Love the thread title!
Have read the last thread but forgotten most of it 
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Dachs, lovely to hear from you. I am so sorry that your boss is still behaving like an evil bitch queen from hell, but yay for a pink bean! How many weeks are you now?
Cheese, good luck with the transfusion. Thinking of you.
Who was talking about crying in random places? Was it August? I burst into tears in the car this morning - had been thinking about what ifs, and then DH grumped because I made him late, and I said I hated him and then cried - and we were in the garage and I was sobbing hysterically in the car, and DH thought I was trying to manipulate him and wouldn't hug me or kiss me goodbye. Not a good start - bloody Friday 13th! I was crying because I was already upset, not because he shouted at me for sleeping in. We've got our complaint meeting with Thea's hospital on Monday and we're both trying not to think about but it's still bothering us.
Ciwi, I too look like a loon when someone asks if this is my first baby. The other day one of the canteen ladies asked me and like a fool I said no, my second, and then thought oh bugger, now I'm going to have to explain. She asked what my first had been and I said a girl, while dancing from foot to foot and gathering up my scone and purse and handbag, looking around uncomfortably and basically trying to escape. I pretty much ran while she was still talking, so God only knows what she thought of me! But I don't feel any more comfortable if I say yes, this is my first baby, so I can't win.
Got to go now - will be back soon and try to catch up properly. Fan, my fingers are crossed for you!