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Do you get spotting before AF / period? Come and talk to me here

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Whysoserious · 30/12/2011 10:35

Morning ladies!

I have bleated on about spotting before AF a lot now on these conception boards and have realised that it does seem to happen to a log of people, can be for many different reasons and also people can be fobbed off by the doctors as "nothing to worry about".

My periods were normal until last August when I started getting brown spotting 4 days before AF came in full force.

I have googled and googled and there are lots of threads of women TTC with this mysterious affliction, but they only last about 20 posts so you can never find out what the outcome was. What were they treated for? Did they manage to conceive? And the one that I'm always desperate to know the minute I start spotting every month; did they get the spotting the month they conceived?

So I want this thread I be a place for TTC mumsnetters who spot before AF to come and share their experiences and stories and support. The information out there is so conflicted so it would be so good to keep this one going until we get some answers and some BFPs!!

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CareBear1 · 06/01/2012 21:22

I think it us definitely one symptom to take in the round with everything else. My worst months I've had some form of bleeding half the month. I go to acu once a week, to a low cost clinic. Try googling low cost multi bed acupuncture.

tumblebug · 06/01/2012 20:04

My periods have always been like this (usually 1 to 2 days spotting at the beginning, then again at the end). Have conceived second month twice, then third month. Oddly the period before I conceived ds i spotted for 5 days, was confused about dates but the pregnancy dated from the first day of spotting. I had the same this time - nearly 4 days spotting, not had scan yet but think I ov'd 16 days after spotting started (30 day cycle). I've always just seen this as a slow start to my period.

Jeezimacasalinga · 06/01/2012 18:42

I've always spotted a day or two before AF and conceived three times pretty much on first month (expecting my third child in next few weeks). I don't think it is necessarily a problem - best of luck to all of you TTC!

Whysoserious · 06/01/2012 18:07

farfalla - where do the needles go? So you go every week? Also do you mind me asking how much it costs? Sorry, lots of questions!

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farfallarocks · 06/01/2012 13:49

Yes I have been having it since June and I have noticed real improvement in my cycle and less spotting and longer cycles. The month I skipped I had spotting for 5 days pre AF. I only do it once a week evern though my acu lady said I should see her every week

Whysoserious · 06/01/2012 12:17

Wow automatic x at the end haha!

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Whysoserious · 06/01/2012 12:17

I've booked to have acupuncture in a couple of weeks (the earliest they could fit me in!). Anyone has this done? What is involved and how often do you go? x

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Whysoserious · 03/01/2012 20:29

Thanks highlove - I've just had a look and seen some positive and helpful responses. Exactly what we need Smile

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highlove · 03/01/2012 17:41

Hi all, I think you're right that some people have this and it's not a problem getting pg so might not look on the TTC board. But I'd definitely appreciate hearing from people who've had this and are now pg, especially if they solved the problem. So I've put a post up on the pregnancy board...hoping to hear lots of positive BFP stories from 'spotters'!

farfallarocks · 03/01/2012 16:14

I am using one called Serenity, I ordered it from amazon.
I did a lot of research and it seemed to be the one a lot of people recommended as a natural, bio-identical form.

whereismywine · 03/01/2012 16:06

Farfalla - which prog cream did you get?

farfallarocks · 03/01/2012 15:52

Hello ladies, yes I have this problem too.

My progesterone tests have just scrapped a 29/30 so ok not great.

I have found B100 vitamins and accupuncture have helped get the spotting down to 2 days as opposed to 5.

I have also had a MC at 5 weeks and a chemical pregnancy so I am convinced this is a luteal phase/progesterone problem.

This month I am trying B100 vits, baby aspirin from ovulation and a tiny spot of natural progesterone cream post ovulation. I am either 9 or 10dpo today and no spotting so far.

This thread is a great idea, thanks for starting it OP

Whysoserious · 03/01/2012 15:48

Hi whereismywine - I hope your op goes well and sorts it all out.

I think you're absolutely right about seeing more worried 'spotters' on TTC boards - people that have had this and got pregnant straight away won't think to post about it. So it could be completely normal and not an issue like the docs say.

I think by starting this thread and chatting to one another about out experiences we will get to hear about some BFPs from 'spotters' which will really lift out spirits, relax us and mean that we all get BFPs!

I think the biggest problem for me is that I worry about it, and the worrying is a bigger issue for TTC than the spotting IYSWIM

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whereismywine · 03/01/2012 14:31

Here is me chipping in, another ttc spotter. I always had this for the afternoon my period would come before ttc, I think, it's never just started with a bang ever since income off the ill after 8 years. But, since ttc (and maybe just paying more attention) I always get spotting ranging from 1 to 5 days. It's barely noticeable really, but it is there. My progesterone is good, the spotting starts around 11-12 days dpo and I've given up hoping it might be implantation bleeding! No gp or consultant has seemed remotely concerned or interested and acupuncture hasnt fixed it either. I don't have cervical erosion. But - during my lap and dye 2 weeks ago, a big fat fibroid was found and they said it may be causing it. It needs to come out via an op this year :-(

I'm not sure this is much help really, but I've been ttc a year and would like to follow other people with the same issue. It means I rarely get to poas. If it's any help, my mum spotted for 2 days always and had me and my brother relatively quickly and my friend had it and conceived straight away. I guess on the ttc boards we are likely to meet up with people who are worried it's a problem rather than people who had it and got pregnant straight away, making it look like a problem when it might not be? But I hope the thread continues and will try and report back on spotting after my op. I suspect it will still happen!

