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Angels and Rainbows - The beauty of a rainbow does not negate the ravages of the storm. But it can provide colour and hope.

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Whatevertheweather · 13/01/2012 21:28

“Rainbow Babies” is the understanding that the beauty of a rainbow does not negate the ravages of the storm. When a rainbow appears, it doesn’t mean the storm never happened or that the family is not still dealing with its aftermath. What it means is that something beautiful and full of light has appeared in the midst of the darkness and clouds. Storm clouds may still hover but the rainbow provides a counter balance of color, energy and hope.

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AngelGeorgie · 15/01/2012 08:49

Fan xxx

Whatevertheweather · 15/01/2012 08:40

Oh Fan boooo indeed xxx

You are so close Shakey 34 weeks seems a looong time away for me right now! Hope you are doing okay

Meal was lovely then went to see Iron Lady. Meryl Streep was wonderful. Didn't really talk about this pregnancy at all. I tried but I think he is still struggling with it. Perhaps it will seem more real after we have the scan. Roll on 25th!!

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MelMal · 15/01/2012 08:37

Fan boo, but yay for your positivity x

fanjodisfunction · 15/01/2012 08:25

AF is here booooooooooooo. Oh well roll on the next cycle.

CheeseandGherkins · 15/01/2012 07:38

Morning. Marking place on lovely new thread on my phone so I can read through and catch up later :)

shakeyjake · 15/01/2012 07:21

am now 34 weeks. They think I have a low lying placenta so will be going for a scan to check hopefully this week. She is also still breech so I think my vbac is out and cs it will be.

Winnie hi and welcome to this thread.

dachs glad your pg is going good but what a nasty piece of work your boss is

I am a tad bit jealous Envy of all these ladies coming into the ward I am on having the baby and going home, I know I need to keep baby cooking for a bit longer but still

AngelGeorgie · 14/01/2012 22:31

Welcome Winnie x
Shakey glad alls well. As you remember I was in hospital virtually all the last week of my pg!!
Dachs glad you re ok? I would/ could never deny Georgie u would feel horrible & disloyal to her.
Fan FX ... Xxx
Too hope u cheer up??!!
Whatever enjoy your meal. Xx

TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 14/01/2012 17:30

Shakey, sorry to hear about the scary bleeding. Hope it was just a one-off and everything goes smoothly from now on.

Hi Winnie, welcome!

Am v tired and grumpy right now - will post more when I'm in a better mood!

fanjodisfunction · 14/01/2012 16:42

That's good to hear shakey I hope u are ok and not to bored being in hospital. How many weeks are u now?

shakeyjake · 14/01/2012 16:32

Well being kept in for abit for observation but baby is doing well and no more bleeds so far

fanjodisfunction · 14/01/2012 16:12

Horatio lovely. We have our names sorted already, if our next is a girl it will be Odessa and if a boy Lochlan.

DiffedAgainDachs · 14/01/2012 16:04

We are throwing a couple of names around. We find it more difficult to agree on a girl's name than a boy's. If DinkyD was a boy he'd be Horatio, but we can't agree a girl's name yet.

fanjodisfunction · 14/01/2012 15:55

dachs thanx, here's hoping. Have u thought of a name for you little one? Felicia and Alexander are such beautiful names.

fanjodisfunction · 14/01/2012 15:47

whatever I hope you and DH have a lovely time tonight, it must be scary for the both of you.

DiffedAgainDachs · 14/01/2012 15:30

Winnie - welcome

I lost my IVF boy/girl twins, Alexander and Felicia, in May at 20 weeks 3 days after premature rupture of membranes and an infection. Nothing wrong with either of them, they were perfect and beautiful. I'm now 24+5 with a singleton IVF girl, due at the end of April.

This thread is great and the ladies are all fantastic, although i keep abandoning them and coming back sporadically as I'm finding lots of things about this pg so hard to deal with and keep staying away from MN. I'm always here in spirit though. xxxxx

wtw Have a nice dinner tonight - I hope you manage to have the talk. xxx

fan FX that AF stays away - Jan is a good month for it - one of the threads i was on last year there were about 10 of us who all got BFP within about a 2 week period in Jan :) xxx They all have lovely healthy babies now - most of them girls, but one or two boys in the mix.

