrow. my thoughts are with her right now. just thought i'd let you know as i know you're all close and she hasn't posted here.

Hello all, awh my girl i hope dd is not too poorly. Hk nice to know your just having a plain old day without medics involved Ch hows the college work going? Pepper dont worry too much about the cycle thing, just bd as much as poss!! Peepee u r so good not testing, good luck. KK if your around hopeall is well. Nikki, diddle and anyone else ive missed good luck ttc and hello

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ok...been away most of today..met new bosses and they are nice and focused too which is great so we all feel much happier and I hopefull will be able to get me teeth into something exciting....has been a worry.

Pepper great news that you will be trying again

PeePee welldone on not testing again there is still hope and best of luck x

ch - hows the college work today?

Mygirl sorry about DD1 being sent home hope she will be ok at least gave dd3 some company whilst you clean on the brighter side?

Everyone else I have missed.....hello and hope you are ok

sending you all some more very very sticky babydust...

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Thanks mygirl i think i will have me some of that xx

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Yes you are making sense pepperpots - what will be will be and everything happens for a reason.

thanks diddle i am now going to relaax as much as poss, and in a way im glad i dont know what to class as cd1 as that way im not going to be watching for signs of ov and ewcm (yeuch!) just let it be if it will. If it doesnt then thats what is supposed to be. Am i making sense? prob not i never do

peepee - still holding out lots of hope for you!

pepperpots - so pleased dp has agreed to give it another go, now remember to stay relaxed and not worry about datesa nd days etc, just Bd as much as possible but don't put too much pressure on yourselves, that will make it worse.