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Fx ratata

I'n so sorry Ratata, keeping everything crossed for you

Will keep you all updated though x

I may be back I had a BFN today and now constant spotting. I think it's a chemical pregnancy. Gutted.

Awesome - ERTD has finally done one so I can jump the husband tonight!!

Trying EPO this month as well to see if that has any effect - thought I was a bit light on CM last month so maybe this will do the trick!!

Ratata, congratulations on your BFP! Lots of people say relax and get drunk but the longer you try, the easier the drunk bit gets and the harder the relax bit :D

Thanks CaveMum and alwyn I'm over the moon

pale212 I used ovulation sticks for 2 months to figure out my fertile days. Having sex every couple of days can give you a better chance as well. The 2 times I have fallen pregnant were when we weren't really trying (I know that sounds annoying to those who are trying so hard!). I was pretty drunk on the weekend that I believe we conceived this time so I was very relaxed lol.

Congratulations Ratata!!!

Hopefully we'll all be following you out soon! Would love ERTD to finish so I can get back to it!

Ratata, mahoosive congratulations!

Pale it all depends how mental you want to go! I'm not really the best person to advise as my PCOS means I have very screwy cycles.

Holy balls is what I thought when I saw my pregnancy test this morning... BFP!!!! I really felt pg so I'm glad I was right. I do feel bad though as my stay has been short and I wish it would happen for those who have been waiting longer like you evilgiraffe I hope it happens for you all soon.

Thanks for having me again waves I will be keeping an eye on the thread to keep up with you all xxx

I can feel that the evil red tide of doom is edging closer alas (although am 1 day late so up until half an hour ago i was all 'the hiiiiillls are aliiiiive, with the sound of baaaaaaaby', but it's imminent, I can feel it). Confused by pee sticks and my own baffling fertility patterns. Have got MyDaysX smart phone app, but what do people do, pee sticks, temp taking?? Or just having endless bloody sex with own husband?!

I know! And a friend of mine gave birth today too, but I only found that out a minute ago. It's all very good news, obviously, but jealously is a hard thing to live with. Oh well. One day, my friends, it will be us!

Oh evil That is just, well, evil!

Have a look at my profile pics - added one today after seeing four-foot high balloons in tesco that made me think "fuck my life". At the same time, it is quite funny, really - at least I know I'm not imagining baby things being everywhere I go, they really ARE everywhere I go!

Very frustrating indeed cavemum everything is now a pg symptom lol.

evilgiraffe thanks and yeah always good to take your mind off things when you start to feel down about it xx

I have my fingers crossed, Ratata!

No news here, CD15 and feeling completely pessimistic and unhappy about the whole thing. Thankfully good friends, DH, and some much-needed sunshine have been taking my mind off it today :)

I know what you mean about all the "symptoms", it's so easy to convince yourself that they are all pregnancy symptoms. Frustrating!

So yeah... Way too many pg symptoms right now. I had some cramping, extra cervical mucus and I have on and off nausea. Could I be....? No idea. I feel similar to when I was pg before the mmc. Due to test next Friday. If I am then it was likely that we would have conceived the night that we were both wasted. Nice. Lol

Hi again all, sorry I've been a while. Big congrats to zippys fab news!

cavemum hope the next 10 days go quickly for you xx

I'm ok. Not paying much attention to my dates and things as I think we missed my fertile window. Or we may just have got it, unsure. I've only had one AF since mmc and that took 6 weeks to arrive. So really I don't know where I stand lol. Been having little crampy feelings, period due next Friday I think.

Saw a pregnant woman in the supermarket, that was hard. I really didn't think a mmc would affect me so much. Then I started getting cold feet about having a baby. Today I think I feel normal. Ahh roller coasters lol.

Hope everyone is busy 'at it' haha.

How's everyone doing? No news to report here, CD47 and still no ov. Counting down the days till my consultant appointment, 11 days to go!

Much better, thanks, raspberry - hormones have calmed down so the ability to be pragmatic has returned! Also DH is home again after being away with work all week, so that's helped too. Back to the grind now though - SWI is such a chore, eh?!

Oh, zippys that's fantastic! I am so pleased for you, huge hugs :)

Thanks everyone, reading everyones lovely comments has made me well up - can i blame pregnancy hormones

Congrats Zippy!
For the newbies- I was on this thread a while back and now have a beautiful daughter who will be 9 months next week :0)

Wishing you all luck in your baby making antics xxxx