Whatevertheweather · 14/01/2012 15:14

Oh Shakey that must have been scary. Hope you are getting lots of rest now. Big hugs xx

Welcome Winnie my baby daughter Erin died shortly after birth in August and I am now nearly 7 weeks pregnant. You'll find lots of support and understanding here. Do tell us about your little boy

Fan fingers are tightly crossed for you. I tested on cd29 and got a line so feint I decided it was an evap. Then when AF hadn't showed by cd32 I tested again and it was positive immediately.

How are you doing now August?

Not much to report here. Dp taking me out for dinner tonight. We may actually finally talk about this pregnancy, we still haven't really it's been like the elephant in the room.

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AugustMoon · 14/01/2012 14:14

Hi loveleys. Jumping on the new thread. Lovely title.
shakey hope you're feeling ok. Thinking of you here too.
Hi winnie welcome :)

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fanjodisfunction · 14/01/2012 13:57

Welcome winnie so sorry to hear about your little boy. My daughter Ophelia was stillborn at 36 weeks in april of last year, we also suffered a miscarriage at 6 weeks in July. I hope this thread brings u support as it has me in your ttc journey.

dachs poor you, its not easy is it. Keep striving for what you need, you know what you can handle. I have an inkling of how u are feeling decorating the nursey, the room in our new flat was supposed to be for Ophelia but now it is a gym. Feels odd and like she was never here. We bought everything for it and now its all packed away awaiting her sibling.

I do so hope that I am pg, CD29 today had a headache and stomach ache but nothing as of yet. I thing if AF does not turn up (fx) then I shall test during the week. We don't go shopping till mid week so can't buy any sticks till then. I have promised this to DH.

blizy · 14/01/2012 12:10

Welcome winnie, yes we are from previous threads. Most of us met in the bereavement section for angel parents. I am sorry to hear about your little boy and want to wish you luck in your ttc journey. My baby girl was stillborn at 41 wks last feb and we gave been ttc now for 7 months.

Dachs- great to hear from you! I am stunned at your boss's behaviour, what a bitch! I hope the hospital will give you what you want.

Shakey- how frightening for you! I hope you are ok.

Winnie81 · 14/01/2012 11:50

Sorry that was meant to be LOVELY (bloody phone)

Winnie81 · 14/01/2012 11:49

Hi all, what a lively title, it caught my eye.

Can I join? Were you all from a previous thread?

I am ttc no2, ds1 became a star in 2007 aged 2y 9m x

DiffedAgainDachs · 14/01/2012 11:38

shakey

We are being brave and have decorated the nursery. Today the carpet is going down. But instead of feeling all happy and looking forward to this little one's birth, I'm in pieces because we never made it as far as decorating the nursery for Alexander and Felicia and it feels really disloyal.

When people ask if it my first I always say 'yes, but we lost twins in May - a boy and a girl called Alexander and Felicia'. It doesn't seem right saying this is my first, but it doesn't feel right saying it's not my first either. I don't think there is a right or wrong answer to what you answer to the question, but I do always mention the twins. And i still cry every time. People definitely think i am a loon. But i don't care. :)

too I hope the meeting goes well on Monday and that you aren't finding the weekend too difficult to get through xxx

My local hospital are being really crap and denying me a c-section even after the trauma i went through with the twins and it terrifies me to have to go through that again. I'm trying to convince them but they are adamant that it's psychological and therefore not a medical reason for a c-section. I just hope she turns breech so i can convince them it would be a good idea. They said at the beginning that after the twins i could choose how i wanted to deliver, and now they seem to have changed their mind.

fanjodisfunction · 14/01/2012 10:27

shakey hugs to you, hope ur out today and no more scariness till the lil one is born.

AngelGeorgie · 14/01/2012 10:04

Hugs Shakey xxx

shakeyjake · 14/01/2012 09:52

Morning thanks whatever for the new thread.

Had a bit of a scare last night as had a bleed and spent night in hospital. Baby is fine but now breech and just waiting for a scan then hopefully home.

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