Whysoserious · 03/01/2012 11:57

Happy new year all!

That's interesting carebear. I'm going to try some of the chinese medicine advice this month. Not all of it mind because it's a bit extreme and I don't think I can live my life like that. Basically I would need to live off lettuce and quit my job (apparently a stressful job will stop me conceiving so I have to quit it - hmmmm. Not having enough money to pay the mortgage would be so relaxing wouldn't it Confused)

But I am going to cut out alcohol and eat as healthily as possible - that is doable Smile

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CareBear1 · 02/01/2012 21:31

In case you're interested, this is the lists of other possible symptoms in the book i've got about traditional chinese medicine for 'spleen qi deficiency':

Feeling fatigued
Poor appetite
Energy lower after a meal
Feeling bloated after eating
Craving sweet food
Having loose stools, abdominal pain, or digestive problems
Cold hands and feet
Prone to feeling heavy and sluggish
Prone to feeling heaviness or grogginess in the head
Bruising easily
Poor circulation
Varicose veins
Lacking in strength in arms and legs
Prone to worry
Low blood pressure
Sweating easily
Feeling dizzy or lightheaded when standing up too quickly
Menstruation that is thin, watery or pinkish in colour
Feeling more tired around ovulation and menstruation
Spotting a few days before a period comes
Menstrual cramps with a bearing down sensation on uterus
Tongue that is swollenish with teeth marks round the side

weimy · 02/01/2012 16:47

I get a brown spotting 3/4 days before AF proper arrives too. I have been TTC for well over a year now.

Quodlibet · 02/01/2012 11:58

Watching with interest too - I've always had a day or two of brown spotting before AF, but recently had a couple of cycles spotting brown very early, and of bright red spotting after sex (like start of AF, but then doesn't continue) up to a week before AF is due. Have just started Ttc for the first time, so I'll be keeping an eye on it.

heatherbee36 · 01/01/2012 13:55

Just my experience but up until my miscarriage last September (I was 13 weeks) I had been experiencing spotting for years. It lasted anything from 5 days up to 2 weeks (just after ovulation)before AF. I had been to the Dr numerous times in tears thinking it would prevent me conceiving but then bingo! one month my period never properly arrived -though I had been spotting just as usual -very confusing! So in my case, the spotting didn't stop me getting pregnant :)

Interestingly, since my mc I have very little spotting and am wondering if my pregnancy somehow 'corrected' a hormone imbalance? Still ttc now again and good luck to all you ladies! :)

CareBear1 · 31/12/2011 20:00

Whyso, i thought that side of chinese medicine theory was interesting too, i was getting fungal infections, and often having loose stools, and generally feeling really tired all the time, and since i've started some of the treatments these have either stopped or reduced hugely. I know some people think that alternative treatments have mostly a psychosomatic effect but i think there's more to it than that. last month i felt way more horny than usual! and i've seen more EWCM so far this month than usual.

scrummy i had prog pessaries during my ivf and still spotted about 3 days prior to AF but then again there's stronger meds with ivf.

squirrel in the past i have spotted in every possible day throughout the cycle (on different cycles) - often after AF. The spotting after af, and very dark brown / black blood has stopped since i've been having acu.

Scrummybumb · 31/12/2011 19:27

Just jumping in to add my story. I spot every month - before and after. Sometimes up to 7 days before AF arrives proper. Like all of you, doctors not concerned, but when i mentioned it to my private consultant he automatically said it would be just my progesterone levels lowering. I have very high progesterone levels during mid-LP, so it made sense. Having just gone through two cycles of IUI, I've been on progesterone pessaries during the TWW, which extended my LP from 14 to 17 days with minimal to no spotting both cycles before AF.
Interestingly enough, Clomid reduced my AF to next to nothing, so not good for my uterus lining.

Hope you all get your BFPs in 2012!

Squirrel77 · 31/12/2011 03:01

Hmmm, this is all very interesting.

Since having the Mirena removed 4 months ago I have spotted for 2-3 days before AF, old brown blood. Not sure why. Has anyone else had this as well - I wonder if
it has to do with the body self regulating after Mirena? It's bloody (haha) annoying anyway.

WishingIWasLucky · 31/12/2011 00:59

Very interesting thread this... I don't get any spotting BEFORE AF just AFTER! So, the first three to four days normal red bleed, starts heavy lasts like that for two days, light on third day and lighter on fourth; then for the following three to four days dark brown spotting. Never had that prior to six months ago. Cycle length decreased from Regular 28 days, to 25,26,27. Very strange. Any ideas?

HereKittyKitty · 30/12/2011 22:42

Oooh, marking my place, as I am TTC my first and have had this with every cycle since coming off the pill (September). Didn't realise it was anything other than normal...

AmandinePoulain · 30/12/2011 22:06

Oh, and I haven't ever had spotting before getting a bfp...my last pregnancy I didn't bleed until 11 weeks when the mmc was diagnosed, with dd it started at 5 weeks, this time nothing so far

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